PRESSHA

**Andrewnaqi** · 01-07-2009, 01:14 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wonder what that haffi do with the price a oolong in taipei

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Andrewnaqi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">hmm I wonder how many women upset over this post have a man (a good one)

do yall ever read statistics?

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the way I read it is that some women have trouble keeping a good man.
But it look like you guys all took it a different way.
I'll wait for the brother to come and state his case if he's brave enough

**mountaingal** · 01-07-2009, 01:17 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
blk ooman have it hawd yes but no one pan de ert haffee deal wid wah de blk man deal wid. </div></div>

excuse mi??

sayvah devine. noh mek mi read no more a dis chread.

black women haffi put up wid di stigma of being discredited even before they're met as having nasty attitudes, being the most unattractive women, etc. etc. and most of it is perpetuated by di inferiority complex riddled black man. </div></div>

(((sue))) black men are partial to their own humiliations, and are so busy chasing redress and validation they cannot recognize the humiliations of the black woman. and as you say, they even contribute to it.

**Andrewnaqi** · 01-07-2009, 01:18 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Andrewnaqi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Suesumba many conscious black men can't find conscious black women who want to be themselves instead of eveyone else.

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riiiiiiiiiiiiiight

shi must have lang hair, be light skinned and 5'10 and 110 pounds don't?

and for your information, mi have an extremely good man - <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">it's just a shame mi could find the qualities him possess in a black man.</div></div></div> </div></div>

a conscious black man is hard to find, they are not for everybody

**mountaingal** · 01-07-2009, 01:24 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Andrewnaqi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
a <span style="font-weight: bold">conscious</span> black man is hard to find, they are <span style="font-weight: bold">not for everybody </span> </div></div>

what does this mean?

**Andrewnaqi** · 01-07-2009, 01:31 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Andrewnaqi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
a <span style="font-weight: bold">conscious</span> black man is hard to find, they are <span style="font-weight: bold">not for everybody </span> </div></div>

what does this mean?
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a conscious man and an unconscious woman OR
a conscious woman and an unconscious man cannot coexhist for too long cause of their views and lifestyles.

**ILP** · 01-07-2009, 01:31 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So because black man a get pressure from society we haffie but up wid dem <span style="text-decoration: line-through">doggish ways</span>bad behavior an treat dem like a king?

Yes we women may not have to deal with police an dem ting deh but <span style="font-weight: bold">in the work place we have to be twice as good as the others in order to be treated as close to equal an fight twice as hard to get half as much.</span> Of course some of that hostility will come in to the home.

so instead of running to the more compliant/complacent woman unno fi learn to deal wid us as an equal.

a soh mi seeit </div></div>

lawd ah di chrute dis.
ahn even den...

**ILP** · 01-07-2009, 01:37 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yuh nuh mi stawt read TLC poas bout tekkin har ex tuh court fi pay child support.

All dis is good but choo dat deh poas it bring out all kinds of tings. One is dat women feel one way bout the situation (<span style="font-weight: bold">aside from ILP)</span> and dem don't stray too far outside dat line.

wah mi a come tuh is dis.

In dis world a black man has it hard enough to deal with society, job, po-lice etc.
De lass ting a man need is a mate who cyaan ova stand how fi deal wid him an put more pressure pan tap of him. A man looks to his ooman for solitude and when all shi cyan duh is add tuh de daily pressure then one shouldn't wonder why some a unno cyan kip no man.

If you have a good man why would you ar yuh fren dem do such foolishness an runweh de man, den wundah how him leff. Bout de kratchez did sweet an ting.

Man cyan get a nex one nuh mek dat ting deh mek yuh tink seh it cyan kip man alone. You have to know how fi deal wid him and if you don't find out how, nuff oddah ooman outdeh line up fi tek fi yuh "good" man

One </div></div>

beg you fi leff mi name outta argument please

<span style="font-size: 8pt"><span style="font-style: italic">mi juss want fi seh sumting, as mi not commenting bout wah im write....</span></span>

**Suesumba** · 01-07-2009, 01:38 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
black men are partial to their own humiliations
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tryna wrap my head around this.

**Nylah** · 01-07-2009, 01:42 PM

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<span style="font-weight: bold">You have to know how fi deal wid him and if you don't find out how, nuff oddah ooman outdeh line up fi tek fi yuh "good" man </span>

all I have to say is, if this is true why you fretting over one woman when there are <span style="font-weight: bold">enough good women </span> just around the corner to pick from?

why hot up your head over a woman who obviously isnt worth the fight. Sometimes, you all are your own worse enemies cause you cling to those that arent good for you and paint the rest of us that are "good women" with the same brush.

**ILP** · 01-07-2009, 01:54 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
all I have to say is, if this is true why you fretting over one woman when there are <span style="font-weight: bold">enough good women </span> just around the corner to pick from?

why hot up your head over a woman who obviously isnt worth the fight. Sometimes, you all are your own worse enemies cause you cling to those that arent good for you and paint the rest of us that are "good women" with the same brush. </div></div>

mi sister fram annnedah faddah....

**Suesumba** · 01-07-2009, 01:56 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">You have to know how fi deal wid him and if you don't find out how, nuff oddah ooman outdeh line up fi tek fi yuh "good" man </span>
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how typically childish is this. if you don't give me what i want, i'm gonna take my toys and go play wid di odda ooman. always using odda ooman as a threat

dats why moas time juss tell dem fi clear awff

if him was a good man, him wouldn't express this sentiment because all the while it's in his head that if the woman doesn't bend to his every whim, sick perversions or stupidniss, odda ooman out deh weh wih put up wid ie.

petulant petulant petulant

**Nylah** · 01-07-2009, 01:58 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: back2trainin_ILP</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
all I have to say is, if this is true why you fretting over one woman when there are <span style="font-weight: bold">enough good women </span> just around the corner to pick from?

why hot up your head over a woman who obviously isnt worth the fight. Sometimes, you all are your own worse enemies cause you cling to those that arent good for you and paint the rest of us that are "good women" with the same brush. </div></div>

mi sister fram annnedah faddah.... </div></div>

teehee

**Nylah** · 01-07-2009, 02:03 PM

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<span style="font-weight: bold">if him was a good man, him wouldn't express this sentiment because all the while it's in his head that if the woman doesn't bend to his every whim, sick perversions or stupidniss, odda ooman out deh weh wih put up wid ie.</span>

true true.

we all will get what ever we focus on.....I know that is an unpopular opinion around here but I aint gonna change my mind for noone.

If you expect a woman/man to "treat" you wrong then you will get it cause that is all you can see.

**Nylah** · 01-07-2009, 02:08 PM

Re: PRESSHA

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
blk ooman have it hawd yes but no one pan de ert haffee deal wid wah de blk man deal wid. </div></div>

excuse mi??

sayvah devine. noh mek mi read no more a dis chread.

black women haffi put up wid di stigma of being discredited even before they're met as having nasty attitudes, being the most unattractive women, etc. etc. and most of it is perpetuated by di inferiority complex riddled black man. </div></div>

(((sue))) black men are partial to their own humiliations, and are so busy chasing redress and validation they cannot recognize the humiliations of the black woman. and as you say, they even contribute to it.
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obvious point that overlooked all the while...and aint got a thing to with being a conscious or un-conscious woman.

As someone pointed out that this is my favorite saying but I think it is relevant .....sometimes we just cant see the forest thru the trees.

**Kurlie** · 01-07-2009, 02:13 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Andrewnaqi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">hmm I wonder how many women upset over this post have a man (a good one)

do yall ever read statistics?

Suesumba many conscious black men can't find conscious black women who want to be themselves instead of eveyone else.

<span style="font-style: italic">what the hell did I just step into </span> </div></div>

I do...and please don't talk about conscious black man/woman because the ratio is definitely in favor of the black woman.. and yes being a conscious black man includes taking care of the youth and know how fi handle pressah

PRESSHA

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