strange situation

[Bizzy]

mi have a friend weh mek certain comments to me sometime, like:
<ul style="list-style-type: disc">[*]it's a shame u not a man, cause we would make a nice couple[*]i'm not gay or anything, but u have a nice body[*]if i liked girls, i would want you[/list]

and other stuff like that..

mi used to jus tek it as compliment/joke an move on..

but now shi come an a tell mi bout how she made out with a girl over the weekend ...and I'm wonderin if she a try put some moves on me

last time i spoke to her was monday, but she call mi tiddeh and mi sen it to vmail. she wanna know what mi gettin into this w/end.

So I replied with a txt that I had plans and wouldn't be around. Not sure if mi gwaan feel comfortable around her again

anybody else find dis strange?? u would keep on hanging out with her or cut the 'friendship'?

[Boricua_papi]

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[Bizzy]

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u naw nutten fi say ?? weh u cum in ya fah

[annshan2]

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very strange indeed less hanging out wid har although she a go notice the difference but a so

[Nylah]

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errrr yeah.....she wants you Bizi....give an inch you will get a carpet full

I'd use her &quot;I kissed a girl and I liked it&quot; weekend fling to clarify that you dont swing that way. Just say something like, &quot;wow, I dont think I'd ever be curious enough to try that out&quot;.....okay, not too creative word wise but you get the idea.

[Bizzy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

errrr yeah.....she wants you Bizi....give an inch you will <span style="font-weight: bold">get a carpet full </span>
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u have a way with words

mi nuh sure wah fi say cause I have no tact an mi nuh waan go say sumthing an have her turn it roun an say i'm imaginin stuff

[Nylah]

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the thing is she is testing you and there is the possibility at some point in time, with enough likka in her she might go in for the money shot.....and then lack of tact aint gonna factor into because Bail Money will be a bigger priority and funds are tight round here

I had the same experience with a good friend when I was like 18/19 years old. I couldnt find a way to say, whooa Nelly, and Nelly got a little too brave one day

Needless to say we arent friends anymore but only because I couldnt find a way to re-set some boundaries with her.

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> have her turn it roun an say i'm imaginin stuff </div></div>


but wait - how can she accuse you of that if she told you she made out with a girl over the weekend? This is what I mean when I say that the make out incidence is a great cover to say something without having to make it directly about you and her.

[Boricua_papi]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">



the thing is she is testing you and there is the possibility at some point in time, with enough likka in her she might go in for the money shot.....and then lack of tact aint gonna factor into because Bail Money will be a bigger priority and funds are tight round here

I had the same experience with a good friend when I was like 18/19 years old. I couldnt find a way to say, whooa Nelly, and Nelly got a little too brave one day

Needless to say we arent friends anymore but only because I couldnt find a way to re-set some boundaries with her.

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Please to describe the incident.

[Nylah]

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yuh tandeh Bippy

why that is every man's fantasy is beyond me

[Bizzy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> have her turn it roun an say i'm imaginin stuff </div></div>


but wait - how can she accuse you of that if she told you she made out with a girl over the weekend? This is what I mean when I say that the make out incidence is a great cover to say something without having to make it directly about you and her. </div></div>

k, mi si wah u a say..

now should i call her or wait fi shi link mi again

[Nylah]

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u think she will link you again soon?

If she wanted to do something with you this weekend, you can use that as a reason to call her. Just to confirm that you are busy and cant hang.

That would be an easier segue into last week's adventures - otherwise bringing it up with no real context will look awkward.

[Gen]

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dwl she a test yuh

yuh nuh haffi link har, mek she link yuh fuss

anyway if she bring it up again juss seh &quot;more power but mi nuh inna dem tings deh not even as joke&quot;

next time she seh mi look good mi wouldan tell har galang a gym and she too can look ready

and mi can see if she tell yuh seh yuh look good once but a how much time she haffi seh it to yuh ? she nuh think yuh get the messige by now.

[Nylah]

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but Bizi wants to be tactful Gen

[diabolical_Tanya]

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Bizi