women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jah yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">to answer the topic...

i think the vast majority of women define themselves according to whether they have a man or not </div></div>

That is a very broad, sweeping generalization to make...

and what do u think men define themnselves by? </div></div>

The size they think their penis is

all joking aside...JY an mi noh care who bex but as I see it....the less educated a woman is (an mi naw chat juss book learning) the more she defines herself with or with out a man. women who have tings between their ears already KNOW who they are and don't need the title of wife, girlfren, chakka chakka john brown oooman, to define themself.

[Bandana]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_8s_u</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jah yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">to answer the topic...

i think the vast majority of women define themselves according to whether they have a man or not </div></div>

That is a very broad, sweeping generalization to make...

and what do u think men define themnselves by? </div></div>

The size they think their penis is

</div></div>

[LiteBlonde]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_8s_u</div><div class="ubbcode-body">all joking aside...JY an mi noh care who bex but as I see it....the less educated a woman is (an mi naw chat juss book learning) the more she defines herself with or with out a man. women who have tings between their ears already KNOW who they are and don't need the title of wife, girlfren, chakka chakka john brown oooman, to define themself.

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Interesting. You might have a point there still.

What I see in addition to that tho is many very educated single women who feel like a fish out a water. They cry day and night about how hard it is to find a compatible man. I have even heard some say that the time they were spending with them heads in the books, all the men got taken.

On a different note, it no matter how educated a woman gets, lonely is lonely and it really comes to bite right before sleep steal you away from the expensive scented candles and silk sheets laying up alone in the half a million upper west side condo with the BMW in the parking lot.

Lonely ain't got no respect or care for education.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

That's why I said not just book learning


Also having a man and allowing a man to define you are in my opinion 2 completly different things.......


I know nuff women up inna dem big expensive house wid di scented candles or sheets or whatever you said WITH them husband of x amount of years in bed beside dem an dem STILL A BAWL DEM SELF TO SLEEP sake a how dem lonely

[LiteBlonde]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_8s_u</div><div class="ubbcode-body">That's why I said not just book learning


Also having a man and allowing a man to define you are in my opinion 2 completly different things.......

I know nuff women up inna dem big expensive house wid di scented candles or sheets or whatever you said WITH them husband of x amount of years in bed beside dem an dem STILL A BAWL DEM SELF TO SLEEP sake a how dem lonely </div></div>

True, but somewhere along the line, it does gets transparent (man defining) and the two become one. Many can't even explain how and when it happens. All they know is that it happened.

YIKES!! U are so right about that. Ain't nuthin worse than having a man and lonely? That is one of the worse death sentences, I think. I would prefer them jook me in me eyes with rusty nail as I hang naked in sub-zero degree weather. In other words, just kill me before I would choose that. It is HELL!

[Bandana]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

what about the women that spend 30 years defining themselves by a man, just to lose him to a man tief

[LiteBlonde]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BanDanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what about the women that spend 30 years defining themselves by a man, just to lose him to a man tief

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Any woman like that need a ghetto slap. Any woman who lose a man to a man tief after spending 30 years with him, lost that man long time. She was just too fool to notice.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BanDanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what about the women that spend 30 years defining themselves by a man, just to lose him to a man tief

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Any woman like that need a ghetto slap. Any woman who lose a man to a man tief after spending 30 years with him, lost that man long time. She was just too fool to notice. </div></div>

You know what....this is slightly off topic....mek a goh start a new post. but wtr above I do agree

[jah_yout]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BanDanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_8s_u</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

to answer the topic...

i think the vast majority of women define themselves according to whether they have a man or not </div></div>

That is a very broad, sweeping generalization to make...

and what do u think men define themnselves by? </div></div>

The size they think their penis is

</div></div>

who seh soh...

if di faada bless yu wid a good size anocanda den yu juss cool...
maybe the ones with di eenie beenie a look pump &amp; juggs soh dem can define demself...
but unnu done know already...i would say maybe 80% of women feel very low without a man

[Hugo]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_8s_u</div><div class="ubbcode-body">all joking aside...JY an mi noh care who bex but as I see it....the less educated a woman is (an mi naw chat juss book learning) the more she defines herself with or with out a man. women who have tings between their ears already KNOW who they are and don't need the title of wife, girlfren, chakka chakka john brown oooman, to define themself.

</div></div>

Interesting. You might have a point there still.

What I see in addition to that tho is many very educated single women who feel like a fish out a water. They cry day and night about how hard it is to find a compatible man. I have even heard some say that the time they were spending with them heads in the books, all the men got taken.

On a different note, it no matter how educated a woman gets, lonely is lonely and it really comes to bite right before sleep steal you away from the expensive scented candles and silk sheets laying up alone in the half a million upper west side condo with the BMW in the parking lot.

Lonely ain't got no respect or care for education.

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Dot.Com, bigup and nuff respeck. You sound so grounded which puts more weight on your points.

Notice the Miss Maggies here. Looks as if yuh are mashing their corns. LOL.

[mamatun]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

No! I don't need a man, but it is nice to have one for all the togetherness things that men and women do together. It is nice to have someone to cuddle up to on a cold winter night. It is nice to have someone on the same wavelength who laughs at your jokes and understands what you are trying to say even before you get to the end of your sentence, and it is expecially nice when you <span style="text-decoration: underline">KNOW</span> that he loves you.

<span style="text-decoration: underline">BUT</span> I would still be me and certainly not less of a woman if I did not have a man, because having a man is not what makes <span style="text-decoration: underline">me</span> a woman. Therefore, I am a woman whether I have a man or not and can live with or without one and have proved it in the past.

My womanliness is defined by me being me, with or without a man.

[julie*mango]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedd

so ladies...forget defining yourself for a minute...are you all saying that you don't need a man to affirm your femininity?

[kingy]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedd

i young female in their 20s may not think they need a man. but once dem touch over 30 and dem clock start tick.....

its either:

1 dem settle for whatever comes

2 complain everyday about how dem cant find a man.

[LusciousJohnson]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedd

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i young female in their 20s may not think they need a man. but once dem touch over 30 and dem clock start tick.....

its either:

1 dem settle for whatever comes

2 complain everyday about how dem cant find a man. </div></div>

not always

could be...

3. not complain and be comfortable with their life and just accept that the right man hasnt come along yet and not settle for just anything

[kingy]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedd

show me a female who is in their 30s and above..dont have a man and think positive about men in general. unless dem inna dem over 60 and worry about other things like healthcare and retirement.