Lie or Omission

[Hush Darlin]

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Sorry tohear that you are going through this ish Stormmey
this thing is very heavy
but you do mention some very doisturbing things about him making racist remarks.
What if you had/have kids and one or more of them is black (yes I say black cause you are mixed with black)
how would he handle that you have to take that into consideration too when making your decision whether to forgive hima nd go back to him....
Trust me you cant change people for who they already are

[Boopie2]

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I could forgive him for not telling me about a child but I'd have a hard time forgiving him for continuung to lie and come up with excuses for his behaviour. If he manned up to it right from the get go I would be [censored] but think I could at least work it thru with him.

I agree There would have been a big difference if he told her straight up. It would have been her choice to continue the relationship or break it off once knowing the truth.

[Stormmey]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Sorry tohear that you are going through this ish Stormmey
this thing is very heavy
but you do mention some very doisturbing things about him making racist remarks.
What if you had/have kids and one or more of them is black (yes I say black cause you are mixed with black)
how would he handle that you have to take that into consideration too when making your decision whether to forgive hima nd go back to him....
Trust me you cant change people for who they already are
</div></div>

Thanks SS,

sometimes the writing is on the wall, too sad we ignore it as irrelevant until after the fact.

[Yvonne N.]

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Wishing you well...whatever your decision...

[rufian]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Sorry tohear that you are going through this ish Stormmey
this thing is very heavy
but you do mention some very doisturbing things about him making racist remarks.
What if you had/have kids and one or more of them is black (yes I say black cause you are mixed with black)
how would he handle that you have to take that into consideration too when making your decision whether to forgive hima nd go back to him....
Trust me you cant change people for who they already are
</div></div>

Thanks SS,

sometimes the writing is on the wall, too sad we ignore it as irrelevant until after the fact. </div></div>
Well let me take the other side since everybody gone next way

It is nice to see when mixed people marry mixed people. Makes me wonder what make them find each other as ideal in the first place. Too much a salient racism in this for me.
Talking about to inherit Caucasian genes, he might as well go breed a white woman since you done inherit Negroid genes.

In other words,

What did you find so special about him?

[FrenchTickla]

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thought it was already established dat people can fall in love with smaddy of any color, race or creed.

i don't think stormmey need fi justify her relationship. u live and u learn. u stick around or u move on.

maybe mi just touches

u serious sookie?

[rufian]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: FrenchTickla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">thought it was already established dat people can fall in love with smaddy of any color, race or creed.

i don't think stormmey need fi justify her relationship. u live and u learn. u stick around or u move on.

maybe mi just touches

u serious sookie? </div></div>
na read nothing into it, mek she ansa just want to get the full picture seriously, seen.

if stormmey was overlooking so many things about this man, like he dont have his own roof, what else was she overlooking or what was she looking at? what made him so special in her eyes? Is that me asking.

i guess he doesnt have to justify sleeping with the black woman in the cafeteria neither.