Sex an intimacy question

[Nylah]

Re: Sex an intimacy question


i agree with seldom

Your definition of intimacy is about an act and Seldom's definition is based on a emotional state of being.
What happens if one of the ppl involced physically cannot partake in sex? A disability of some sort, etc.
You cant say that all the other activities they have participated in together means they are less "intimate" with each other.


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: seldom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">How? </div></div>

Y yu mean, how?


intamacy has nothing to do with the physical act of sex. nuh tru? Intimacy are the baths together, cooking together, talking, laughing and enjoying one another's company. Cuddling on the couch, being excited to see each other, being honest and forward. and just being real. the physical act of sex is just that...sex...it is ONE physical expression of that intimacy (or lack thereof ). It's meant to be used for procreation, not as a crutch for why you couldn't stop and buy some flowers.


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mi waan fi kno how yuh cyan duh alla dem tingdeh wid smaddy an nuh have sex wid dem.

yuh tink seh mi an mi ooman a cook up one nice nice dinnah tuhgeddah, spread blanket pan de floor, sidung pan cushion, set up kyangle an ting, put on some nice smooth jazz, some beres some dean fraser. Den when de dinnah done wi clean up tuhgeddah, maybe guh fi a nice drive an walk choo de pawk, come home an tek a bath tuhgeddah an aftah all dat no sexxin naah gwaan???
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<span style="font-size: 20pt">A LIE DAT</span> </div></div>

[Kurlie]

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totally agree Nylah...

way before mi meet MrK....loooooongg looooong time...mi use to date a guy...loooooonggg looooong time before MrK. I dated this guy for almost two years...we never had physical sex but we sure did spend some intimate moments together....At one point it was like making love with our hearts.

yeah mi know...sounds mushi..but a true

[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsKurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">way before mi meet MrK....loooooongg looooong time...mi use to date a guy...loooooonggg looooong time before MrK. I dated this guy for almost two years...we never had physical sex but we sure did spend some intimate moments together....At one point it was like making love with our hearts. </div></div>

[Nylah]

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may sound mushi, but I get you

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsKurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">totally agree Nylah...

way before mi meet MrK....loooooongg looooong time...mi use to date a guy...loooooonggg looooong time before MrK. I dated this guy for almost two years...we never had physical sex but we sure did spend some intimate moments together....At one point it was like making love with our hearts.

yeah mi know...sounds mushi..but a true </div></div>

[seldom]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: seldom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">How? </div></div>

Y yu mean, how?


intamacy has nothing to do with the physical act of sex. nuh tru? Intimacy are the baths together, cooking together, talking, laughing and enjoying one another's company. Cuddling on the couch, being excited to see each other, being honest and forward. and just being real. the physical act of sex is just that...sex...it is ONE physical expression of that intimacy (or lack thereof ). It's meant to be used for procreation, not as a crutch for why you couldn't stop and buy some flowers.


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mi waan fi kno how yuh cyan duh alla dem tingdeh wid smaddy an nuh have sex wid dem.

yuh tink seh mi an mi ooman a cook up one nice nice dinnah tuhgeddah, spread blanket pan de floor, sidung pan cushion, set up kyangle an ting, put on some nice smooth jazz, some beres some dean fraser. Den when de dinnah done wi clean up tuhgeddah, maybe guh fi a nice drive an walk choo de pawk, come home an tek a bath tuhgeddah an aftah all dat no sexxin naah gwaan???
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<span style="font-size: 20pt">A LIE DAT</span> </div></div>

that sounds like a a really good DATE versus an INTIMATE nite with the one you are inl ove with. Because if it was the latter, you would be perfectly content with just going to sleep while Beres keep playing.

[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: seldom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

that sounds like a a really good DATE versus an INTIMATE nite with the one you are inl ove with. Because if it was the latter, you would be <span style="font-weight: bold">perfectly content </span>with just going to sleep while Beres keep playing. </div></div>

well, the perfectly content ting goin a <span style="font-style: italic">littl</span>e far I think

[seldom]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BanDanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: seldom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

that sounds like a a really good DATE versus an INTIMATE nite with the one you are inl ove with. Because if it was the latter, you would be <span style="font-weight: bold">perfectly content </span>with just going to sleep while Beres keep playing. </div></div>

well, the perfectly content ting goin a <span style="font-style: italic">littl</span>e far I think </div></div>

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BanDanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: seldom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

that sounds like a a really good DATE versus an INTIMATE nite with the one you are inl ove with. Because if it was the latter, you would be <span style="font-weight: bold">perfectly content </span>with just going to sleep while Beres keep playing. </div></div>

well, the perfectly content ting goin a <span style="font-style: italic">littl</span>e far I think </div></div>

memba seh dem not doing the bathing togedda ting again

[Nylah]

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BOAL

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ceabee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BanDanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: seldom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

that sounds like a a really good DATE versus an INTIMATE nite with the one you are inl ove with. Because if it was the latter, you would be <span style="font-weight: bold">perfectly content </span>with just going to sleep while Beres keep playing. </div></div>

well, the perfectly content ting goin a <span style="font-style: italic">littl</span>e far I think </div></div>

memba seh dem not doing the bathing togedda ting again </div></div>

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Sex an intimacy question

unno tandeh falla Common, becaw mi know seh fi him night naw end wid falling asleep to Beres


Anyhow nex question

Would you be satisfied in a celibate marriage/relationship where there are no medical reasons preventing you from having sex?

[seldom]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unno tandeh falla Common, becaw mi know seh fi him night naw end wid falling asleep to Beres


Anyhow nex question

Would you be satisfied in a celibate marriage/relationship where there are no medical reasons preventing you from having sex?


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ow yu know? lol.

[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Anyhow nex question

Would you be satisfied in a celibate marriage/relationship where there are no medical reasons preventing you from having sex?


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no.

[Bizzy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Would you be satisfied in a celibate marriage/relationship where there are no medical reasons preventing you from having sex?


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Hell naw. Been there, done that..man pon de side jook de best


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[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Sex an intimacy question

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: seldom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unno tandeh falla Common, becaw mi know seh fi him night naw end wid falling asleep to Beres


Anyhow nex question

Would you be satisfied in a celibate marriage/relationship where there are no medical reasons preventing you from having sex?


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ow yu know? lol. </div></div>

becaw yu name MAN, an I assume dat you are breathing

[Bandana]

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