Black Women's Warped View of Love

[Wendy]

Re: Black Women's Warped View of Love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _____</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi muss be getting di riff raff dem up dis side </div></div>

That was my point Skelly ..don't use a few to Judge the whole crop. Nat every yaddi man is fram di dancehall, weed smoking, thug group. Ina fi wi moda generation dem did have riff raff same way and dose dat nat so riff raff.

[Fyah]

Re: Black Women's Warped View of Love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wendilina</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _____</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi muss be getting di riff raff dem up dis side </div></div>

That was my point Skelly ..don't use a few to Judge the whole crop. Nat every yaddi man is fram di dancehall, weed smoking, thug group. Ina fi wi moda generation dem did have riff raff same way and dose dat nat so riff raff. </div></div>



In our home we call that non-judgemental approach &quot;thinking out of the box&quot;.

My parents had never told us to date black men. We just did. I have not had to encourage my daughters to date black men, they just do. It might have something to do with the admiration we/they have for the black men in our/their family and friend circles. Why wouldn't we/they want a man with the principles, culture and pride of strong, handsome and intelligent BLACK men whom we /knew/know?

[julie*mango]

Re: Black Women's Warped View of Love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wendilina</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _____</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi muss be getting di riff raff dem up dis side </div></div>

That was my point Skelly ..don't use a few to Judge the whole crop. Nat every yaddi man is fram di dancehall, weed smoking, thug group. Ina fi wi moda generation dem did have riff raff same way and dose dat nat so riff raff. </div></div>

well having taught in a few schools, the young Jamaican boys I have encountered are not all quite as ambitious as the ones you described....if dem tan so now imagine in di next 10-15 years

[X]

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a dont think Black women have any patent or monopoly on the phycopatic business..
what ever your race, color or creed y'all crazy..

Pon a level doe, a think many need to put things into perspective. Some need to be daring, and some just need to chill.

Perspective in that, I notice that (especially here in NA) ;left to the media and society &quot;norms&quot;; black women are given the 'short end&quot; of the relationship stick.

Prior to (Michelle) Obama, the notion was, black man get rich, famous, and get him white or light-skinned &quot;trophy&quot;.
Coming from Jamaica, it made me wonder.. &quot;all these years i considered my beautiful Jamaica wife MY reward, yet theses cats want me to think differntly.. hell naw&quot;

The bilble sey the meek shall inherit the earth, and I find that some (black) women just need fi leggo the cantankerouseness..
There is truth behind the saying 'u catch more fles with honey&quot; , and nothing more powerfull and attractive than a woman with finness, humilty and confidence.
Ok look pon Michelle Obama, fi me, she is taller than &quot;my type&quot;.. she got the buff teeth and the pronounced eyes, but a tell yuh dis, every time mi hear Michelle Obama articulate during an interview, mi pitch a tent (get a woody, kickstand.. u get the drift)
A mean her intelligence, confidence, sophistication, yet humility ooozes sexy. She is wife material.. plain and simple, and if Barrack should buck him toe, chus mi..

Black women need fi stop meck the media dictate to them what they should be.. and we (myself included) should not lump all into one. There is uniqeness in everyrace.

[Wendy]

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Not gwine get noh argument from me here. Well said!
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">But mi still waan mi black beautiful yaad man dowe </div></div></div>

<span style="font-style: italic">An cooh pan yuh a bout yuh a quote scriptra to noh </span>

[julie*mango]

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[X]

Re: Black Women's Warped View of Love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wendilina</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Not gwine get noh argument from me here. Well said!
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">But mi still waan mi black beautiful yaad man dowe </div></div></div>

<span style="font-style: italic">An cooh pan yuh a bout yuh a quote scriptra to noh </span> </div></div>



yuh know.. Its funny bthe things you retain in life.
I was going to school one morning.. probably around 14/15.. and someone was preaching on the bus.
Mi was the only schooler smashed in a clump of people hanging off a loaded (till it lean) bus headed into Kingston.
This person, suddnely give out ina a loud voice &quot;Halileuia!&quot; and started to preach.. (almost as if they were contemplating for awhile and suddenly summoned the strength to start).
Mi memba the person look dun pion mi and seh &quot;the meek shall inherit the Earth..&quot; (they went on talking about how all on the earth is made by God and what ever you need, he already hass it from you to supply, just be humble.. )and from dat day till now, when ever mi getting too big fi mi britches or waa gwaan hype up, mi memba those words and it always bring me back to center.. it also meck mi natrually gravitate to people who display natural humility and find pride repusive and pitifull..

[Wendy]

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I hear yuh ...Arite X tap chat dis whole heapa mush mush talk inyah cause mi noh waan mi yeye lina go wash wey

ETA: Why is it di only ting mi retain in life is wata

[X]

Re: Black Women's Warped View of Love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wendilina</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> I hear yuh ...Arite X tap chat dis whole heapa mush mush talk inyah cause mi noh waan mi yeye lina go wash wey

ETA: Why is it di only ting mi retain in life is wata

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ok bass..

[CyberPhobic]

Re: Black Women's Warped View of Love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: xKs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I find that some (black) women just need fi leggo the cantankerouseness..
There is truth behind the saying 'u catch more fles with honey&quot; , and nothing more powerfull and attractive than a woman with finness, humilty and confidence.

...Black women need fi stop meck the media dictate to them what they should be.. and we (myself included) should not lump all into one. There is uniqeness in everyrace.


</div></div>

<span style="font-style: italic">**Tear page outta Sue book**</span>

Bway, widdi way tings set up widdi blakk ommenz dem, mi feel sey di only hope fi dem (xpreshally di single wanz dem) if fi run guh dung a di hawdware shop, buy some file an cutliss, an shawpen out dem wassit-wassit nat an chap awwf dem owna badwud-badwud headz dem.

Hell, dem a di only problem pon dis good-god earth, suh di leass dem can do is exterminate demself from dis oddawise perfekk wurld.

<span style="font-weight: bold">Blakk ommenz, thou art damned to hellandback</span>. How dare you tann up dere an breathe!

[twiney]

Re: Black Women's Warped View of Love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _____</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Wendy yu si dem young bwoy from JA nowadays? One time yu wud a proud fi seh yu come from yawd but dem mek yu nuh waan nuh baddi know seh is deh yu come fram.. </div></div>

Clear throat ...eh emmmm ... I got one Jamaican young man and another on the way and them surely dont fit into this category My preference is fi him find one nice girl wid good qualities who love him and him love her but mi would prefer if she black and of Jamaican heritage. sigh but I guess I cant choose for him.

[julie*mango]

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twiney mi not taawkin bout fi we generation ....mi a tawk bout di one dem weh coming up now an might waan fling argument pan mi dawta dem....

mi reread an get weh yu seh....few an far between....his upbringing will certainly be different than...

[X]

Re: Black Women's Warped View of Love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CyberPhobic</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: xKs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I find that some (black) women just need fi leggo the <span style="font-weight: bold">cantankerouseness</span>..
There is truth behind the saying 'u catch more fles with honey&quot; , and nothing more powerfull and attractive than a woman with finness, humilty and confidence.

...Black women need fi stop meck the media dictate to them what they should be.. and we (myself included) should not lump all into one. There is uniqeness in everyrace.


</div></div>

<span style="font-style: italic">**Tear page outta Sue book**</span>

Bway, widdi way tings set up widdi blakk ommenz dem, mi feel sey di only hope fi dem (xpreshally di single wanz dem) if fi run guh dung a di hawdware shop, buy some file an cutliss, an shawpen out dem wassit-wassit nat an chap awwf dem owna badwud-badwud headz dem.

Hell, dem a di only problem pon dis good-god earth, suh di leass dem can do is exterminate demself from dis oddawise perfekk wurld.

<span style="font-weight: bold">Blakk ommenz, thou art damned to hellandback</span>. How dare you tann up dere an breathe! </div></div>

..like I was saying..

[Wendy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">..like I was saying.. </div></div>

[CyberPhobic]

Re: Black Women's Warped View of Love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Axy_Marun</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CyberPhobic</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: xKs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I find that some (black) women just need fi leggo the <span style="font-weight: bold">cantankerouseness</span>..
There is truth behind the saying 'u catch more fles with honey&quot; , and nothing more powerfull and attractive than a woman with finness, humilty and confidence.

...Black women need fi stop meck the media dictate to them what they should be.. and we (myself included) should not lump all into one. There is uniqeness in everyrace.


</div></div>

<span style="font-style: italic">**Tear page outta Sue book**</span>

Bway, widdi way tings set up widdi blakk ommenz dem, mi feel sey di only hope fi dem (xpreshally di single wanz dem) if fi run guh dung a di hawdware shop, buy some file an cutliss, an shawpen out dem wassit-wassit nat an chap awwf dem owna badwud-badwud headz dem.

Hell, dem a di only problem pon dis good-god earth, suh di leass dem can do is exterminate demself from dis oddawise perfekk wurld.

<span style="font-weight: bold">Blakk ommenz, thou art damned to hellandback</span>. How dare you tann up dere an breathe! </div></div>

..like I was saying..
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Like I was saying, nuff a unnoo nuh have nuh mout fi talk bout wha black oomen should or shouldn't do. A who gi unnoo di rule book? Who died and made you Solomon anyway? Unnoo is a jokah tuh rhatid eenuh. A which black ooman yuh kno whe a chry ketch fly? Yet still, honey or vinegah, a bay dutty, tinking fly some a dem a ketch.

If black ooman nevah haffi deal widd suhmuch wukkliss black bwoy whe tink sey demma man, di attitude, resentment and <span style="font-weight: bold">cantankarousness</span> wood'n dey dey fi unnoo [pon unnoo high chair] criticize suh GTFOHWDBS!