She Was Offended

[Pepper]

Had lunch with my co-worker di odda day. We chat bout dis and dat, till we get on relationships. She said har man insult har wid one request. Dem was chatting, mekking joke, laughing enjoying a nice evening togedda. Conversation turn towards sex and dem still a have a nice chat. Guess him felt comfy enough fi drop di bomb......him would like to do a threesome.

Di nice cozy evening ended right there for her. She was highly offended, and insulted that he would mention this to her.

So me ask 'why?'

<span style="font-style: italic">side note....dem is a very sexual couple.</span>

She feel dat as his girlfriend, him shouldn't ask har such a ting. Dat a sumting fi him when him just a date smaddy dat him don't care about. Is someone like that him should ask for a threesome, not his proper girlfriend.

Me ask har is she nuh know dat just about every man have dat fantasy? Yes, she know, but if it get fulfilled it should be wid smaddy him just a deal wid.

Me say a guess him felt comfy enough with you to ask if it was OK. Him nevah get demanding wid har, she said no and him said ok. Dat was it fi him, but she start seethe and tell him off.

Me tell har she a overreact, cause di way di two a dem carry on, she should have expeted it. What unno think?

[Nanook]

Re: She Was Offended

I think he is going to regret those words falling out of his mout.

[CeaBee]

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I think that I am offended for her too

sexual wid each other is different from bringing other people into it

on the flip side : it's good for couples to have these discussions about boundaries and blah blah blah

[ILP]

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She overreact man. Him obviously felt comfortable enough fi ask har... at least im ask...(eediat ooman).

Mi hope she nuh overreact when im go out deh go get im 3some

[Bizzy]

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She's a silly woman.

If that's the first time he's asking her, she should have just said no if shi not interested. Then if him ask her another time then she can get offended. but it nuh seem like dem eva discuss this before...

if dem is dat sexual they should have had a conversation, if not several, on the things they will and won't do already. Dat shoodan discuss long time ago

[Pepper]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

on the flip side : it's good for couples to have these discussions about boundaries and blah blah blah </div></div>

Den dis was di discussion.

[Jazz]

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I think I would be offended also - I would take it as a sign that he is not serious about me... I don't think any man that is serious about a woman would ask her to participate in something like that.

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

on the flip side : it's good for couples to have these discussions about boundaries and blah blah blah </div></div>

Den dis was di discussion. </div></div>

i hear u

[jah_yout]

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i knew a chick that gave her boyfriend a threesome for his birthday

[julie*mango]

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she fool ...if she so uncomfortable with it all she had to do was tell him yes she will do it on condition dat she get to have him an another man at the same time.

[Pepper]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jah_yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i knew a chick that gave her boyfriend a threesome for his birthday </div></div>

Yuh tink dat was a good present?

[Pepper]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think I would be offended also - I would take it as a sign that he is not serious about me... I don't think any man that is serious about a woman would ask her to participate in something like that. </div></div>

So how bout dem couple dat been marrid fi whole heap a years and every once in a while dem do dem tings deh?

Maybe him just a freak, dat nuh mean him nuh serious.

[Pepper]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _____</div><div class="ubbcode-body">she fool ...if she so uncomfortable with it all she had to do was tell him yes she will do it on condition dat she get to have him an another man at the same time. </div></div>

Yuh nuh easy.

[Gen]

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ditto.

mi agree wid the gf, if him wanted to experience dat mek him nevah guh do dat wid 2 booty call girls. mi nuh think she shouldan did cuss him off, but like the movie guh &quot;maybe him just not into her&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think I would be offended also - I would take it as a sign that he is not serious about me... I don't think any man that is serious about a woman would ask her to participate in something like that. </div></div>

[Gen]

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di odda night mi a watch sitten pan HBO real sex..

anyway, dis couple, the guy did seh him want do same ting like da bredda yah suh him ooman guh pan the internet guh order one &quot;realistic&quot; looking female doll emmm wid all the parts and openings. all the tongue move

tell yuh friend/coworker fi order one as a surprise and tell him yes and gwaan set it up and when the time come juss buss out out the dolly and gie him one lick ..ok scratch the lick cause dem supposed to heavy cause dem real...tek sitten else and cleet him and seh

&quot;see yuh chreesome yah, yuh owl dutty wretch&quot;


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think I would be offended also - I would take it as a sign that he is not serious about me... I don't think any man that is serious about a woman would ask her to participate in something like that. </div></div>

So how bout dem couple dat been marrid fi whole heap a years and every once in a while dem do dem tings deh?

Maybe him just a freak, dat nuh mean him nuh serious. </div></div>