women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

[Hugo]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedd

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mary_Sunshine</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Ain't no sunshine when <span style="font-weight: bold">he's</span> gone
It's not warm when <span style="font-weight: bold">he's</span> away
Ain't no sunshine when <span style="font-weight: bold">he's </span>gone
And <span style="font-weight: bold">he's</span> always gone too long
Anytime <span style="font-weight: bold">he</span> goes away

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What you mean by &quot;oh dear&quot; Ms. Sunshine, when your little song just confirm that there is no sunshine widdout a man?
I just remember Miss Maggie, she didn't haff a man, an she did crachity an very miserable, and shi did liff to be 89 or thereabouts when she died, so while it is ain't eggzackly so; a happy life with a significant other beats a lonely miserable life anyday; and in the long run your personality fromn being miserable will defne you. Lord knows you cannot make love to a Prada or Bimmie. LOL How's that?

[Nylah]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedd


ummm, you are preaching to the choir

Thank goodness I dont have to make love to my Prada hangbags
I dont think another person can define you however, I dont buy into the theory that life is just hunky dory without a signifcant other. Life is better when you have someone to share it with. but nuff women turn into Miss Maggie and dont realize how much negativity they are projecting.......And that is what you see around here on somedays.


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Baker Street</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mary_Sunshine</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Ain't no sunshine when <span style="font-weight: bold">he's</span> gone
It's not warm when <span style="font-weight: bold">he's</span> away
Ain't no sunshine when <span style="font-weight: bold">he's </span>gone
And <span style="font-weight: bold">he's</span> always gone too long
Anytime <span style="font-weight: bold">he</span> goes away

</div></div>

What you mean by &quot;oh dear&quot; Ms. Sunshine, when your little song just confirm that there is no sunshine widdout a man?
I just remember Miss Maggie, she didn't haff a man, an she did crachity an very miserable, and shi did liff to be 89 or thereabouts when she died, so while it is ain't eggzackly so; a happy life with a significant other beats a lonely miserable life anyday; and in the long run your personality fromn being miserable will defne you. Lord knows you cannot make love to a Prada or Bimmie. LOL How's that? </div></div>

[LiteBlonde]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistacaf</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I hardly believe something as irrevelant as sex (at that age) could play such a dominant role in the decison on how best to live one's life in the middle-age range. </div></div>

hmmmm well IMO sex is NEVER &quot;irrelevant&quot; - no matter what age. no matter what other activities ppl do, those things cannot replace the particular closeness you get from sexual bonding &amp; intimacy. Without a good sex life, something feels 'missing', all kinda other activities can be done and even enjoyed - but it can come down to just providing distraction so ppl don't think about 'that which is missing'. Sexual intimacy is more than just a 'nice thing', I personally find it to be a basic human need, and <span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="font-style: italic">very</span></span> important.

I can't say I 'define' myself by whether or not i have a man; I've long proved to myself that I can TCB by myself..... work, pay bills, take care of the home, etc etc. so while I don't &quot;need&quot; a man, I sure do prefer having one.

it doesn't need to be a 'husband' - but i do prefer &amp; enjoy being in a relationship. It makes for a more pleasing, loving, sharing life than being by oneself all the time. </div></div>

CASE CLOSE!

[LiteBlonde]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedd

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mary_Sunshine</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
ummm, you are preaching to the choir

Thank goodness I dont have to make love to my Prada hangbags
I dont think another person can define you however, I dont buy into the theory that life is just hunky dory without a signifcant other. Life is better when you have someone to share it with. but nuff women turn into Miss Maggie and dont realize how much negativity they are projecting.......And that is what you see around here on somedays.


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Baker Street</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
What you mean by &quot;oh dear&quot; Ms. Sunshine, when your little song just confirm that there is no sunshine widdout a man?
I just remember Miss Maggie, she didn't haff a man, an she did crachity an very miserable, and shi did liff to be 89 or thereabouts when she died, so while it is ain't eggzackly so; a happy life with a significant other beats a lonely miserable life anyday; and in the long run your personality fromn being miserable will defne you. Lord knows you cannot make love to a Prada or Bimmie. LOL How's that? </div></div> </div></div>

PRAISE JESUS for Sister Baker Street and Sister Mary_Sunshine.

TESTIFY SISTAS, TES - TI - FY!

[evanovitch]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

an studies show dat a large number of those who trumpet the existence of an how good he is/the relationship is, usually using cyberspace to write about the one, in both cases, dat dem dreaming of ....i.e. is a 50/50 chance as to wedda di naysayers r the braggadistas telling di real story

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">an studies show dat a large number of those who trumpet the existence of an how good he is/the relationship is, usually using cyberspace to write about the one, in both cases, dat dem dreaming of ....i.e. is a 50/50 chance as to wedda di naysayers r the braggadistas telling di real story </div></div>


Preach Sista Evan PREACH mi seh PREACH

[LiteBlonde]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">an studies show dat a large number of those who trumpet the existence of an how good he is/the relationship is, usually using cyberspace to write about the one, in both cases, dat dem dreaming of ....i.e. is a 50/50 chance as to wedda di naysayers r the braggadistas telling di real story </div></div>

Ain't a damn thing wrong with dreaming.

Being in a relationship while dreaming can only make it Better not Bitter and it still beats a lonely, miserable life any day of the week.

[Nylah]

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funny as hell to watch to separate conversations happening in this thread

and for those who like to brag about all they get when you know nuttin ago soh???? I guess that fits into the 50/50 stat somewhere along the line

aie sah

[LiteBlonde]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mary_Sunshine</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
funny as hell to watch to separate conversations happening in this thread

and for those who like to brag about all they get when you know nuttin ago soh???? I guess that fits into the 50/50 stat somewhere along the line

aie sah

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Well, it depends. In that 50/50 there are those who get it thru self-infliction. Who am I to say them not getting? Them just not gettin it from a man.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

What's funny is watching how words are being thrown all over the place. The premise for a cussin match.....

[evanovitch]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mary_Sunshine</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
funny as hell to watch to separate conversations happening in this thread

and for those who like to brag about all they get when you know nuttin ago soh???? I guess that fits into the 50/50 stat somewhere along the line

aie sah

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Well, it depends. In that 50/50 there are those who get it thru self-infliction. <span style="font-weight: bold">Who am I to say them not getting? </span> Them just not gettin it from a man. </div></div>

isn't this where u came in....to seh dem not getting anyting...u a gwane like di 700b bill...amendents fi shore up a nonstarting position i love this site and its participants....bess place fi hang out a day time..hands up

[evanovitch]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_Beauty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">What's funny is watching how words are being thrown all over the place. The premise for a cussin match..... </div></div>

as long as di wudd trowing is acknowledged and authenticated, is half di fun deh so too... i love it as do all...mek di dreary hours pass by

[LiteBlonde]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Well, it depends. In that 50/50 there are those who get it thru self-infliction. <span style="font-weight: bold">Who am I to say them not getting? </span> Them just not gettin it from a man.

isn't this where u came in....to seh dem not getting anyting...u a gwane like di 700b bill...amendents fi shore up a nonstarting position i love this site and its participants....bess place fi hang out a day time..hands up </div></div>

SAY IT ISN'T SO. SARCASM LOST ON YOU?

Well, me know your post was targetted but me refused to believe <span style="font-weight: bold">you</span> wouldn't just come out and call me name when you make this post.

<span style="font-weight: bold">To confirm/clarify and put this to bed (no pun), me say women who don't have man (not toy) is miserable and look to make other people life miserable.</span>

That misery IMO is played out here every day and nothing can change my stance. Not even your target posts.

[evanovitch]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Well, it depends. In that 50/50 there are those who get it thru self-infliction. <span style="font-weight: bold">Who am I to say them not getting? </span> Them just not gettin it from a man. </div></div>

isn't this where u came in....to seh dem not getting anyting...u a gwane like di 700b bill...amendents fi shore up a nonstarting position i love this site and its participants....bess place fi hang out a day time..hands up </div></div>

Well, me know it was targetted but me couldn't believe you wouldn't just come out and call me name when you make this post.

<span style="font-weight: bold">To confirm/clarify and put this to bed (no pun), me say women who don't have man (not toy) is miserable and look to make other people life miserable.</span>

It is played out here every day and nothing can change my stance. <span style="font-weight: bold">No even your target posts.</span>

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dont personalise it more dan u have boo...a target post is ongle embraced if u identify wid it...u not a regular poster dat i can remember so absent daily presence, absent target post...but if it gi u an eventful time of participation wen u deh bout, hey, dat is wat di site is all about..each find dem niche an go for it...aint we both lucky to have had dis chance to show colours... so warm an bubbly dont ...shivas me a tell u ..shivas

[evanovitch]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

incrementally, we awn fi di evening...