whaffi do

[LiteBlonde]

Re: whaffi do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wat gungo seh...i have a friend from back in college who was promiscuous..she got passed around the basketball team..<span style="font-weight: bold">and funny thing is she is very pretty yet she still has self esteem problems.</span> anyway i cut her off to the point where we are not close anymore but manage to say hi on birthdays etc. still care for her very much but she still has some growing to do.. </div></div>

Studies have shown that those 'pretty' ones have the lowest self esteem and has proved that what lies on the outside has very little to do with a person's self-esteem. It mostly has to do with what lies within.

[Bandana]

Re: whaffi do

I would be honest with my friend. I would tell her that even tho I know she is a grown woman and able to make her own decisions for herself that hearing of her being with a married man makes me feel a way. \o/

I would still be her friend as it is not my place to judge, and I would want my friends to be there for me even if I made mistakes.

You are allowed to feel the way you do Jaded, if she is a true friend she will understand


Has your friend ever been married?

I think once you look at it from the &quot;wife&quot; point of view, being the mistress look ugly fi true

[turtledude]

Re: whaffi do

when people start telling me that kinda stuff I give it to them point blank. Loops has a point....they're usually looking for validation. If you just sit there and say nothing, it's like &quot;silent consent&quot;....so when chit hits the fan....being an &quot;associate&quot; of the &quot;friend&quot;(?) leaves the door open to getting smeared with the muck.

[Bandana]

Re: whaffi do

I think you can be honest about your feelings, distance yourself from the situation, and still be there with a hose for your friend, after the [img]http://smiley.onegreatguy.net/****hitfan.gif[/img]

[applepie]

Re: whaffi do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think you can be honest about your feelings, distance yourself from the situation, and still be there with a hose for your friend, after the [img]http://smiley.onegreatguy.net/****hitfan.gif[/img] </div></div>

agree

[Suesumba]

Re: whaffi do

how old is she? caz i done thought the whole married thing was well known, discussed and found not amusing.

[tsophra]

Re: whaffi do

old enuff to have received the memo by snail mail and fax, xeroxed and scanned..and to make decision about how to roll..

anyway me tell har seh this is something I won't be able to discuss wid har cause I'm not indulging the fantasy..

done..

[MarieK]

Re: whaffi do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ah..I see..I would not say she goes on about her personal life..we just chat as friends do about things in our lives..kids,jobs, men..

whether or not I support her decision is irrelevant..

in her words..she's not trying to take him from his wife..she say's she'll be quite happy in the role has mistress..so she seems aware of what she's getting into

but here's an example of my problem..she call me up and ask me how to get de man to buy lingerie fe har..me tell har seh wid x amount of children he does not have money to buy her anything..she said she does not care /o\

aye sah..I hope she gets tired of this one soon </div></div>

so mek mi get dis straight she nuh want him fi harself but she want him tuh be buying her stuff, sound like she wanna be treated like di wife to me.

tell har fi call him wife an axe him wife how she get har husband fi buy her lingerie

[tsophra]

Re: whaffi do

the opposite..she seh as the mistress that's what she entitled to..

i know...i know

[MarieK]

Re: whaffi do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">the opposite..she seh as the mistress that's what she entitled to..

i know...i know

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entitled??????? LMAO woieeeee okay then sweetie yuh nuh entitled tuh nuttn nat even di buddy weh u a get u entitled tuh. technically i wonder if she know if di wife fine out she haffi guh hand ova alla di lingerie dem lmao woieeeee

dat come eeen like sitten mi fine out dis weekend - di side gyal a pay fi di lawn at di mistress yaad fi get cut - well a di least she cudda duh some woman really fi guh kill dem self an done dem suh dyam fool fool.