women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedda

[LusciousJohnson]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedd

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: chitown</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingy</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> once dem touch over 30 and dem clock start tick.....

its either:

1 dem settle for whatever comes

2 complain everyday about how dem cant find a man. </div></div>
<span style="font-weight: bold">wah kinna ovah-30 ooman yuh chat? </span> mek mi wondah wah kinna ooman luv awf a man wid a brain lakka fi yuh </div></div>

sed ting mi waan know

[Bandana]

Re: women,at the end of the day , do u define urself by wedd

[Jazz]

Re: bak to the beginning

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtriment</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: chitown</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i'm happy being single and happy getting it when i want it </div></div>
disyah di pawt wah men wi nevah ovastand

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I very much doubt whether men are as concerned about which women are single and getting it and who is not, as much as you think,.......there is really nothing to &quot;ovastand&quot;,..men dont get as angsty over these matters as women do,..we havent got &quot;time clocks&quot; to worry about.

As an example,..you would never see a man post a thread such as this one under discussion,if we are single,..its usually out of choice,or if it isnt then most men would just see being single as a great opportunity to go out and drop as much baggy as possible,.....from single or married women.
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Newtry mi love yuh - but mi si 2 major tings in yuh statement above dat mi haffe rispond to... fuss - womens &quot;time clock&quot; nuh usually come into play unless they are trying to have kids... it has nothing to do with having or not having a man.

and mi resent de implication dat if a woman single it's not by choice - but for a man it is - mi know nuff man who cyaan get ooman unless dem pay fah... an vice versa mi know ooman who have man ah heng awfa dem like skirt hem and still CHOOSE to be single, because they CHOOSE to focus on other things at the moment.

The days of a woman waiting ti find prince charming and set her up in life of housewifery is done and over with and todays woman has many other things to take her mind off finding a man... believe that! i is the way of the world now - maybe its just that men cannot accept that - they still choose to think that we as women depend on them for an identity...

I can tell u unequivocally - not this woman...

I will always choose - if I find the right man... to be in a relationship - but that will never be what defines me - I have a strong identity beyond whom I choose to share my bed with at night.

still love yuh

[julie*mango]

mi notice nobaddi nah ansa mi....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so ladies...forget defining yourself for a minute...are you all saying that you don't need a man to affirm your femininity? </div></div>

[Jazz]

Re: mi notice nobaddi nah ansa mi....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so ladies...forget defining yourself for a minute...are you all saying that you don't need a man to affirm your femininity? </div></div> </div></div>

So u saying u need a man fe reassure u dat u is a woman?

OK i'm being facetious - I understand that the ability to attract the opposite sex is reaffirming - but I could go out every day and have men whistling at me - which &quot;affirms&quot; my femininity - but dat nuh mean seh it define mi - nor that I need to be with one to define who I am.

[neutral]

Re: bak to the beginning

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

bull u a di fuss one love seh no loving naw gwane an dat is why....if it neva pon u mind, r u neva gi it validation, u wudden use it </div></div>

I`m sorry evanovitch but I`m afraid I dont understand what you`re trying to say,admittedly I do have some difficulty sometimes trying to decipher what you write,I simply dont understand evanspeak.

As for &quot;no loving naw gwaan&quot; I understand that quite clear but it doesnt apply to me I`m afraid,...I have been with the same woman for 20 years,..and there is a great deal of loving still going on I can assure you,....Lol.

Sometimes I just pull the plug on the computer,not even normal shut down from start,...just pull de plug an go hug up an kiss up wifey,....so most times if you dont see me here you know seh mrs newt a get har tings,...a so de ting set...Lol.

[neutral]

Re: bak to the beginning

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtriment</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: chitown</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

i'm happy being single and happy getting it when i want it </div></div>
disyah di pawt wah men wi nevah ovastand

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I very much doubt whether men are as concerned about which women are single and getting it and who is not, as much as you think,.......there is really nothing to &quot;ovastand&quot;,..men dont get as angsty over these matters as women do,..we havent got &quot;time clocks&quot; to worry about.

As an example,..you would never see a man post a thread such as this one under discussion,if we are single,..its usually out of choice,or if it isnt then most men would just see being single as a great opportunity to go out and drop as much baggy as possible,.....from single or married women.
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Newtry mi love yuh - but mi si 2 major tings in yuh statement above dat mi haffe rispond to... fuss - womens &quot;time clock&quot; nuh usually come into play unless they are trying to have kids... it has nothing to do with having or not having a man.

and mi resent de implication dat if a woman single it's not by choice - but for a man it is - mi know nuff man who cyaan get ooman unless dem pay fah... an vice versa mi know ooman who have man ah heng awfa dem like skirt hem and still CHOOSE to be single, because they CHOOSE to focus on other things at the moment.

The days of a woman waiting ti find prince charming and set her up in life of housewifery is done and over with and todays woman has many other things to take her mind off finding a man... believe that! i is the way of the world now - maybe its just that men cannot accept that - they still choose to think that we as women depend on them for an identity...

I can tell u unequivocally - not this woman...

I will always choose - if I find the right man... to be in a relationship - but that will never be what defines me - I have a strong identity beyond whom I choose to share my bed with at night.

still love yuh

Bwoy like how mi love yu like cook food anything yu say is fine by me yu know Jazz,.....yu cyaan seh nutt`n wrong in my book.

**<span style="font-style: italic"> thinking what a ooman nice an cute</span> **

[Bizzy]

Re: bak to the beginning

I think she tryna say u a one a de fuss ppl fi always trow wud pon ooman on yah say dem naw get nuh luvin or naw nuh man..

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtriment</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

bull u a di fuss one love seh no loving naw gwane an dat is why....if it neva pon u mind, r u neva gi it validation, u wudden use it </div></div>

I`m sorry evanovitch but I`m afraid I dont understand what you`re trying to say,admittedly I do have some difficulty sometimes trying to decipher what you write,I simply dont understand evanspeak.

As for &quot;no loving naw gwaan&quot; I understand that quite clear but it doesnt apply to me I`m afraid,...I have been with the same woman for 20 years,..and there is a great deal of loving still going on I can assure you,....Lol.

Sometimes I just pull the plug on the computer,not even normal shut down from start,...just pull de plug an go hug up an kiss up wifey,....so most times if you dont see me here you know seh mrs newt a get har tings,...a so de ting set...Lol.

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[neutral]

Re: bak to the beginning

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_Danger</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think she tryna say u a one a de fuss ppl fi always trow wud pon ooman on yah say dem naw get nuh luvin or naw nuh man..
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I would like to think that I dont throw words,...I say things straight and plain,if I`ve told any woman on here that they are not getting any loving and naw nuh man, thats exactly what I mean,..no trow wud there I dont think,...I dont give a sheet,if thats what I think of you thats exactly what I`m going to say,....no need to throw words.

In any case,..your interpretation of things are a bit effed up cos I dont remember throwing those kind of wuds at any ooman on here,...but I`m sure you will have a spreadsheet that says different,I am just not one of those geezers that post kissy kissy smileys at women on here and flirt,so even things I say in jest will be mis-interpreted...but if the cap fit,..wear it blousenaught.............teva !

Like I sofa king care....***big kisseffing teet***