Violent three year old

[SistahD]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: f0rTyLeGz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ayanna_Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">worst case scenario call child services to come and have the child examined by a specialist... </div></div>

Lawd really did not want to do that but I ran something by my step granmere, she teaches Psychology (speciality cognitive science) at the University out here. I am going to visit one day and take her with me and let her observe. I know if she feels something is wrong she will get involve. </div></div>
That sounds like a good plan.

But I agree with SistahD ... for this child to have a normal life, she is going to need parents in her life that give her love and loving attention 24/7. No child is going to grow strong, healthy and happy, whose mother believes the child is &quot;evil.&quot;

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The child needs to 'know' she is loved and safe and a part of the family. But she also needs to know and abide by the rules, be disciplined when she acts out, and watched carefully (cause they can be sneaky)

[shanna]

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Dear friend I agree with you this little girl really needs help..If they fail to see that there is a problem. there is nothing much you can do to help.Sometime people just refuse to accept the truth. Pray for them.

[Boopie2]

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I posted this topic several months ago. The biggest reason I quit my last job was the 3 year old boy would try to harm his one year old sister on a daily basis. Of course their parents knew and were in denial big time, I was the 15th person that was hired. I have never had a child like this in my entire life.

[Suesumba]

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a three year old with access to knives ...

[Dr.Dudd]

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They created the problem and then complaiin.
they should not fight in the presence of the child so young.
Not t in frront of no body for that matter. The child learn that as a means of communicating his/her feling. It is not because they are mad,but they use violence as a means of interaction.

[Stormmey]

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who says they fight

[Dr.Dudd]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> who says they fight </div></div> Ask them.

[britisha]

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*LOL* @ Dr. Dudd.

picknie needs to see a shrink..plain and simple...trying to smother another child is no joke.

[Stormmey]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> who says they fight </div></div> Ask them. </div></div>

They dont, think something happened when she was with her birth Mom. She came to them like that.....sigh poor baby need help tho

[Amberal37]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: f0rTyLeGz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ayanna_Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">worst case scenario call child services to come and have the child examined by a specialist... </div></div>

Lawd really did not want to do that but I ran something by my step granmere, she teaches Psychology (speciality cognitive science) at the University out here. I am going to visit one day and take her with me and let her observe. I know if she feels something is wrong she will get involve. </div></div>
That sounds like a good plan.

But I agree with SistahD ... for this child to have a normal life, she is going to need parents in her life that give her love and loving attention 24/7. No child is going to grow strong, healthy and happy, whose mother believes the child is &quot;evil.&quot;

Some... perhaps many young women have babies because they believe (in their naivete and ignorance) that their baby <span style="font-style: italic">will love them.</span> They don't have any notion about the stress and work and anxiety that a new born will cause in their life. Many young mothers lose it, they are violent and abusive with their newborn. Then they are overcome with guilt... and then blame the child for their awful relationship. </div></div>

<span style="font-weight: bold">Just catching up with this and wondering whether you had any further news on whether your step-gran could help in any way?</span>

[Stormmey]

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No Amber,I didn't as my little bro surgery taking a turn and a twist. That's all occuping me right now.

[FrenchTickla]

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to u brother , u and ur family stormmey