Chase and Catch

[evanovitch]

Re: Chase and Catch

How does the premise hold up wen the place is one where people go to look for said possible "right moments"? ... Doesn't that negate the spontaneity of such magic moments wen 2 arms, 2 feet, walking upright n a full set of teeth coupled wid a wud from him especially, n love is bawn dat moment...

R not some individuals primed to FIND someone. ANYONE n fall for the first one who talks to them as if there r the next top model type?

An then whoeva wants it's more , makes a relationsip of so sort come he'll r high water.

[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">How does the premise hold up wen the place is one where people go to look for said possible &quot;right moments&quot;? ... Doesn't that negate the spontaneity of such magic moments wen 2 arms, 2 feet, walking upright n a full set of teeth coupled wid a wud from him especially, n love is bawn dat moment...

R not some individuals primed to FIND someone. ANYONE n fall for the first one who talks to them as if there r the next top model type?

An then whoeva wants it's more , makes a relationsip of so sort come he'll r high water. </div></div>

who yuh throw word pon?


For me, the old adage whe say love come when you stop looking for it seem to be true.

But I don't think that if a person puts themselves out there: single's bars, church clubs etc. that it negates the magic when they finally find someone...

Is true some people are so desperate for love dem will try an put the hat on anyone willing to stand close enough to wear it.

Those &quot;relationships&quot; rarely stand the test of time regardless of who do the chasing...

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistacaf</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yah, i'm with peasie on this; i have no interest in guessing games and high-school foolishness. that's for youths when they first learning how to go about relationships, not for adults. if two grown ppl like one another, they can 'drap seeds' of interest in a straight up way without playing cat-and-mouse about it.

the 'chasing' thing just plays into outmoded ideas of one person having an 'upper hand', which to me has no place in a balanced relationship between two adults.

if yuh like me and wanna get to know me, just tell me so. And/or if i like you i will tell you so. Then we can go from there... </div></div>

my girl always has wisdom.

and I agree with Evan too. There is a difference between making yourself open to experiences that lead somewhere and actively pursuing it which is a form of &quot;force ripe-ing&quot; a relationship. It isnt based on natural evolution of things.

[Nylah]

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so why do you think Evan is throwing word at you specifically and not making a comment in general?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">How does the premise hold up wen the place is one where people go to look for said possible &quot;right moments&quot;? ... Doesn't that negate the spontaneity of such magic moments wen 2 arms, 2 feet, walking upright n a full set of teeth coupled wid a wud from him especially, n love is bawn dat moment...

R not some individuals primed to FIND someone. ANYONE n fall for the first one who talks to them as if there r the next top model type?

An then whoeva wants it's more , makes a relationsip of so sort come he'll r high water. </div></div>

who yuh throw word pon?


For me, the old adage whe say love come when you stop looking for it seem to be true.

But I don't think that if a person puts themselves out there: single's bars, church clubs etc. that it negates the magic when they finally find someone...

Is true some people are so desperate for love dem will try an put the hat on anyone willing to stand close enough to wear it.

Those &quot;relationships&quot; rarely stand the test of time regardless of who do the chasing...

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[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
so why do you think Evan is throwing word at you specifically and not making a comment in general?

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I don't...

[Nylah]

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okay but you asked who she is throwing word on

[Bandana]

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yes

If I thought it was me specifically I would have said why yuh throw word pon mi?

[Nylah]

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nice segue Bandi Technically everything anyone says here is technically throwing word at somebody cause all of our comments are based on some experience we know about others here or elsewhere.

anyway, I dont really care. Just found it interesting that you would feel the need to say that is all.



carry on with the discussion

[CyberPhobic]

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BOADWL! ~~waaaaiiiiieeeee~~ mi tripe!!!!

[evanovitch]

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Mi naw trow wud as much as comment in the way oddas did.. n mi curious fi know y u feel MINE n no more needed dat query... memba seh is mi one is di said smaddy weh knit fi u son AND also open n honess enuff fi ask u bout di man wen u did a wax pon him at di fuss meetin in dat trip report

so try u no come now afta di bakroom drazma etc fi try stawt nutten wid mi .the scenario I added is par fi fi post n u was di lass smaddy web post

Now if ur conscience a bodda u wen it come to moi , well den , but no try nutten wid mi Bandie .

Notice mi flexxing of late.. Mi no ask people who no inc lude mi dem bizniz. Mi post
yah daily fi filll time

[Compry]

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Maybe I slept too much today, because here I am wondering if we came up with an answer to the original question.

[Derek]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I recently read a conversation on someone’s FB wall where a guy was telling all the women that “men” prefer to chase women and that women should hold back their feelings and desires. He said, the harder it is for “men” to “catch” a woman, the harder he pursues her. Is that a fact for all men?

Ja.com men, do you prefer to do all the chasing or do you want to know how a woman feel about you?

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The chase is fun, but there comes a time when it's either yay or nay.
A woman once told me I give up too easily...