Should you confront the other woman?

[Skelly]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what if she was a significant high class woman would that change things Skells </div></div>

Yes. Den mi wudda try push out di man fi go married to she an half her assets count inna feem. Tawk bout halimoney an chile support

[Skelly]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

In a perfect world, when ppl take vows they wud include the whole extramarital spiel so dere wud not b any heartache and surprises. To love, honor, and maybe mow down a ting or two

[kia027]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what if she was a significant high class woman would that change things Skells </div></div>

Yes. Den mi wudda try push out di man fi go married to she an half her assets count inna feem. Tawk bout halimoney an chile support </div></div>

sumawt thinking

[sistactry]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
To confront her is to admit that she has power over u...that she matters.. Leff di trifling man...don't even argue wid hm.. Men cannot hold wid being marginalized by dem woman who dem do wrong.. moving on widout di drama bothers him
More Dan anyting...dats y u must bring up ur dawtas to value themselves separate n apart from being a wife r girlfriend n teach ur sons respect of the man/woman relationship.. If he is not fulfilled totally by the woman , move on..if the dawta is not fulfilled by the man, choose another n stop dis sekkle fi parts wid intent n hope to change wat not up to par </div></div>

a tru Vannie, to confront her is giving her power, a tru,

and hellll yeah, a cheap woman is the most awful thing to witness, my gad, ewwww

now, as to the move on part, dat no so easy...and more times, tings can change, ppl can learn from dem mistakes, but u haffe know when and if u fe buggy or stay put...

[sistactry]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what if she was a significant high class woman would that change things Skells </div></div>

Yes. Den mi wudda try push out di man fi go married to she an half her assets count inna feem. Tawk bout halimoney an chile support </div></div>

sumawt thinking </div></div>

woooeeeee, unu awful sah,

and me no believe unu eno, unu wudda a bawl bout

[sistactry]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">In a perfect world, when ppl take vows they wud include the whole extramarital spiel so dere wud not b any heartache and surprises. To love, honor, and maybe mow down a ting or two </div></div>

woooeeeee

high class one only dow Skells?

[nattydreadgirl]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ladies, wha unu wudda truly do, confront the other woman??

me naa lie, me know confront her </div></div>

To confront her is to admit that she has power over u...that she matters.. Leff di trifling man...don't even argue wid hm.. Men cannot hold wid being marginalized by dem woman who dem do wrong.. moving on widout di drama bothers him
More Dan anyting<span style="font-weight: bold">...dats y u must bring up ur dawtas to value themselves separate n apart from being a wife r girlfriend n teach ur sons respect of the man/woman relationship.. If he is not fulfilled totally by the woman , move on..if the dawta is not fulfilled by the man, choose another n stop dis sekkle fi parts wid intent n hope to change wat not up to par </div></div></span>

It seems easier said then done for a lot of folks...

[missus_vegas]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

knowing how far mi an him a come from meeda affi fine a way fi spite him widdout going to prison. fuss time meeda say mi woulda dweem something but now i have a daughter to live for so....

as di article say doe u affi play it by air. some ooman may actually need the talking to to are set smaddy fi peppa har awse.

if is a woman dat dont &quot;know&quot; me even doe she my know of me mi no tink me would badda talk to har. but if smaddy weh know mi and a smile inna mi face while dem a grine aff mi man meeda have to have words with her after mi done deal wid fi him case.

[sistactry]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

set smaddy fi peppa har awse,


dyaammm rite, sometimes u haffe do wha u haffe do,

[Wendy]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

Mi ago trow a monkey inna dis wrench an si what unu seh bout dis:

<span style="font-weight: bold">Other woman’s famous words are: “If you were taking care of him at home, he wouldn’t be with me”</span>

<span style="font-style: italic">Disclaima: Mi nat endorsing di statement nor condemning it eida. Just a trow it out deh fi discussion.</span>

[sistactry]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

naaa sah, i mean every relationship different but, some man, u cudda a suck him big toe every night, if dem find opp and opp open it self, and him have dem mind frame deh, pheewwww

even if wife naa gi him none, and dem cudda a jump up de ting in front a dem, dem naa tek it,

[Wendy]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">naaa sah, i mean every relationship different but, some man, <span style="font-weight: bold">u cudda a suck him big toe every night</span>, if dem find opp and opp open it self, and him have dem mind frame deh, pheewwww

even if wife naa gi him none, and dem cudda a jump up de ting in front a dem, dem naa tek it,


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[Skelly]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

Men will always cheat because there is always a woman out there to cheat with them. Not all of these women are hos. Some a dem jus doan know any better or fine demself in a situation dat dem neva intend fi get inna. Dat being said, dere is nothing a woman can do fi prevent her man from go out there.

The best revenge is living well. Ie: Bun him! Tek man pan him! Tek di house an lan an run him

[sistactry]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Men will always cheat because there is always a woman out there to cheat with them. Not all of these women are hos. Some a dem jus doan know any better or fine demself in a situation dat dem neva intend fi get inna. Dat being said, dere is nothing a woman can do fi prevent her man from go out there.

The best revenge is living well. Ie: Bun him! Tek man pan him! Tek di house an lan an run him </div></div>

luvvv dis,

and memba to, deh man dem out deh we lie like dawg fe get dem bone, soooo

[nattydreadgirl]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi ago trow a monkey inna dis wrench an si what unu seh bout dis:

<span style="font-weight: bold">Other woman’s famous words are: “If you were taking care of him at home, he wouldn’t be with me</span>”

<span style="font-style: italic">Disclaima: Mi nat endorsing di statement nor condemning it eida. Just a trow it out deh fi discussion.</span>
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No Ma'am I dont think that statement is typically true, excuse yes, but most times it does not matter. I do think Cheating is a character flaw and for me that is just a person that I dont want in my life...too many psycho paths out there for you to be involving me in a three way relationship....at this age and stage of the the game cheating is a deal breaker!

Good Thread!!!