Drama

[Phatty]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MissDiva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I guess i kwestion har motives

i wonder if she called them really because of the dawta's behavior of did shi do it to MAKE SURE the dawta couldnt get har babygirl back EVER since she can't have pickney so shi can keep di dawta baby?

Caws hearing from odda ppl experience wid dem CPS ppl, di dawta would haffi PROVE shi fit to tek har babygirl back. So if she cyaan prove it den my co-worker would have di babygirl anyway. I juss doan think it was necessary for har to call and tell. i think the dawta woodan dug har own hole juss by not doing wah shi was supposed to do... </div></div>

Girl thats some real days of our lives Shuga! What ah ting if a troo ie

[LusciousJohnson]

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Now the dawta haffi go to the CPS place to have visitation wid har babygirl. She can only go once a week for one hour all because of di phone call fram mi co-worker

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MissDiva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I guess i kwestion har motives

i wonder if she called them really because of the dawta's behavior of did shi do it to MAKE SURE the dawta couldnt get har babygirl back EVER since she can't have pickney so shi can keep di dawta baby?

Caws hearing from odda ppl experience wid dem CPS ppl, di dawta would haffi PROVE shi fit to tek har babygirl back. So if she cyaan prove it den my co-worker would have di babygirl anyway. I juss doan think it was necessary for har to call and tell. i think the dawta woodan dug har own hole juss by not doing wah shi was supposed to do... </div></div>

Girl thats some real days of our lives Shuga! What ah ting if a troo ie
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Well my co-worker is di receptionist and she tell EVERYBODY bout the situation. Some pple agree shi did the right ting and some ppl tink she is dyam outta orda for calling on har husband dawta. PLUS di husband doan know SHI is di one dat call the CPS ppl

[Nylah]

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the co-worker did the right thing but u are still right - her motivations for doing the right thing were based on her own wants.

nevertheless, just cause this girl has a child doesnt mean she should be a mother whatsoever. Not everyone is made for motherhood just cause they have ovaries.

the problem with waiting for the daughter to sheg up her own chances of getting her babygirl back may come at the price of the child's well-being, so for that reason, the mother did the right thing inspite of her inner selfishness.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MissDiva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Now the dawta haffi go to the CPS place to have visitation wid har babygirl. She can only go once a week for one hour all because of di phone call fram mi co-worker </div></div>


if she was coming to MY house to vist har picney an bringing her party/druggie frenz you best bet mi a call CPS pan har...aftah mi tell har noh fi darken mi door step again

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

the co-worker did the right thing but u are still right - <span style="font-weight: bold">her motivations for doing the right thing were based on her own wants.</span>
nevertheless, just cause this girl has a child doesnt mean she should be a mother whatsoever. Not everyone is made for motherhood just cause they have ovaries.

the problem with waiting for the daughter to sheg up her own chances of getting her babygirl back may come at the price of the child's well-being, so for that reason, the mother did the right thing inspite of her inner selfishness. </div></div>

dat is what i doan think is right

but you are right...not everyone is cut out to be a mother and the dawta is DEFINATELY showing that to everyone involved. Even di poor baby.

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_to_Rhatid</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MissDiva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Now the dawta haffi go to the CPS place to have visitation wid har babygirl. She can only go once a week for one hour all because of di phone call fram mi co-worker </div></div>


if she was coming to MY house to vist har picney an bringing her party/druggie frenz you best bet mi a call CPS pan har...aftah mi tell har noh fi darken mi door step again </div></div>

This what was the final straw that made her call CPS fram what shi tell mi tiddeh

[MarieK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MissDiva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i forgot to mention this early on but

<span style="color: #CC0000"> My co-worker has had 2 miscarriages and it appears she cant carry a child to term so she wont be able to have kids of her own</span>

Both miscarriages were with her husband because he wants to have another child with my co-worker and of course my co-worker wants to have a child of her own but shi cant

Soh my co-worker calls the CPS lady and tells her EVERYTHING! What the dawta has been doing (drugs and partying and bring the friends over) and alla dem tings deh. Well the CPS lady stawt to investigate and found out the dawta hadnt been going to the classes and the dawta had been telling har parents that she WAS going. So the parents mad wit har. </div></div>

2 miscarriages doesn't mean she can't carry a baby full term it just means she's not being given the right &quot;care&quot; my friend whent through 3 before she found a maternal fetal specialist of course she had to inject herself everyday but she carried a beautiful baby boy full term.

[Bizzy]

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dangit. dis look like sumting mi gwan have to read fi mek proper comment pon..

can only do that at work

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NylahDon</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

the co-worker did the right thing but u are still right - her motivations for doing the right thing were based on her own wants.

nevertheless, just cause this girl has a child doesnt mean she should be a mother whatsoever. Not everyone is made for motherhood just cause they have ovaries.

the problem with waiting for the daughter to sheg up her own chances of getting her babygirl back may come at the price of the child's well-being, so for that reason, the mother did the right thing inspite of her inner selfishness. </div></div>

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsMarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MissDiva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i forgot to mention this early on but

<span style="color: #CC0000"> My co-worker has had 2 miscarriages and it appears she cant carry a child to term so she wont be able to have kids of her own</span>

Both miscarriages were with her husband because he wants to have another child with my co-worker and of course my co-worker wants to have a child of her own but shi cant

Soh my co-worker calls the CPS lady and tells her EVERYTHING! What the dawta has been doing (drugs and partying and bring the friends over) and alla dem tings deh. Well the CPS lady stawt to investigate and found out the dawta hadnt been going to the classes and the dawta had been telling har parents that she WAS going. So the parents mad wit har. </div></div>

2 miscarriages doesn't mean she can't carry a baby full term it just means she's not being given the right &quot;care&quot; my friend whent through 3 before she found a maternal fetal specialist of course she had to inject herself everyday but she carried a beautiful baby boy full term. </div></div>

This is true. This is exactly what the doctor told her that she would have to take injections and be on bed rest in order for her to try to have a successful pregnancy. But she told me she's scared to try to do alla dat and then still have a chance of not having a successful pregnancy.

But i tell her to keep praying and trying and hopefully it will happen. Now that this situation with her grand baby i think she is just giving up on trying to have her own and take the grandbaby to raise as her own since she is still a baby. She's 9 months old.

[Hush Darlin]

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well I think she did the right thing
the dawta get back the baby
den what happen?
if anything goes bad after the dawta get back the baby she will have to live with that guilt for the rest of her life.

I have a friend who is married she has grown kids but none for the husband and sh ecant have anymore and the husband dont have any kids of his own and he loves kids and would want
Ayhow the wife has a son who has two baby maddas one wid 3 kids and one wid 2
the one wid 3 kids is a druggie and CAS took away her kids and had themin foster care the son did not want his mother finding out but somehow she did as by then the kids mother was in jail.

So she found out where her grandkids were in foster care and went to court and got permanent custody of the 3 kids and they are no wliving with her and her husband.

The mother she is in and out of jail.

[dr. bones]

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She needs to tell hubby that she is the one who called. They need to be in this whole thing together, and keeping secrets from him is wrong.

She may be setting herself up for heart break anyways. The mom will have to give up parental rights for co-worker to adopt and be new mommy. Otherwise, CPS likes to have kids w/ biological parents, so co-worker will get attached, then have to give baby back to her daughter when she proves she is more responsible.

[LusciousJohnson]

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I totally agree. i think the husband will be irate when he finds out she did this behind his back.

The heartbreak was my biggest fear for her from the beginning because everybody loves babies so u easily get attached when they are with u all the time. and i think she knows eventually the dawta will get it together and get her baby back. Thats why i think she is deliberately trying to make the dawta look bad to CPS so CPS will decide the baby is better off with my co-worker instead of the dawta

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">well I think she did the right thing
the dawta get back the baby
den what happen?
<span style="font-weight: bold">if anything goes bad after the dawta get back the baby she will have to live with that guilt for the rest of her life.</span>
I have a friend who is married she has grown kids but none for the husband and sh ecant have anymore and the husband dont have any kids of his own and he loves kids and would want
Ayhow the wife has a son who has two baby maddas one wid 3 kids and one wid 2
the one wid 3 kids is a druggie and CAS took away her kids and had themin foster care the son did not want his mother finding out but somehow she did as by then the kids mother was in jail.

So she found out where her grandkids were in foster care and went to court and got permanent custody of the 3 kids and they are no wliving with her and her husband.

The mother she is in and out of jail. </div></div>

true. thats a good point