30+ years of friendship

[Jazz]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
*LOL* - u nuh ramp wid certain tings eeh? </div></div>

LOL, you know Jazz, you right. Not with certain things, because I learn not to be the one holding the ball when the game is over.

Some of these people, we've known them all our lives, and can't figure out when they changed into the heathen they are today. It is hurtful and distressing but if you not careful, they will use jealousy and deceit to ruin your life. Just be careful and let them know that you know when it is time to hit the road.

Your Reality
Your Rules! </div></div>

true, true - I just am very careful not to be too judgemental of people - and I always try to remember that just becasue we are friends does nto necessarily mean we will always like the same things or reasct in the same way - but at the end of the day the least I expect and give is loyalty... if you are not capable of being loyal to someone or something - I think soemthing is wrong with your character...

[Jazz]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mary_Sunshine</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mary_Sunshine</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Seasons... </div></div>

True Shandra true - but some people manage to have lifetime friendships don;t they??? </div></div>

I still believe in it. I have one friend who inspite of some drama we are better friends than when we were kids. We went thru a seaon of not speaking to each other over some silly -ish. But let me tell you, when I hear her voice on the other end of the phone after 6 years, I cried...yes, mi is very bawlie bawlie like that!

We grew apart but managed to both <span style="font-weight: bold">grow up </span>and now we are the best of friends because in essence we are the same type of people. </div></div>

Mi feel like the only lifetime fren mi can have ah mi fambly... maybe it's me caws sometimes mi can miserable bad! maybe mi chase people weh

hush

I dont know you in real life but I dont believe you can be any more miserable than me at times

My family, is my family is my family so I dont bother comparing that kind of &quot;friendship&quot; to any others because everyone you buck up against is gonna disappoint you badly if you do.

You dont push ppl out of your life who shouldnt be pushed because the basis of friendship is mutual common ground.

If this woman wasnt a do or die kind of friend I would say you are overreacting and expecting too much.

But the point is she's a do or die kind of friend and you shouldnt apologize for having high expectations in that kind of friendship. <span style="font-weight: bold">Period. </span>

This is a VERY GOOD POINT!! is who did seh yuh nuh have no sense?? ah tink it was Dotcom u nuh kikikikiki (ah joke!!)

bway mi seh mi haffe hug yuh up caws u stick wid mi troo de day aldoe u have wuk fe do an help mi put dis ting in perspective... you and everyone else who came in her and offered pearls of wisdom... for real - cause this thign was heavy on mi bress tiddeh (an like how mi nuh have much bress u can imagine how dem did ah drap dung )

You guys really should hang a counseling shingle pan de front door - betta dan any terapiss anyday

[Nylah]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

<span style="font-weight: bold">but at the end of the day the least I expect and give is loyalty... if you are not capable of being loyal to someone or something - I think soemthing is wrong with your character...</span>


my girl, you just said it all answer to your original question! Expectation of loyalty is not being judgemental in the type of friendship you are describing.

My friends and I annoy the crap out of each other all the time but we dont pass judgment on each other because we will still know how to be friends after the annoyance/differences have passed.

But if they felt I was disloyal to them......I wouldnt have anyone to suck back Bellini's with on Friday nights - and serves me right if that happens.

[Jazz]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

wah name Bellinis?? mi can come? mi in de mawkit fe an new fren

[Nylah]

Re: 30+ years of friendship



I dont know whether to lick you or hug you

Seriously though Jazz, friendships mean so much to me and I dont call ppl friend too quickly, so I understood where your heart was. Even though I have a pile of work to do, I felt I needed to chat it out with you Good to know once in awhile I have something approaching sensible to say.

<span style="font-style: italic">Now as for that mad ooman named DotCom</span>........ (just running joke with DotCom )

P.S. I did offer you some of my bress the other day as long as I could get a tax receipt for the donation, so dont worry yourself about that


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This is a VERY GOOD POINT!! hug is who did seh yuh nuh have no sense?? think ah tink it was Dotcom u nuh kikikikiki (ah joke!!) dwl

bway mi seh mi haffe hug yuh up begahug caws u stick wid mi troo de day aldoe u have wuk fe do eek an help mi put dis ting in perspective... you and everyone else who came in her and offered pearls of wisdom... for real - cause this thign was heavy on mi bress tiddeh (an like how mi nuh have much bress u can imagine how dem did ah drap dung eek)

You guys really should hang a counseling shingle pan de front door - betat dan any terapiss anyday bigup</div></div>

[Nylah]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wah name Bellinis?? mi can come? mi in de mawkit fe an new fren </div></div>

they are a type of slushy Italian drink they serve around here. Perfect for the patio on a hot summer day So if you can do the patio hangabout thing then make your way up here!

[Jazz]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mary_Sunshine</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wah name Bellinis?? mi can come? mi in de mawkit fe an new fren </div></div>

they are a type of slushy Italian drink they serve around here. Perfect for the patio on a hot summer day So if you can do the patio hangabout thing then make your way up here! </div></div>

One of my favoriet things to do - hang around, have a drinky poo and do nothing *sigh* what could be betterer?

[Gen]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz_Obama</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If you have friend for over 30 years and in your mind thsi is your do or die friend - somebody you would tell about the body...

and then that friend does something to betray you / the friendship...

Does that mean that the friendship was never a true one? or dis person just took a turn for the worse? </div></div>

ppl change... </div></div>

I guess so - I just always thought that fundamentally even though we change - our foundation as friends would transcend certain things - but then, I guess if yrou very nature changes u may not be capable of maintianing a friendship like that </div></div>

precisely. as we grow and evolve, some things nuh evolve wid us. dem get leff behind. it ruff since suh many years invested inna it but a suh it guh sometime.

[Hugo]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

Deep interesting thread.

[LiteBlonde]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This is a VERY GOOD POINT!! hug is who did seh yuh nuh have no sense?? think ah tink it was Dotcom u nuh kikikikiki (ah joke!!) dwl

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mary_Sunshine</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

<span style="font-style: italic">Now as for that mad ooman named DotCom</span>........ (just running joke with DotCom )</div></div>

You both lucky say me like you.

[Nylah]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

[Stormmey]

Re: 30+ years of friendship

I firmly believe <span style="font-weight: bold">what</span> we are never changes, <span style="font-weight: bold">who </span>we are sometime changes.