What is a "bonified Yaad Man/woman" to you?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: What is a "bonified Yaad Man/woman" to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so wah unu a try say..my views of a good woman is "outdated"?
A woman who can cook, clean and take care of her man/family is outdated?
A woman weh can wash har drawz, take care of her personal hygene is outdated?

lol based pon unu views of relationship nowadays its as if all unu woman waa do is open unu foot, s....k man h.....d, man e....t unu out and give unu money. Then when unu done shoppin fi de latest clothes de man tek out out to dinner. </div></div>


Actually Kingy if a man is capable of earning enough money that the woman does not have to work outside the home then No, those views are not outdated. BUT if we both have to work outside the home to make ends meet then you better belive that MAN had better know how to cook, clean, wash clothes AND tek care a pickney as well.


That to me is a Bonified MAN [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[neutral]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NeezAynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">


Actually Kingy if a man is capable of earning enough money that the woman does not have to work outside the home then No, those views are not outdated. BUT if we both have to work outside the home to make ends meet then you better belive that MAN had better know how to cook, clean, wash clothes AND tek care a pickney as well.


That to me is a Bonified MAN [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>

Personally I dont think a woman should work,except in the home,....all this talk of women working and all this "empowerment" and equality nonsense has only served to lead to where we are today,...a total breakdown in not only family values,but a total breakdown in the traditional family structure,we sleep walked into it to appease the "wimmins rights" brigade,now we are all seeing the legacy of the family breakdown,..feral young men and women who are passing on this lack of values to the next generation.

[kingy]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

a wah kinda lazy man unu tek up. one thing I promote is a woman freedom. go make that money. be independent. that way if you are with me i know its for nothing but you wanna be with me. I have no problem cleaning and cooking. as a matter of fact I like feeding my family and making sure they have food to eat. Thats how I grew up. But dont think you are gonna be a figurine inna my house. dont think because you making u own money you gonna be paying someone to clean a small house. get those knees and knuckles and get the moppin and sweetping. I will never talk to a woman who cant cook or willing to learn how to cook.

[julie*mango]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

A bonafide yard man is a man who takes care of all his responsibilities..both at home and at work. He is productive in all areas of his life and is not lazy. He cares deeply for his family and will never do anything to disrespect his home.
He loves his wife and will do anything to make her happy including picking up the slack in the home when necessary and finding new ways to please her in the bedroom. He is firm with her when he needs to be, but is calm natured in general and almost always willing to compromise. He supports his wife in all her efforts, whether she wants to be Holly Housewife or Career Mom.


A bonafide yard woman is there for her family 100%. Physically, emotionally, and financially if needs be. She is the rock and foundation of the home...she takes care of her home, her children, and her man. She can cook her pants off, clean like dirt is a sin, and make love to her man like it is the first time they've done it. She is feisty but will back down when she knows she is wrong. She is a stern disciplinarian, and that goes for her husband as well as the children.

[Kurlie]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NeezAynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">


Actually Kingy if a man is capable of earning enough money that the woman does not have to work outside the home then No, those views are not outdated. BUT if we both have to work outside the home to make ends meet then you better belive that MAN had better know how to cook, clean, wash clothes AND tek care a pickney as well.


That to me is a Bonified MAN [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>

Personally I dont think a woman should work,except in the home,....all this talk of women working and all this "empowerment" and equality nonsense has only served to lead to where we are today,...a total breakdown in not only family values,but a total breakdown in the traditional family structure,we sleep walked into it to appease the "wimmins rights" brigade,now we are all seeing the legacy of the family breakdown,..feral young men and women who are passing on this lack of values to the next generation. </div></div>

wedda a ooman work in or outside the home it is equality

[kingy]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

Skelly....i knew there is a reason why mi likes you vibez. I dont think anyone can come with a better response.

too bad more than likely if you are a jamaican female below 29, half of what it takes to be a bonified jamaican woman they dont have. and i know because they are my age group. most of these females 29 and below are some of the laziest and nastiest set a females mi come cross. They cant cook fi save dem life. clean? ha. and more than half think their front is what it takes to keep a man. check the passa passa videos. lol

[MarieK]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

kissteet, it depends pan weh yuh a look fi di ooman dem yuh eva fine sheep inna hag pen yet?

kissteet.

[MarieK]

Re: What is a "bonified Yaad Man/woman" to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsKurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NeezAynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">


Actually Kingy if a man is capable of earning enough money that the woman does not have to work outside the home then No, those views are not outdated. BUT if we both have to work outside the home to make ends meet then you better belive that MAN had better know how to cook, clean, wash clothes AND tek care a pickney as well.


That to me is a Bonified MAN [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>

Personally I dont think a woman should work,except in the home,....all this talk of women working and all this "empowerment" and equality nonsense has only served to lead to where we are today,...a total breakdown in not only family values,but a total breakdown in the traditional family structure,we sleep walked into it to appease the "wimmins rights" brigade,now we are all seeing the legacy of the family breakdown,..feral young men and women who are passing on this lack of values to the next generation. </div></div>

wedda a ooman work in or outside the home it is equality </div></div>

a smart woman knows how to balance the two and an equally smart man will be able to identify the areas she is weary in an step in.

Mi nuh know is wah kine a tufenkeh umman unnu a tekk up now a days.

if mi have a son an him carry home some a weh mi see out deh yuh see.

Some a dem gyal nuh even know how fi bade demself suh di front weh dem a awfa according tuh Kingy nuh worth it.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] at dis whole ting......

[kingy]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

but K. as mi mention...most females 29 and below cant do half the things a 30 and above female can do.

These females are preoccupied with Ipod, TV, Gossip, passa passa. clothes. phone. parties. looking pretty. who a de hottest.

yes you can find diamond inna ruff but it seems like for example mi a look fi a ooman weh can do tings we my parents can do..dem a say mi old school and outdated.

[MarieK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but K. as mi mention...most females 29 and below cant do half the things a 30 and above female can do.

These females are preoccupied with Ipod, TV, Gossip, passa passa. clothes. phone. parties. looking pretty. who a de hottest.

yes you can find diamond inna ruff but it seems like for example mi a look fi a ooman weh can do tings we my parents can do..dem a say mi old school and outdated. </div></div>

Kingy baby mi hear man a chat di same bout 30 and above but memba dis sweetie pie, mi a wake up 5:00 a.m. an cook big breakfast since mi married at age 26 and when we were dating age 24 and inna mi previous relationship before di marrij age 19.

It just depends on where you look.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsMarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but K. as mi mention...most females 29 and below cant do half the things a 30 and above female can do.

These females are preoccupied with Ipod, TV, Gossip, passa passa. clothes. phone. parties. looking pretty. who a de hottest.

yes you can find diamond inna ruff but it seems like for example mi a look fi a ooman weh can do tings we my parents can do..dem a say mi old school and outdated. </div></div>

Kingy baby mi hear man a chat di same bout 30 and above but memba dis sweetie pie, mi a wake up 5:00 a.m. an cook big breakfast since mi married at age 26 and when we were dating age 24 and inna mi previous relationship before di marrij age 19.

It just depends on where you look.

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] no every ooman lazy.....

mi ah cook, clean an watch pikney fram mi ah 12.......

Mi madda ah regela weh falla stone love an dem ppl deh, an troo mi ah di oldest, mi leff wid di wukkins......

Like Marie seh, it depend pan weh yu ah look.....an yu haffi look weh kinna ooman yu attract too an evaluate dat.....

[kingy]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

not at all. but most of the ones 29 and below cant do ish.

[MarieK]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

an mek mi add yuh need a ooman who versatile, it is possible to find a woman who can cook clean run a home fine time fi wuk an let dung har hair an lick back two stones an tek eeen a seshan.

[kingy]

Re: What is a &quot;bonified Yaad Man/woman&quot; to you?

K...you have no sweet female weh u can link mi wid? look like dem inna your circle.