strange situation

[mountaingal]

Re: strange situation

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SPOTS</div><div class="ubbcode-body">There must be an epidemic</div></div>
... among black women. </div></div>
dat still a gwaan? back in the 80s mi go jamaica fi 2/12 yrs and when mi come back at least 3 bl women mi know personally had made the switch. it was a lickle flabbergastering.

[Phatty]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BiziWibbleWobble</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi have a friend weh mek certain comments to me sometime, like:
<ul style="list-style-type: disc">[*]it's a shame u not a man, cause we would make a nice couple[*]i'm not gay or anything, but u have a nice body[*]if i liked girls, i would want you[/list]

and other stuff like that..

mi used to jus tek it as compliment/joke an move on..

but now shi come an a tell mi bout how she made out with a girl over the weekend ...and I'm wonderin if she a try put some moves on me

last time i spoke to her was monday, but she call mi tiddeh and mi sen it to vmail. she wanna know what mi gettin into this w/end.

So I replied with a txt that I had plans and wouldn't be around. Not sure if mi gwaan feel comfortable around her again

anybody else find dis strange?? u would keep on hanging out with her or cut the 'friendship'?
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I had a friend like that Bizi run yuh hear

Then she would come with crap like:

&quot;Can we practice kissing I wanna know what's it feels like with my new tongue ring.&quot; Ummm I have a lot of guy friends that will be more than willing to practice with you

then stuff like,

&quot;when I have my baby I dont want Charles (the pickney good good fada) to be there. I want you...&quot;
Yea the day of the C section, I gotta work, sorry.

Run Bizi Run

[Bizzy]

Re: strange situation

oh for a minute, i thought u sai nutting sessions



<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BiziWibbleWobble</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi have a <span style="font-weight: bold">friend</span> weh mek certain comments to me sometime, like:

..... anybody else find dis strange?? u would keep on hanging out with her or cut the 'friendship'?
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what's wrong with opening your mouth when she tells yu about her rutting sessions with other woman and say: <span style="font-weight: bold">&quot;too much information&quot;</span>. also tell her that you're not gay, gay curious, bi-sexual, bi-curious, poly or whatever the hell people call demself now a daze.

just be an adult about it. if she's your friend and an <span style="font-weight: bold">adult</span> she's suppose to understand. if she persists, then just withdraw from her. </div></div>

[Bizzy]

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dem a get real brazen wid it to


when i was in ja...my friend there had told me to be careful cause one buncha lesbian diddeh an dem gang up pon u inna de bathroom

in her case, one did go in deh behine har an start feel up har eh hem. shi say shi friten so till..she neva know wah fi do but lef de club afta dat caw a one Butch lookin ooman an har fren dem did tan up a de door to \o/
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SPOTS</div><div class="ubbcode-body">There must be an epidemic, because my daughter told me about a similar incident last week (which I was planning to post for feedback).

As I told my daughter, just tell her that you do not go that way, you are not curious about going that way and NO you don't have to try it to know that you won't like it because some girls are really pushing the barriers these days. </div></div>

[Bizzy]

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check mi poas above....they do it.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SPOTS</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Am i the only one who feel really repulsed by being approached by a female in that manner? I don't know, it might have something to do with the look of fear in my daughter's eyes when she told me how she was confronted.

I just can't see the humor in sticking a knife in the fool who'd try that with me or any of my daughters... </div></div>

fear??? seriously? what shi thinks the lezzie agoh hole har dung an tek ie feh a wah kinda eediat argument dat yu a come wid. typical homophobic nonsense

go educate yourself Spots </div></div>

[Bizzy]

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Lawx mah!! Yuh an compray a frighten mi now

shi say shi did waan full report of my trip this weekend...so when mi cum back mi gwaan hafi figure out a way fi get de topic in the conversation...

[Compry]

Re: strange situation

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't want to judge this lady but from past experience, keep your distance. I've had several incidences with the identical behavior that you described here and they all turned out into some ugly situations.

Keep your distance. </div></div>

Care to elaborate? </div></div>

eh eh, don't want to but I will say this, some lebsians or bi's can get nasty if they don't get what they desire.

[Phatty]

Re: strange situation

How bout dis?

&quot;Girl mi go _______ di adda day and mi hear dat damn song &quot;I kissed a girl&quot; That crap is disgusting! Mi want ah gyal bring dat tuh mi so mi cyaa cut out ar belly!&quot;

Seh it wid whole heap ah fiyah


If you want a kinder way ask Compray

[Kurlie]

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tell the ooman sey you nuh inna dem tings deh and you appreciate it if she would keep her curiousity to herself. Anytime she compliment you again tell sey &quot;hey, lookie here thanks but lay off because yu meking mi uncomfortable&quot; Now if she nuh want hang or chat to you again so what.

nip it in the bud right now because she wi think yu nuh mine the compliment dem.

[Fyah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BiziWibbleWobble</div><div class="ubbcode-body">dem a get real brazen wid it to


when i was in ja...my friend there had told me to be careful cause one buncha lesbian diddeh an dem gang up pon u inna de bathroom

in her case, one did go in deh behine har an start feel up har eh hem. shi say shi friten so till..she neva know wah fi do but lef de club afta dat caw a one Butch lookin ooman an har fren dem did tan up a de door to \o/
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SPOTS</div><div class="ubbcode-body">There must be an epidemic, because my daughter told me about a similar incident last week (which I was planning to post for feedback).

As I told my daughter, just tell her that you do not go that way, you are not curious about going that way and NO you don't have to try it to know that you won't like it because some girls are really pushing the barriers these days. </div></div> </div></div>



Thanks for posting this Bizi. An example like this is why I can't see the humor in this mess. I just made my daughter read this thread and it was upsetting. If it were a guy, he would be in jail, so why should it be a LAUGHING MATTER when the perpetrator is female?

I swear, what happened to her is a violation and she is definitely going to press charges.

[applepie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

but Bizi wants to be tactful Gen </div></div>

It pass tactful state........she has to be direct and firm.......if not this woman will continue to think it is ok. A simple I am not that way dont usually work.

[Nylah]

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I agree with you Miss Pie I was just trying to accomodate Bizi's request

I think Bizi can now see that tact may not be in her favour.

[Stormmey]

Re: strange situation

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SPOTS</div><div class="ubbcode-body">There must be an epidemic</div></div>
... among black women. </div></div>

among white women too....I don't want to derail Bizi thread but

[Stormmey]

Re: strange situation

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SPOTS</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Am i the only one who feel really repulsed by being approached by a female in that manner? I don't know, it might have something to do with the look of fear in my daughter's eyes when she told me how she was confronted.

I just can't see the humor in sticking a knife in the fool who'd try that with me or any of my daughters... </div></div>

fear??? seriously? what shi thinks the lezzie agoh hole har dung an tek ie feh a wah kinda eediat argument dat yu a come wid. typical homophobic nonsense

go educate yourself Spots </div></div>


T!! mebbe her daughter bout eighteen or nineteen so, had similar situation with me when I was bout seveenteen or eighteen. Now at twentysix I would definitely react differently.

[britisha]

Re: strange situation

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BiziWibbleWobble</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi have a friend weh mek certain comments to me sometime, like:
<ul style="list-style-type: disc">[*]it's a shame u not a man, cause we would make a nice couple[*]i'm not gay or anything, but u have a nice body[*]if i liked girls, i would want you[/list]

and other stuff like that..

mi used to jus tek it as compliment/joke an move on..

but now shi come an a tell mi bout how she made out with a girl over the weekend ...and I'm wonderin if she a try put some moves on me

last time i spoke to her was monday, but she call mi tiddeh and mi sen it to vmail. she wanna know what mi gettin into this w/end.

So I replied with a txt that I had plans and wouldn't be around. Not sure if mi gwaan feel comfortable around her again

anybody else find dis strange?? u would keep on hanging out with her or cut the 'friendship'?
</div></div>

Yup, she aftah yuh. Had an experience like that once, with a girl on the job...same kindah moves shi used to mek. Well to cut it short, found out later through anodda &quot;friend&quot; that she IS that/BI..

eta, mi did feel sorrie but mi did finally ask har brazenly if shi was dat an tel har seh mi is nat....and shi did try physically to go after my friends &quot;money..err----&quot;