What would you think...

[LusciousJohnson]

Okay say you are supposed to be in a wedding and you and the bride are supposed to be really good friends...such good friends that she makes you a maid of honor. Then when it gets time to pick out the dresses, she picks out an ugly dress for you but the dresses for the other 2 MOHs are GORGEOUS gowns.

What would you think? Would you tell her you think the dress she picked for you is ugly or that you could pick a better dress? What would you do?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: What would you think...

MOH wear different frock than BM?

[LusciousJohnson]

Re: What would you think...

In her wedding yes

[diabolical_Tanya]

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okay well meeda cuss har out an tell har chree cloths I cyaaan stan insecure people

[Venn]

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A she a pay fi sed frack or is me? If a she den me'da prably wear it fi di one day and dash/geet weh afta wuds. If a me a pay fah me'da tell har mi opinion pan di frack....whatever happens after dat is cool wid me.

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">okay well meeda cuss har out an tell har chree cloths I cyaaan stan insecure people </div></div>

um wah dat mean

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Venn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">A she a pay fi sed frack or is me? If a she den me'da prably wear it fi di one day and dash/geet weh afta wuds. If a me a pay fah me'da tell har mi opinion pan di frack....whatever happens after dat is cool wid me.
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no mi affi pay fi di frock. if she a pay fi it den mi nuh care wah shi pick. di frock mi pick shi seh &quot;you gonna look better than R and she is gonna have a fit.&quot;
R har bess fren an shi insecure bout har arms showing an di frock mi pic lakka halter sitten soh shi waan mi fi weh wan ugly frack soh mi nuh look betta dan har foofoo fren

wah mi fi do?

[Venn]

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Me'da excuse miself fram di wedding party.

How much of a fren is she to u? do u care much about di frenship?

And aneeda ting, di minute shi put an insecure person in her wedding party, she know shi dida goh have problems...if it wasn't yuh frack it woulda been someting else.....save yuhself di headache an possibly di end of a frenship.

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Venn</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">Me'da excuse miself fram di wedding party.</span>

How much of a fren is she to u? do u care much about di frenship?

And aneeda ting, di minute shi put an insecure person in her wedding party, she know shi dida goh have problems...if it wasn't yuh frack it woulda been someting else.....save yuhself di headache an possibly di end of a frenship. </div></div>

a dat mi waan do fi true.

well mi did tink seh wi good frens but afta disya madness mi nuh know . everyting shi do now bout how shi nuh waan mek R mad bout dis an dat . mi seh is who a get marrid R or yuh! Cho!

[Stormmey]

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Hell to the no, you are paying for your dress tell her that is her insecure friend business. If it was me I would tell her I am 2 drop ded gorgeous and sexy to wear anything ugly/something I do not feel comfortable wearing just to appease her eediat fren.....brite

If she says no I would tell here to start looking for someone else to be her MOH

[LusciousJohnson]

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okay so i just talked to her again and told her i would not feel comfortable in the dress she picked. i told her if she doesnt want me to pick my own dress then can she pick another one. she said she will look for another dress. she said (just now) that the dress she picked was before i had my surgery but now since i am no longer &quot;top heavy&quot; then she can pick another dress.

Okay how bout i have told her waaaay before i had my surgery (which was in July) that i didnt like the dress and that after surgery it wouldnt fit me right. I have told her after i had my surgery as well. But TODAY she finally agrees that the dress she chose is too big for me now and i need a different dress for my &quot;current body.&quot;
I guess from me going back and forth (or complaining ) about it made her change her mind

Now she is supposed to be emailing me some pics of dresses tomorrow.

If this &quot;new&quot; dress is fugly I'm gonna

I wouldnt DARE do something like this to someone that is supposed to be my friend.

aye sah...I'm getting a headache...i dont understand ppl sometimes

[Venn]

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Might I suggest dat unnu go look fi dis 2nd frack together? dat should save u more headaches.

[Bizzy]

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OK, so why isn't her best friend the maid of honor?

and why de hell shi a hav 3 maid of honors? regardless of who is paying for it, if it ugly an is u one ago deh inna de ugly frack...nuh wear it. Excuse u self from the MOH position and tek part as guest an wear wadeva de hell u want.

as far as mi know, MOH supposed to inna de same gown color as the BMs but fi har style supposed to be different and stand out cause fi har position inna de bridal party is 'special'

[LusciousJohnson]

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har bess fren is wan of di MOHs an anedda gyal weh shi grow wid an mi mek 3 MOHs. shi hav 3 sayka shi cyaan choose wan caws shi nuh waan fi mad noboddi. mi nuh care. mi coulda been BM sed way. nuh matta.
Di BM dem frack alla di same. each MOH frack diffrant but same color. Di bess fren an di odda gyal pick dem frack but di bride pick fimi afta shi si di wan weh mi choose an show it to di odda gyal dem an dem seh dat BS.

Di bess fren mad bout di odda gyal frack too! Ano juss mi...

an if mi nuh deh inna har weddin, a wah di sayin bout powder house or sitten anedda ... but yea dat gwine be di case wid har

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Venn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Might I suggest dat unnu go look fi dis 2nd frack together? dat should save u more headaches. </div></div>


mi suggest dat but mi nuh get nuh ansa pon dat kwestian