Ppl Who Love Bring Drama Pan Demself

[Skelly]

Dere is dis one smaddy dat always calling mi an texting me wen she having issues wid her man and it getting so bad dat she all a text mi 3:15 in di mawnin

Now she fine out seh her man cheat pan her....no surprise to any of us ...check him phone and see text message...or sext message call up di gyal an den confront him...

she an di man cuss an warra nawt an him still di deh....

every day she a check him phone an a call number cah now him change di girls pan him list to male names....


mi haffi ask her how long she gwen keep on a do dis....keeping tabs pan him...

she nuh have no answer

mi jus annoyed

mi tell her if she nuh like weh she fine inna him phone she fi stop check it . mi nuh undastan y some ooman do dis to demself!

oh...how can i break it to her gently dat if she keep inviting the same problems pan herself mi nuh waan she fi a complain to mi every second.....

[Bizzy]

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Typical...for the life of me, I don't understand why ooman luv call up nedda ooman

[Stormmey]

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Skelly just tell her straitup that you have no time for women that disrespect themselves...if she did not like it she would have stepped long time.and you don't want to hear her drama and level of stressi<span style="font-weight: bold">titty</span>.

a wonder is what him have sweet so

Bizi the last female that called me I invited her over....had sumting waiting for her at the address I gave her....she smarter than I though tho she nevva showed up and never called back. Mebbe someone told her what was waiting plus just because your man have my number on his cellie doan mean we have something gwine awn cho

[Peasie]

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Skelly, there is no gentle way around this. I would simply tell her that, frankly, I am tired of her drama and that I am not interested in hearing any more of her man troubles. I would then tell her that our friendship is important to me but that it can't be based on her man worries.

But that's just me. I don't tip-toe around the issues and I don't have much patience on these kinds of things

Then there is another issue ... why are you enabling this sh!t? You need to set boundaries on your friend.

[missus_vegas]

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i tink some ppl lke the excitement. it gives dem something to do. u do need a certain level of stress in u life afterall. mi couldnt badda wid the phone checking ting. i always say unless u willing to tek action dont badda beat up ur gums about ur man cheating. just tek di bun and shut the eff up.

[Wendy]

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I have come to realize sey some people actually thrive on drama an misery
If that is what you about mi keep mi distance... I doan ask dem bout dem business an mi mek it clear I doan want dem bring it to mi. Plain an simple

[Skelly]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> i always say unless u willing to tek action dont badda beat up ur gums about ur man cheating. just tek di bun and shut the eff up. </div></div>

same so mi seh....das wat mi always tell her..doan check yu man phone/follow him/check him mail etc unless u prepared for wat u might find


if she find wah she a look for she need fi either run him or deal with it....

das wah mi tell her yesterday i think or the day before and she nuh call mi back since


PZ mi nuh kno y mi &quot;enabling&quot; her ....jus doing the same thing i would hope my friend would do for me if i was going thru some serious emotional problems like that....

what i do not understand is y she keep allowing him to do this stuff to her...and then complaining about it like she was the last person on earth to know that he would eventually land into another woman cave

[Derek]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_Oh_Em_Gee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't understand why ooman luv call up nedda ooman</div></div>

True, the other woman isn't her problem.

[ruski]

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i have a friend who has a similar thing going on and she ONLY calls me when she has problems with her man..... ........i mean she would just disappear and then reappear with her phone calls for me to give her advice so i recently told her that am really tired of that and if she wants to call me she should call me about another topic........... .....maybe you should tell your friend that too.

[Gen]

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[Skelly]

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mi frighten fi see she go pan FB yessideh an a announce seh she an her man went to dinner an movie in di city....ah jus waan vomit at di fakeness....


oh an she still a fine text message inna him phone an a text back di woman dem fi leave her husband alone....

di day me haffi tell a woman fi leff my husband alone is di day dem will haffi surgically remove my foot from his assets

[SandiF]

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her husband does not respect her

why is she putting herself through this trauma??

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi frighten fi see she go pan FB yessideh an a announce seh she an her man went to dinner an movie in di city....ah jus waan vomit at di fakeness....


oh an she still a fine text message inna him phone an a text back di woman dem fi leave her husband alone....

di day me haffi tell a woman fi leff my husband alone is di day dem will haffi surgically remove my foot from his assets </div></div>

[Skelly]

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Dear K et al...mi wudda really luv fi know

yu kno seh di ooman go tru her man PC last nite and fine pics weh him save of woman him a chat to and all hell bruk loose...she cawl mi dis mawnin wen mi was getting di kids ready fi sch an di two a dem back and forth a argue ...di man tek phone from her an a gi fi him side a di story seh she a tek man pan him too an all kine a foolishness...mi get so mad mi tell dem seh doan cawl mi back because dem mix up a interfere wid mi life...Sar was 10 mins late fi sch on account a dem foolishness

I was so miffed dis mawnin ......she cawl mi back like half hour later after she an him dun fight..she mussi buss up him nose...mi gi it to her straight....mi tell her seh mi tell her from long time fi stop search up him tings if she caan hangle it cah obviously she doan waan let him go....fi peace sake if u waan di facade of a family life u haffi bite yu tongue an shet yu yeye..otherwise is bere ruption

mi tell her plain an str8 seh mi tiyad a dem foolishness an mi dun wid dem..she seh she a go cawl mi lata

[SandiF]

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The man has no respect for her and that's what she needs to realise and wake up to.

[missus_vegas]

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dem drama sound entertaining doe. mi no memba if u say dem have kids yes or no...