DEXTER Negril

[MarieK]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
not saying nuff dont indulge in that kind of behaviour but in them blood implies like they cant help themselves.

I know enough men that dont act like that as well. I wont give anyone a break and say that their behaviour is cause they cant help themselves...nuh suh </div></div>

aye sah... it's a disability leave di young man dem

[Marielle]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">While Visiting Negril for a number of years I met a youth called Dexter,
He called me every single day after my holiday and begged me to return,He told me he loved me,He asked me to marry him/have his baby and I fell for his patter.
He works on the See bottom boat the ever ready boat in Negril.Outside Roots Bamboo.I stayed at Rondel.I almost gave up my whole life to be with him but then after doing a bit of searching,I find out that not only did he have another girl/s there one being a K - 2 from USA and 1 from Canada(they are just the ones I know about during my stay)
but I find out that he already has 2 children out there and 1 girl had already had an abortion,I can probably guess why.
I have managed to connect with one of his girlfriends and it turns out he said exactly the same thing to us all.He uses his daughter as an excuse to get money for diapers and such like,he brings her to the beach so that you can see her and he says you are her step mum as the child does not live with its own mother as she is a bad mother.When his phone is switched off he uses his babys mother as an excuse to be out all day,he says she always needs help she is a lowlife but he helps because of his daughter,what he is really up to is sleeping with another girl probably in the next hotel room to you.
He called me daily,asked me to marry him introduced me to everybody as his girlfriend,I am so ashamed now.I think I am now pregnant and I am not a silly nieve girl wh would normally fall for this sort of patter so he was very good,This is just a word of warning.I thought he was a genuine person with a job and a normal life,turns out he could be a beach gigalo infact I would put money on it that he is.He promises you the world but just ends up taking,He could have countless children worldwide or all I know if he asks every girl he meets on that boat to have his baby.And those girls that pay to go on that boat are not getting any snorkelling done.I feel like you cannot trust anyone out there now.He was very good the way he got paid and I got played.He said the same rude sexy lines over the phone to us all! So what now?
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Oh, I am so sorry to hear that, are you pregnant??

these men are such losers!

[Marielle]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am usually the one to warn others away from messes like this so he must have been one smooth talker. </div></div>

Isn't life strange that we can tell it a mile away with someone else, but have a block on our eyes with our own experience?!!

[Marielle]

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Be thankful you are well rid of him.

[Marielle]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Killa_Tilla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote]
Played for future reference when a man says the mother of his child is incompetent, it is probably he that is incompetent. That was a warning sign right there </div></div>

Thanks for that!

[Marielle]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Played I have a question for you
was the bamboo big and was it good or is it jus a myth </div></div>

[Hush Darlin]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tishamae</div><div class="ubbcode-body">It's a learned behavour[sp]and people do what they do in tourist areas.

I agree around Jamaica there are plenty of good men, they just don't hang out all day and night with no job like the one &quot;played&quot; ended up with or should I say without.

<span style="font-weight: bold">Far as stanama, I learned from my mother as a young girl how to mix up the drinks that are for strong back </span>





<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

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aye sah

[Seveen]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tishamae</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-size: 11pt">well your next visit - you'll be fair game for a new one </span>

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and vunrable


Meaning?
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the &quot;others&quot; know you are man-less so on your next trip to negril they will make sure to tell you how pretty you are - how he did you wrong - how they will do better than that - and you will think they are sincere too - 'cause they are good at their jobs

i have spent many a night at Barry's listening to the chatter of the gigs when they are &quot;off work&quot; - some of the best comedy i have ever heard </div></div>

I 've had the pleasure myself for many years now. Do you realize these gig's are so good they get the tourist to sell her house in the USA, buy them a car, build a house and the said women they do it to are not even MARRIED!! So when the chatter goes like this &quot;Me got all me need a drive, a house, now me dump de big woman and find me one nice YOUNG Jamaican girl to breed for me. They laugh how easy it is, especialy with the older big woman. If you are ever called grocery store or milk that means you are supplying them until they are finished with you. And then they laugh about how much WU they collect. Sorry for you.

WHO HERE WOULD BUILD A CONCRETE HOUSE ON LAND YOU DO NOT HAVE A TITLE TOO???
NOT ME </div></div>



there are none so blind as those that will not see

[loops]

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when i bought my camp in downeast maine, it was on leased land.

[neutral]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tishamae</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> And I will say it again Jamaican men PRIDE themselves on how much woman they can 'juggle' at one time and how much pickney they have. I know of a man that had 17 children by different woman jamaican women and the whole area treated him like a king because his 'seed' was so strong.. It's in thier blood. <span style="color: #CC0000"> </span> </div></div>


How come you can say this and get away with it but when I said something similar in this forum a few months ago I nearly got lynched,..people were coming from all sides saying that`s not right cos their dad was an angel, and some were saying their brothers were angels,..AND BLAH DE BLAH !...but now hardly a word said.

Unnu membah de &quot;jamaican men&quot; thread.......yeah,ofcourse unnu do.

Aye sah,...I know that on this board if one wait long enough the chickens will eventually come home to roost,...so [removed] to those of you who was so vocal when I mentioned the same thing.

[britisha]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Natral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tishamae</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> And I will say it again Jamaican men PRIDE themselves on how much woman they can 'juggle' at one time and how much pickney they have. I know of a man that had 17 children by different woman jamaican women and the whole area treated him like a king because his 'seed' was so strong.. It's in thier blood. <span style="color: #CC0000"> </span> </div></div>


How come you can say this and get away with it but when I said something similar in this forum a few months ago I nearly got lynched,..people were coming from all sides saying that`s not right cos their dad was an angel, and some were saying their brothers were angels,..AND BLAH DE BLAH !...but now hardly a word said.

Unnu membah de &quot;jamaican men&quot; thread.......yeah,ofcourse unnu do.

Aye sah,...I know that on this board if one wait long enough the chickens will eventually come home to roost,...so [removed] to those of you who was so vocal when I mentioned the same thing.

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Yup mi membah di chred, clear clear.

[neutral]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: britisha</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Natral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tishamae</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> And I will say it again Jamaican men PRIDE themselves on how much woman they can 'juggle' at one time and how much pickney they have. I know of a man that had 17 children by different woman jamaican women and the whole area treated him like a king because his 'seed' was so strong.. It's in thier blood. <span style="color: #CC0000"> </span> </div></div>


How come you can say this and get away with it but when I said something similar in this forum a few months ago I nearly got lynched,..people were coming from all sides saying that`s not right cos their dad was an angel, and some were saying their brothers were angels,..AND BLAH DE BLAH !...but now hardly a word said.

Unnu membah de &quot;jamaican men&quot; thread.......yeah,ofcourse unnu do.

Aye sah,...I know that on this board if one wait long enough the chickens will eventually come home to roost,...so [removed] to those of you who was so vocal when I mentioned the same thing.

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Yup mi membah di chred, clear clear. </div></div>

Thank you,...it would appear that it is ok for some people to voice certain sentiments on the board unchallenged,but others arent,there are enough people willing to tar and feather &quot;played&quot; for being played in jamaica,..but not enough willing to take the same view they took when I said what has been said above........ it would appear I`m not the only one who hold the same view.....shall we say,.......touche !!!

[Nylah]

Re: DEXTER Negril


okay then, let *me* repeat myself

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
not saying nuff dont indulge in that kind of behaviour but in them blood implies like they cant help themselves.

I know enough men that dont act like that as well. I wont give anyone a break and say that their behaviour is cause they cant help themselves...nuh suh </div></div>

[neutral]

Re: DEXTER Negril

Yeah I saw where you responded nylah,and fair play to you,..but I dont see any of my detractors from the original thread.

[Nylah]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Natral</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Yeah I saw where you responded nylah,and fair play to you,..but I dont see any of my detractors from the original thread. </div></div>

agreed. I am surprised nobody jumped on it either to be honest. They just let it slide.

at least be consistent with the topic, you know?