Rules in relationships

**LusciousJohnson** · 08-27-2009, 04:40 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">the two a dem soun like couple of MENSA members. shi a chat bout har poonta nice wah mek him gwan soh?

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big hawssteering man can't buy fone anna get marrid??!!!

Twiny remove yourself from the situation. you may very well be putting yourself in harm's way. </div></div>

Yup. And then she brags about the ring that he got her that he didnt even buy. The ring was her friend's ring that her friend's ex-husband bought for her. They make payments on it every month. Well it might be paid off by now i'm not sure on that part.

So if he can't pay for the engagement ring by himself then he definitely not gonna get his own phone.

And i'm not Twiny Sue

**Suesumba** · 08-27-2009, 04:46 PM

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sarry Fancy girl.

waddat bout di ring?????!!!! har poonta can't dat nice.

**kia027** · 08-27-2009, 04:53 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The ring was her friend's ring that her friend's ex-husband bought for her. </div></div>

well I am all for recycling and dem ting dere but when you mention <span style="font-weight: bold">they</span> are paying it off each month ie come in like she a pay fi ar own ring

**LusciousJohnson** · 08-27-2009, 04:55 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: chitown</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-style: italic">***clearing throat***</span>

excuse me, no offense fancy, but <span style="font-size: 14pt">why di hell yuh deh inna miggle?</span>

nexx ting dem mek yuh tun fool

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I am not in the middle of anything. What do u consider me being in the middle? i mean besides the fact that he calls me or my phone looking for her?

i offered my opinion to her once out of concern for her and that was it.

go bak an read di kwestion </div></div>

I agree- I would tell him the next time he calls that you dont want to be in the middle, and will not be taking his calls! Why are you his eyes and ears, as well as her alibi? Next thing you know <span style="font-weight: bold">he might assume you're in cahoots with her doing a dirty</span>. Dont get sucked into their games. BTW, what do you talk about when he calls your phone? </div></div>

Now this is definitely true. I took off one Friday. She decided she was gonna take off too so we could get our nails and stuff done and just hang out. She forgot to tell him. so he was calling the house all day (found this out after he called my phone) and was not understanding where she was since he had the car. Finally he calls me and said "Hey F. Have u talked to B today? I'm worried about her. She not answering the phone at home and i dont know where she could be and i hope something didnt happen." I said "Hold on." i gave her the phone and they were going at it! He went off cuz she didnt tell him she was taking the day off. And then figured we were "up to something" since both of us took off the same day. According to him we HAD to be doing more than just getting our nails and toes done.

But that is the extent of our conversations. Actually that was probably the longest conversation because normally he says "Hey F is B around?" and i say yeah hold on and give her the phone. Nowadays i know from the ring tone its him and i just hand her the phone so she can answer it cuz now as u all can see i am tired of it and i just dont even wanna hear his pitiful tail on the phone asking for her like a sick puppy

**LusciousJohnson** · 08-27-2009, 04:58 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sarry Fancy girl.

waddat bout di ring?????!!!! har poonta can't dat nice. </div></div>

nuh worries Sue

But yeah the ring belonged to a friend of hers. She got a divorce and is remarried now but she still had the ring that her ex-husband gave her. Somehow it was agreed upon by all parties involved that my friend would get the ring and they would pay her friend for it.

**LusciousJohnson** · 08-27-2009, 05:02 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The ring was her friend's ring that her friend's ex-husband bought for her. </div></div>

well I am all for recycling and dem ting dere but when you mention <span style="font-weight: bold">they</span> are paying it off each month ie come in like she a pay fi ar own ring

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Well she is. He doesnt make as much as she does. So his money goes in with her money to pay all the bills so when they pay the bills they include a payment for the ring in the budget.

He is not taking the money directly from his paycheck to give to the friend to pay for the ring

**loops** · 08-27-2009, 05:03 PM

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and he's a flaming arse.

**chitowngirl** · 08-27-2009, 08:15 PM

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what's up with your girlfriend 'expecting' your cellphone to always be available for her and her man's use anyway?

<span style="font-style: italic">maybe shi wi lissen if mi stawt cuss...</span>

mek mi tell yuh likkle sinting (((fancy)))

that 25 year old prick IS NOT going to change ... do you hear me?
and it seems your 30 year old friend hasn't had her fill of said pricks either (pun intended)

I am telling you from personal experience that this is not going to end well and
you'd be wise to not find yourself in the middle when it explodes

<span style="font-weight: bold">THEY ARE BOTH USING YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!</span>

**missus_vegas** · 08-27-2009, 11:49 PM

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well fancy as everybody keep saying tek weh yuh self.
tell ur fren fi tell her man fi stap call yuh phone.
but be sure seh it ago cause problem. him goodly ban har from chat to you

wen it come to man and ooman tory its best stay away. every woman always feel seh dem know dem man and understand dem man etc. so all you a go talk to har now from har mine mek up, yuh talk just go thru one aize and out di next.

it took mi a long time of thinking and deciding and being scared of wat if dis wat if dat to decide wedda mi ago marrid or nat and wen i finally decide an seh yes to him i dont tink Jesus coulda come affa di cross and convince me not to.

**LusciousJohnson** · 08-28-2009, 10:05 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: chitown</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">what's up with your girlfriend 'expecting' your cellphone to always be available for her and her man's use anyway? </span>

<span style="font-style: italic">maybe shi wi lissen if mi stawt cuss...</span>

mek mi tell yuh likkle sinting (((fancy)))

that 25 year old prick IS NOT going to change ... do you hear me?
and it seems your 30 year old friend hasn't had her fill of said pricks either (pun intended)

I am telling you from personal experience that this is not going to end well and
you'd be wise to not find yourself in the middle when it explodes

<span style="font-weight: bold">THEY ARE BOTH USING YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!</span>

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u know Chi that is my question too. and even more so why she will get mad at me for being bothered by it? i mean i wouldnt get mad if the situation was reversed.

In her defense, this guy probably is the nicest of the previous pricks she's dated as far as being respectful to her. But she DOES make some weird choices in men...excuse me pricks but u can't tell her nothing. i mean NOTHING! She think she knows it all when it comes to men.

I hope i am not anywhere close when things explode cuz i do agree with u that it wont be a good thing

and i agree that they are both using me to keep tabs on each other and i think if talk to them both like yall say and explain to them both that i dont want to continue to be used and be in the middle of their mess that the calls will stop except for emergencies of course.

I'm planning to talk to them about this this weekend when i know i can catch them both together.

**loops** · 08-28-2009, 10:06 AM

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**LusciousJohnson** · 08-28-2009, 10:09 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body">well fancy as everybody keep saying tek weh yuh self.
tell ur fren fi tell her man fi stap call yuh phone.
but be sure seh it ago cause problem. him goodly ban har from chat to you

wen it come to man and ooman tory its best stay away. every woman always feel seh dem know dem man and understand dem man etc. so all you a go talk to har now from har mine mek up, yuh talk just go thru one aize and out di next.

it took mi a long time of thinking and deciding and being scared of wat if dis wat if dat to decide wedda mi ago marrid or nat and wen i finally decide an seh yes to him i dont tink Jesus coulda come affa di cross and convince me not to. </div></div>

u are so right vegas. before they got engaged someone MIGHT have been able to tell her a thing or too bout him but now since they are engaged...u can cancel Christmas! It aint happening. She aint listening to NADA!

and Congrats on ur wedding! i saw those pics Beautiful!

**chitowngirl** · 08-28-2009, 10:34 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> I'm planning to talk to them about this this weekend when i know i can catch them both together.</div></div>
yuh bettah dan mi hennyway, gwaan gi dem di 'benefit' an beg yuh mek wi knoh wapm

**LusciousJohnson** · 08-28-2009, 10:56 AM

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be nice Chi

i will give an update Monday

**Bizzy** · 08-28-2009, 11:38 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">She doesn't seem to mind because she asked if there was somewhere else we could go instead of ATL. I was like sure i dont care...anywhere fun will do. So i suggested VA. Well she cant go there either because her ex lives there </div></div>pappyshow

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