My Married Ex

**Kurlie** · 09-23-2008, 10:26 PM

Re: My Married Ex

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 1Tanya1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsKurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 1Tanya1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> meeda neva get dat </div></div>

what you saying Tanya...dat mi lingua is nat comprehenable? </div></div>

mi nat saying dat yu know K juss nat comprehensible by moi </div></div>

gwan laugh..a want yu drap

**johnnycakes** · 09-24-2008, 12:29 PM

Re: My Married Ex

Tanya,
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".

You wouldn't want your husband or man friend calling up and meeting with his old lovers would you?

Think how that would make you feel.

Stay away from him. TOTALLY.

It's the right thing to do.

After their marriage is mashed up and gone, THEN see if he calls you.

And.. if YOU'RE then married or tight with another man, what are you going to do?

**johnnycakes** · 09-24-2008, 12:32 PM

Re: My Married Ex

From another thread: , same forum:

#852103 - 09/17/08 08:24 AM My cheater said:
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Posts: 7847
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My cheater said:
"you are so suspicious, you need help because its all in your head"
My cheater said:
"Oh, she is just like a sister to me, that's all"
My cheater said:
"I wouldn't do that to you. I swear"
I swear he said:
"Do you believe me or your own eyes?"
My cheater said:
"we were talking about his girl friends problems"
My cheater said:
"You are trying to control me and it is not going to be that way"
My cheater said:
"I don't know why I gave her my phone number"
My cheater said:
"It's a fatal attraction"

What my husband said when I called his cell phone and it clicked on while he was having sex with another woman:
"it wasn't me! The cell phones must have been crossed with someone else's"

After I finally decided to remotely tap into my wife's computer after months of her staying up all night in internet chat rooms to find love messages between her and another man. My cheater said:
"Why were you spying on me?"

My cheater said:
"I don't start the conversations on the IM,
I only respond after she starts talking first"
My cheater said:
"yes I have a girlfriend, but we don't have sex, I discuss with her the problems we are having in our marriage"
My cheater said:
"I didn't think you loved me"
This was after my fiance went out with a "friend"
and had sex with her. What a fiance, huh?

My cheater said:
"Nothing is happening, we are just friends, and enjoy each others company. You are really blowing this out of proportion"
My cheater said:
"why were you checking my phone anyway?"
My cheater said:
"I have a present for you and if you don't go away I won't give it to you"
My cheater said:
"I'm going on another business trip"
My cheater said:
"I wasn't sending the emails to her. I was sending them to her computer"
My cheater said:
"we are just buddies and nothing else!"
My cheater said:
"I was just curious"
My cheater said:
"If you were a better wife and a better lover, I would not have to turn to other married women. If you would join me in the swinger's lifestyle, it would not be considered cheating since you would be right there with me."
My cheater said:
"I don't wear my wedding ring because I am allergic"
My cheater said:
"I just wanted to have a friend of my own"
My cheater said:
"I was peer pressured into it"
My cheater said:
"I thought about you the whole time it was happening"
My cheater said:
"I could never bring myself to cheat on you. That girl that called claiming we had sex was a basket case. Ask anyone"
My cheater said:
"are you cheating?"
My cheater said:
"I can't say no to him"
My cheater said:
"It's only harmless flirting... it's not like I was ever going to meet her"
My cheater said:
"With every one of them, I fantasized it was you"
My cheater said:
"She's a good friend of my mother"
My cheater said:
"I missed you and she looked like you"
My cheater said:
"Oh that number on my cellphone is just a side job."
My cheater said:
"I couldn't get a signal on my cell phone to call
you and tell you I was too tired to drive
1 1/2hrs to our home"
My cheater said:
"You've driven me away from you"
My cheater said:
"If I wanted to cheat, I wouldn't be cheating with a married women"
My cheater said:
"The only reason i was talking to her was about us"

What my husband told me when I found a strange number on the caller Id box:
"I am dealing with a bookie for gambling and didn't want you to find out"
My cheater said:
"I would never do that to you, i love you baby, you should trust me"
Right up until I handed him the phone with her on the other end.
My cheater said:
"I can't break up with her instead of you because you can handle it better"
My cheater said:
"I'm just giving you the time and the space that you need"

**Bizzy** · 09-24-2008, 12:38 PM

Re: My Married Ex

DWL @ the cheater post

**diabolical_Tanya** · 09-24-2008, 12:39 PM

Re: My Married Ex

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: johnnycakes</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Tanya,
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".

You wouldn't want your husband or man friend calling up and meeting with his old lovers would you?

Think how that would make you feel.

Stay away from him. TOTALLY.

It's the right thing to do.

After their marriage is mashed up and gone, THEN see if he calls you.

And.. if YOU'RE then married or tight with another man, what are you going to do?

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Johnnycakes (Fry dumplin )

I don't have a problem with my guy talking to his ex girlfriend/wife/lover it doesn't bother me in the least bit. Because I know there is nothing going on. NOW if he was being all shady and secretive and trying to hide the communication from me that would be another story.

I doubt if a person past 30 can hook up with someone who doesnt have baggage that is permanently tied to them, be it alimony or children. so for me to begrudge a man communication with his ex wife or mother of his kids what sort of person would that make me?

an Ex is an Ex for a reason.....if my man want's to get back with his Ex I ain't gonna stand in his way

**mountaingal** · 09-24-2008, 01:12 PM

Re: My Married Ex

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_8s_u</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't have a problem with my guy talking to his ex girlfriend/wife/lover it doesn't bother me in the least bit. Because I know there is nothing going on. <span style="font-weight: bold">NOW if he was being all shady and secretive and trying to hide the communication from me that would be another story. </span>
I doubt if a person past 30 can hook up with someone who doesnt have baggage that is permanently tied to them, be it alimony or children. so for me to begrudge a man communication with his ex wife or mother of his kids what sort of person would that make me?

an Ex is an Ex for a reason.....<span style="font-weight: bold">if my man want's to get back with his Ex I ain't gonna stand in his way </span> </div></div>

you know, long after i should have known better, a man told me that he liked when his woman asserted her possession of him when another woman is sniffing around.

the first part bolded - do you think that's what your current ex is doing with his wife?

second part bolded - why would you not stand in his way? i know it sounds right on one level, but then again it sounds a bit like, "it's okay for him to dash weh what we have."

**julie*mango** · 09-24-2008, 01:12 PM

Re: My Married Ex

the wife is immature in my opinion...insecure for want of a better word...but Tanya is best you tell homes fi lose yu number and let him deal with his problems at home...

ETA: Me and my husband both speak to our exes from time to time and its no secret between us. Those were relationships that ended on friendly terms and I always say that exes are exes for a reason so it is not something that I would see myself venturing back into and he is just the same. I've even spoken to his ex a few times. So long as the relationship is kept in its respectful parameters I have no problem.

**diabolical_Tanya** · 09-24-2008, 01:26 PM

Re: My Married Ex

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_8s_u</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't have a problem with my guy talking to his ex girlfriend/wife/lover it doesn't bother me in the least bit. Because I know there is nothing going on. <span style="font-weight: bold">NOW if he was being all shady and secretive and trying to hide the communication from me that would be another story. </span>
I doubt if a person past 30 can hook up with someone who doesnt have baggage that is permanently tied to them, be it alimony or children. so for me to begrudge a man communication with his ex wife or mother of his kids what sort of person would that make me?

an Ex is an Ex for a reason.....<span style="font-weight: bold">if my man want's to get back with his Ex I ain't gonna stand in his way </span> </div></div>

you know, long after i should have known better, a man told me that he liked when his woman asserted her possession of him when another woman is sniffing around.

the first part bolded - do you think that's what your current ex is doing with his wife? <span style="color: #990000"> <span style="font-weight: bold">Yes he is being shady with her, and he has no need to be (as far as me an him is concerned) but mi mind tell mi dat him a step out pan har. </span> </span>

second part bolded - why would you not stand in his way? i know it sounds right on one level, but then again it sounds a bit like, "it's okay for him to dash weh what we have."

<span style="color: #CC0000"> <span style="font-weight: bold">I am not going to force anyone to stay with me/be with me. if you can't appreciate what we have and think you can find better or different out there then please, allow me to show you the door. (keep in mind that I have no kids or obligations to anyone) maybe I would feel diff if it was a marriage or a relationship with more investment </span> </span>

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