Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

**Peasie** · 12-07-2010, 05:51 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> she has <span style="font-weight: bold">family members</span> egging her own to do it and shi want to know if shi fi falla har mine or lissen to dem. Mi tell har leave it alone, like yuh said. </div></div>

Aah. Here is part of her problem. Her family members

1. She shouldn't be telling these family members her business.
2. Were these the same family members who reported sightings of her husband with other men?

Your poor friend, Wendy

**SandiF** · 12-07-2010, 06:19 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

Jamaica is very paranoid with this gay thing...

As my cousin recently said... Some men all a tek di route of raping women as a way to prove dat dem nuh gay. Sad and disgusting.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I was trying hard not to pry .. I was listening to hear more about that requirement. Is nat so much that it is a requirement to TEACH per se. It is an Assistant Principal job an I guess because of the "high profile" nature of that job at an all boys school ... some narrow minded smaddy muss tink dat requirement would stave off a gay man being around the boys. Yuh falla mi? It noh mek noh sense ..but a Jamaica wi a talk bout in dis case.

Dat goes hand in hand with what you said about him trying to conform and lying about it.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: FrenchTickla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">di point has to be made again dat nat because him love man mean him love boys.

mi naw seh him is not a pedophile but mi nuh hear anyweh inna di story dat him have a propensity fi dat.

so school a yard q require dat u married fi teach deh? how dat work? it seem far fetched. mi wuda more believe seh him married har fi conform and nuh haffi admit seh him gay or dat if accused him have an alibi (u know, he cannot be gay becaw him married )

is a awful ting him do and tek it from a gay smaddy who almost married a guy and ruin two a we life, sometimes there is no conspiracy or deceipt intended. when u deep inna di clazzit is a helluva ting </div></div> </div></div>

**Wendy** · 12-08-2010, 12:18 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

Sad indeed.

BTW they are the ones that reported the sightings to her ..
The last time she and I spoke they had a big confrontation wid im and threaten dat dem gwine talk to di school. Dem is very teed from what shi tell mi.
Mi jus tell har fi gwaan do wey shi need fi do fi get harself back tigedda

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Jamaica is very paranoid with this gay thing...

As my cousin recently said... Some men all a tek di route of raping women as a way to prove dat dem nuh gay.<span style="font-weight: bold"> Sad and disgusting.</span>

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I was trying hard not to pry .. I was listening to hear more about that requirement. Is nat so much that it is a requirement to TEACH per se. It is an Assistant Principal job an I guess because of the "high profile" nature of that job at an all boys school ... some narrow minded smaddy muss tink dat requirement would stave off a gay man being around the boys. Yuh falla mi? It noh mek noh sense ..but a Jamaica wi a talk bout in dis case.

Dat goes hand in hand with what you said about him trying to conform and lying about it.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: FrenchTickla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">di point has to be made again dat nat because him love man mean him love boys.

mi naw seh him is not a pedophile but mi nuh hear anyweh inna di story dat him have a propensity fi dat.

so school a yard q require dat u married fi teach deh? how dat work? it seem far fetched. mi wuda more believe seh him married har fi conform and nuh haffi admit seh him gay or dat if accused him have an alibi (u know, he cannot be gay becaw him married )

is a awful ting him do and tek it from a gay smaddy who almost married a guy and ruin two a we life, sometimes there is no conspiracy or deceipt intended. when u deep inna di clazzit is a helluva ting </div></div> </div></div> </div></div>

**Wendy** · 12-08-2010, 12:23 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">one thing crossed my mind in reading this thread that if the people were reversed would we find ourselves commenting in the same manner

1) would we question the school if the asst principal was an unmarried female?
2) If we found out the female asst principal was homosexual would we immediately think she took the position to stalk young girls and want to notify someone in the school immediately?
3) If the man was straight would we be questioning if the cousin saw man at the funeral with a high school age looking girl and immediately think pedophile?

I know it is not related to the topic but it did show me where I have some prejudices </div></div>

You have a right to ask those questions Kia.. true

On this very board you see some of those prejudices you indicated.. A male boardite could not have been as open as Frenchie is with her sexual orientation. There seems to be a comfort level with Frenchie (nothing wrong with that) that you would not witness with an openly gay male boardite Food for thought

**ILP** · 12-08-2010, 12:26 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Jamaica is very paranoid with this gay thing...

As my cousin recently said... Some men all a tek di route of raping women as a way to prove dat dem nuh gay. Sad and disgusting. </div></div>

this is way beyond paranoid...it is simple ignorance, poor self-esteem, and self hatred.

**CeaBee** · 12-08-2010, 12:37 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">one thing crossed my mind in reading this thread that if the people were reversed would we find ourselves commenting in the same manner

1) would we question the school if the asst principal was an unmarried female?
2) If we found out the female asst principal was homosexual would we immediately think she took the position to stalk young girls and want to notify someone in the school immediately?
3) If the man was straight would we be questioning if the cousin saw man at the funeral with a high school age looking girl and immediately think pedophile?

I know it is not related to the topic but it did show me where I have some prejudices </div></div>

You have a right to ask those questions Kia.. true

On this very board you see some of those prejudices you indicated.. A male boardite could not have been as open as Frenchie is with her sexual orientation. There seems to be a comfort level with Frenchie (nothing wrong with that) that you would not witness with an openly gay male boardite Food for thought </div></div>

i don't think that most of the women on the board would have a problem with an openly gay boardite. at least i wouldn't.

**Peasie** · 12-08-2010, 01:11 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't think that most of the women on the board would have a problem with an openly gay boardite. at least i wouldn't. </div></div>
Open or closeted gay boardite, we don't care as long as you play nice

**CeaBee** · 12-08-2010, 01:11 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't think that most of the women on the board would have a problem with an openly gay boardite. at least i wouldn't. </div></div>
Open or closeted gay boardite, we don't care as long as you play nice </div></div>

that hug look too friendly

:suspicious look:

**twiney** · 12-08-2010, 01:14 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't think that most of the women on the board would have a problem with an openly gay boardite. at least i wouldn't. </div></div>
Open or closeted gay boardite, we don't care as long as you play nice </div></div>

While this isn't support for an alternate lifestyle since it is just another "sin" like fornication/adultry/stealing/lying etc...Ppl bedroom practice shouldnt matter so much... Now if the man/woman preying on young children or raping ppl that is a whole different story.

**Wendy** · 12-08-2010, 01:29 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

I concur ... but at the end of your sentence you said "<span style="font-weight: bold">at least i wouldn't</span>. "
In odda words, yuh speaking for yourself

Peasie please to take those feelers off other women when we all know where they have been

**Wendy** · 12-08-2010, 01:32 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Twiney</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't think that most of the women on the board would have a problem with an openly gay boardite. at least i wouldn't. </div></div>
Open or closeted gay boardite, we don't care as long as you play nice </div></div>

While this isn't support for an alternate lifestyle since it is just another "sin" like fornication/adultry/stealing/lying etc...Ppl bedroom practice shouldnt matter so much... Now if the man/woman preying on young children or raping ppl that is a whole different story. </div></div>

Words can have such powerful impact.

When she said she was afraid that he was "preying" on young boys it was in the context of her not knowing facts. She does not have proof that that is actually happening. She was just expressing a concern that could be his motive for wanting to be in that institution. She was jus talking...

**Peasie** · 12-08-2010, 01:35 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Peasie please to take those feelers off other women when we all know where they have been </div></div>

**CeaBee** · 12-08-2010, 01:41 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I concur ... but at the end of your sentence you said "<span style="font-weight: bold">at least i wouldn't</span>. "
In odda words, yuh speaking for yourself

</div></div>

Speaking with authority about how i would feel. Whereas it is my <span style="font-weight: bold">belief</span> that <span style="font-weight: bold">most</span> of the women would feel the same way.

**Peasie** · 12-08-2010, 01:56 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Words can have such powerful impact.

When she said she was afraid that he was "preying" on young boys <span style="font-weight: bold">it was in the context of her not knowing facts</span>. She does not have proof that that is actually happening. She was just expressing a concern that could be his motive for wanting to be in that institution. She was jus talking... </div></div>

Exactly. As I said earlier: she needs to keep on eye on those<span style="font-weight: bold"> family members</span> of hers. They do not have her best interest at heart. Always, always, keep an eye on those people who carry news to you.

Remember that scene in The Godfather movie where Don Vito advises Michael on his enemies? He advises Michael that Barzini will make a move on him, arrange a meeting at which he will be assassinated. He also says that whoever approaches Michael with this meeting is the traitor, repeating his advice over and over.

Tell your friend to keep an eye on her "family members."

Mi dun talk.

**twiney** · 12-08-2010, 03:28 PM

Re: Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Words can have such powerful impact.

When she said she was afraid that he was "preying" on young boys it was in the context of her not knowing facts. She does not have proof that that is actually happening. She was just expressing a concern that could be his motive for wanting to be in that institution. She was jus talking... </div></div>

And bringing speculation or vindictive actions which can possibly ruin a person's reputation and career cannot be healthy. As PZ she needs to watch her family members

Is this a cause for vindictive behavior?

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