child support

[Bizzy]

Re: child support

blah blah blah..nuff man chat de same ting an when pikney come is anedda story

nobody can predict how smaddy wi behave when real life an presha lick dem..

yuh jus hafi know fi get yuhself outta it when it get bad. but de man dem fi still tek care a dem pikney...nuh worry bout wah de ooman a do wid de money..at least u know say u do ur part...an money annuh de only ting dem can contribute either..jus caw dem an de madda lef nuh mean dem nuh fi spen quality time wid de kid(s) either..

[reddgrrl]

Re: child support

IMO, I don't think "getting lazy" is equal to being an abusive [censored].

But yes, everyone changes after a relationship reaches a certain point, both men and women.

[kingy]

Re: child support

lol unu know a de same ting wid women. I trust no female.....even if dem tell me dem would not want ish from me if we married and mi get rich.

[kingy]

Re: child support

bizi.. im talking what IM DOING. i have a son and im DOING what im talking.

[Bizzy]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body">bizi.. im talking what IM DOING. i have a son and im DOING what im talking. </div></div>an mi a chat bout nuff man

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_2_da_max</div><div class="ubbcode-body">blah blah blah..nuff man chat de same ting an when pikney come is anedda story

nobody can predict how smaddy wi behave when real life an presha lick dem..

yuh jus hafi know fi get yuhself outta it when it get bad. but de man dem fi still tek care a dem pikney...nuh worry bout wah de ooman a do wid de money..at least u know say u do ur part...an money annuh de only ting dem can contribute either..jus caw dem an de madda lef nuh mean dem nuh fi spen quality time wid de kid(s) either..

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Very true Bizi......nuh watch weh shi ah do. As lang as yu ah tek care ah yu pikney an dem awrite, dats all yu fi wurry bout.

An yes people change, both man an ooman.

[Gen]

Re: child support

oh redd next time he calls, inform him that


&quot;as a courtesy, and because I am such a nice person I want you to know that your passport <span style="font-weight: bold">will and can</span> be confiscated by the authorities, if you don't get your act together&quot;

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: child support

I notice (could be wrong) that many of the &quot;deadbeat dads&quot; were raised by single mothers with little or no father in the picture

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: child support

mi can imagine di look pan im face.... but yu betta dan mi caws mi wooda mek sure im buy di ticket an ting, guh ah airport an surprise wen im passport suspended.

mi know my son fawda ah cuss mi caws mi get every penny ah him tax return.....

Him lucky.....

[reddgrrl]

Re: child support

lots of men do handle their bizness.

My dad continued to pay <span style="font-weight: bold">all</span> of my mom's bills after they were divorced. And anytime my sister or I needed anything, he was there. So I grew up thinking that even if a man and a woman don't stay together, both parents would still take care of the kids.

And the same thing with my now-hubby: his parents divorced when he was a baby but he knew his dad, spent every summer and holiday with him and his dad would take care of his financial responsibility to his mom. Neither of our mothers had to go to court to force ours dads to take care of dem pickney.

And if a parent is a real woman or real man, a court shouldn't have to force you to take care of your responsibility.

[Gen]

Re: child support

so if the man is concerned that the woman is buying prada bag, why him nuh guh purchase the pickney clothes himself ? him nuh see seh we have winter and summer suh galang guh buy winter gear and den when summer come galang guh buy summer gear.

if him want him guh a suprmarket a week time and pick up the groceries fi the pickney and drap dem off. wah suh hard bout dat ? all him haffi do is pay the bills and keep receipt in case dem haffi buck up a court \0/


why people muss mek tings suh difficult \0/

[Gen]

Re: child support

mi nain a tell a soul a ting , but redd sound like she a nice smaddy man



<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi can imagine di look pan im face.... but yu betta dan mi caws mi wooda mek sure im buy di ticket an ting, guh ah airport an surprise wen im passport suspended.

mi know my son fawda ah cuss mi caws mi get every penny ah him tax return.....

Him lucky..... </div></div>

[reddgrrl]

Re: child support

yes, he is finding out that not only are they suspending his license, his credit has a judgement on it in addition to the warrant for his arrest.

I tried to tell him...

and yes, he was raised by his mother after his father left her for another woman. And she constantly has made excuses for his sorry behind. My favorite was when she called me asking why I had him locked up for jumping on me...she actually said &quot;you know it was just a misunderstanding, that's how men act sometimes.&quot;

I was horrified to say the VERY least.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: child support

Battam line Gen, di wutless bwoy nuh wan help tek care ah dem pikney.....

[kingy]

Re: child support

But how de man nuffi watch wah she a do wid de money? How can i be providing for the CHILD..yet you a used de money fi tek care of yourself. Most times these men are suffering from child support payments..and if the woman can take care of the child and herself from the money, she dont need to get all that money. the system should lower the payments so HE can live a little bit comfy while she go out go wuk.

which question how healthy the child is. a mean..instead of him getting him milk, fruites and vege...him gettin bullybeef while she spending money on herself? mek no sense.