DEXTER Negril

[played]

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sweetsop>so you are saying after you found out he was playing you and the others you continue to play along and got pregnant

NO I did not click most of the pieces together until the last day and on the journey home.

[Hush Darlin]

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so u never bought diapers and brought him any gifts when you visited

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He uses his daughter as an excuse to get money for diapers and such like,he brings her to the beach so that you can see her and he says you are her step mum as the child does not live with its own mother as she is a bad mother.When his phone is switched off he uses his babys mother as an excuse to be out all day,he says she always needs help she is a lowlife but he helps because of his daughter</div></div>

Played for future reference when a man says the mother of his child is incompetent, it is probably he that is incompetent. That was a warning sign right there

[played]

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This is what I am saying I did not pay him or gift him as I am very aware of the usual runnings.I did pay him for one trip but no more than I would have paid anyone else.
I bought couple of drinks but I made it clear I would not pay for everything and he bought me a couple and some food too.
There was no way I was getting sucked into anything moneywise.
So that is what confused me.
He told me once that he needed money for diapers and I said I am sorry, I feel bad for you but your child needed diapers before I came and will need them again when I go.The mother of the child should not have had a child if she cannot buy it diapers.And then I asked him how he thought we were going to have a baby if he cannot afford a diaper.And made it clear that I would not be paying for ish.He still came back though

[Nylah]

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I wasnt gonna say anything but Tilla hit it on the head.

Any man that dishes his wife, ex-wife, baby mother, etc. to a next woman he is trying to ge some from, is an A________. That would be the first sign that would make me stand back from any guy who was chatting me up. Soon as I hear that I back off.

Whatever is between them is their business and if puts another woman down especially when u dont know the other side of the story, then he will chat bad about u when it serves him too.

this is what I mean about u missing a whole heap of warning signs....

[Hush Darlin]

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so if you not giving him any gifts what do you expect him to do...you are mean

[played]

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Killa&gt;He said the mothers house was unsuitable and she partied all the time and that he has care of the child yet it lives with HIS mother.
He says he lives elsewhere alone but he cannot have his child there as he works so his mother takes care of it.

[Hush Darlin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Killa&gt;He said the mothers house was unsuitable and she partied all the time and that he has care of the child yet it lives with HIS mother.
He says he lives elsewhere alone but he cannot have his child there as he works so his mother takes care of it. </div></div>
so u never been to where he lived

[played]

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I suppose I believed what he said about the childs mother as while I was there he said she got in a bad fight and he had to pick her up from hospital.That could have been an excuse to go and pick another girl up from the airport who knows?

[played]

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He took me to his house but after coming home and thinking things through,That could have been anybodys house.

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Killa&gt;He said the mothers house was unsuitable and she partied all the time and that he has care of the child yet it lives with HIS mother.
He says he lives elsewhere alone but he cannot have his child there as he works so his mother takes care of it. </div></div>

[Hush Darlin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He took me to his house but after coming home and thinking things through,That could have been anybodys house. </div></div>
so u never saw anything there that could make it look like he lived there...did u sleep there

[Hush Darlin]

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meeda like fe hear Dexter side of the story

[Nylah]

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@ smaller flag

anyway, unno have time. Played just wants to feel sorry for herself so let her stay.

[Hush Darlin]

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Played I have a question for you
was the bamboo big and was it good or is it jus a myth