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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> My name is Joy Marie and I'm the author of a new book, "The Straight-Up Truth About The Down-Low: Women share their stories of betrayal, pain and survival. I found out my husband was on the down-low (undercover gay) in 10/2005. My intuition was screaming at me that something was amiss in the marriage but I couldn't put my finger on it. I asked my ex if he were gay before I moved 3000 miles to marry him and of course he lied and told me no. One night I took his cell phone into the bathroom and listened to his voice messages. I was absolutely devastated when I heard a male voice calling my husband "baby" and telling him how good he looked at work today.
Sometimes its very difficult to detect whether or not a man is on the down-low. For example, my husband was always ready to have sex with me, but many of the other women I have spoken to said "lack of sex" was the first sign their husband was gay. My husband would shave the hair on his body, including his pubic area (even though I told him it was a turn-off), which I later found out was common in the gay community. My other warning signs were as follows:
1. Always made an excuse to hang out with "the guys"
2. Had many male friends I had never met
3. Very secretive with his cell phone
4. Always in the mirror...was better dressed than me
5. Extremely concerned about his physique
6. And most importantly, My intuition told me something was wrong!!
My book has many of the warning signs (in great detail) shared by other women. All I can say is please trust your intuition, don't sleep with your man without protection, get tested, take steps to protect yourself financially and please don't blame yourself. </div></div>
Sometimes its very difficult to detect whether or not a man is on the down-low. For example, my husband was always ready to have sex with me, but many of the other women I have spoken to said "lack of sex" was the first sign their husband was gay. My husband would shave the hair on his body, including his pubic area (even though I told him it was a turn-off), which I later found out was common in the gay community. My other warning signs were as follows:
1. Always made an excuse to hang out with "the guys"
2. Had many male friends I had never met
3. Very secretive with his cell phone
4. Always in the mirror...was better dressed than me
5. Extremely concerned about his physique
6. And most importantly, My intuition told me something was wrong!!
My book has many of the warning signs (in great detail) shared by other women. All I can say is please trust your intuition, don't sleep with your man without protection, get tested, take steps to protect yourself financially and please don't blame yourself. </div></div>
and for me, and ust about every gay man I know , the female body is like, "yuk". 
MrsKurlie let them know that you don't take no mess. 
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