Conundrum

[Peasie]

Re: Conundrum

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sounds like she is building more than a casual relationship in her head </div></div>

Precisely!

<span style="font-weight: bold">Her:</span>
into playing mind games with man she maybe falling in love with.
clearly not sure of her own damn self!

<span style="font-weight: bold">Him:</span>
same damn ting to!

<span style="font-weight: bold">Me:</span>
at games people play.
mi doan have no patience wid dem tings yah

[ILP]

Re: Conundrum

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so they are in a <span style="font-weight: bold">more than just 'casual friendship' relationship?</span>

i don't see the big deal either... sounds like she is building more than a casual relationship in her head </div></div>

yes.

<span style="font-weight: bold">him:</span> he hasn't been in &quot;the game&quot; &lt;--(mi nu like dem kinna terms, but ah suh it is) for a long time. he is ready to get back in it. he has been very, very selective and seems to think that things can/will go far with her.

<span style="font-weight: bold">her: </span>its been a while for her as well. while she hasn't been married, she has had previous long term relationships. she would love to settle down with that someone special, if that opportunity for that someone is right in front of her. things haven't presented themselves where she thought the possibility for something special happening was there. Now it seems like it could be.

[ILP]

Re: Conundrum

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">oh me just re-read and it seh &quot;went out several more times&quot;

suh is like <span style="font-weight: bold">a month</span> them dating? </div></div>

few months. like september/october.

[ILP]

Re: Conundrum

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sounds like she is building more than a casual relationship in her head </div></div>

Precisely!

<span style="font-weight: bold">Her:</span>
into playing mind games with man she maybe falling in love with.
clearly not sure of her own damn self! <span style="color: #CC0000">&lt;--please to explain</span>

<span style="font-weight: bold">Him:</span>
same damn ting to! <span style="color: #CC0000">&lt;--yes, this too</span>.

<span style="font-weight: bold">Me:</span>
at games people play.
mi doan have no patience wid dem tings yah </div></div>

[Bandana]

Re: Conundrum

She should tell him!

She should be honest and upfront that she does not want to jeopardize the good thing they got going but that she also can't pass up the opportunity out west.

If it is meant to be it will be, and if they both want it bad enough, they will make it work

[applepie]

Re: Conundrum

They have only been dating a few months.....there is no concrete anything.......she should tell him and keep it moving.

[DearK]

Re: Conundrum

a move may mean the end of their dating relationship, but it may not!