Lovers and War

**diabolical_Tanya** · 11-12-2009, 03:21 PM

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me an Treva noh have noh argument

**CeaBee** · 11-12-2009, 03:33 PM

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i pick 1, 2 and 4.

as u seh 1 and 2 go together for most women i think. and most time i try to go wid 4 because it nuh mek nuh sense fi discuss when everybody still .

but of course u run the risk wid 4 that the "discussion" will start the all ova again

but the discussion argument not usually as bad as the initial one in any case.

**Wendy** · 11-12-2009, 03:41 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Shebada</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> me an Treva noh have noh argument </div></div>

LOL.. a soh mi sey to. Argument? A wah name soh

Betta try yuh bes ansa di questian bout yuh an Treva noh argue

**Wendy** · 11-12-2009, 03:43 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i pick 1, 2 and 4.

as u seh 1 and 2 go together for most women i think. and most time i try to go wid 4 because it nuh mek nuh sense fi discuss when everybody still .

<span style="font-weight: bold">but of course u run the risk wid 4 that the "discussion" will start the all ova again </span>

but the discussion argument not usually as bad as the initial one in any case. </div></div>

Dats why mi a sey # 4 tek a very mature partner fi dat wok

But mi tink if yuh start out wid 1 and 2 it hard fi get to 4.. tings may get so bad an stalemate dat yuh noh feel like reason wid di smaddy (male or female)..

**CeaBee** · 11-12-2009, 03:50 PM

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me not that mature yet it seems

cause if me really mad, me really doan waan talk to u, till me cool down

**Stormmey** · 11-12-2009, 04:08 PM

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I do 1, but cannot stay mad for long. I cannot do number 2, sometimes I wish I could. He is the one that is always saying some damn fool thing like whats the matter baby why are you getting so mad....as if yu don't know then I get mad all over again.

And yes I cool off and we discuss it...but cheeze

**Wendy** · 11-12-2009, 04:31 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <span style="font-weight: bold">I cannot do number 2, sometimes I wish I could</span>.
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BOAL. Stormey ..Lawd mi a dead ova yah. Yuh know how dat soun waiaiaiai Whappen yuh canstipated?

OH lowd mek mi tap badda yuh yaah.

Yes Stormey mi know wey yuh a sey. Nutten mek yuh bexier when dem know why yuh mad an ask why yuh bex. Wan ting mi cyan tek is a non apologetic partner. If mi and im ago do #4 an wi conclude sey a him did wrang, mi cyan tek when im fine it hard fi express remorse. But when dem can do dat and throw in some concessions dat mek mi heart melt wey

**Wendy** · 11-12-2009, 04:38 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">me not that mature yet it seems

cause if me really mad, me really doan waan talk to u, till me cool down </div></div>

Dat noh mean sey yuh noh mature.. Numba 4 noh sey dat yuh doan have a cooling down period fuss. I think we all need that.

One thing me and my SO agreed to is that if we need to hash out something wi doan do it over email or TextMsg No No No.. people tend to say things in text to yuh dat dem wouden sey to yuh face ..PLUS things are so open to <span style="font-weight: bold">mis</span>interpretation in text. Face mi an let's deal with it.

**Stormmey** · 11-12-2009, 05:54 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> BOAL. Stormey ..Lawd mi a dead ova yah. Yuh know how dat soun waiaiaiai Whappen yuh canstipated? </div></div>

Wendy you wrong fee dat iiena, when I was typing I just didn't realized how that would be seen.

**Suesumba** · 11-12-2009, 05:58 PM

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i don't want to be with anyone who i'd malice to that extent. if we're warring, i'm outta there.

**LusciousJohnson** · 11-12-2009, 05:59 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wendy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">When you and your SO have a quarrel (big or small) how do you usually get past it?

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1. Do you malice him/her for X amount a days and stay vex for a long time
2. Withhold sex until the person comes around to you
3. Shove issues under the rug and let it go and move on
4. Cool off for a period and then come back and discuss the issue(s)</span>

I am had a discussion with someone and who shared with me some dislikes about how couples resolve or not resolve issues. What do you usually to do to make peace after a fight?

Personally I think categories 1 and 2 go tigeda I used to be a #3 .. and I find that if you fit into #4 you need a hell of a very mature partner.
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#4 first then #3. Never really been withheld sex before and i dont really have the energy for #1 because it could lead to #2 and i dont want that

**goldilocks** · 11-12-2009, 06:18 PM

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I start with 4 and then move to 1 and 2 as the situation warrants!

**Wendy** · 11-12-2009, 06:31 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't want to be with anyone who i'd malice to that extent. if we're warring, i'm outta there. </div></div>

Oh Ok. So are you always a number 4 then Sue?

Or Number 5 - Di fus time yuh disagree wid mi - step!

**missus_vegas** · 11-12-2009, 06:53 PM

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i try to do 1 and 2 but really i am more a 4...the mr is 1 and 2...as the shout box ppl dem already know

u need one weh seh mi just wan to blaze up fi 5-10 mins and den rooks it off...dats me really mi no inna di long drawn out ting but mi get and ready fi draw blood

is a good ting mr man is 1 and 2 can u imagine if him was like me blood shed

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