Love Child

[sistactry]

what de baxside name so, if a did so much love, mek daddy nuh deh wid unu, kt

so mek me ask now,

wha unu wudda do if you get draw inna dem circles yaa,

if u are a mother of a love child, wha unu expect of the wife,

if u r a love child, who u bex wid, ur mom, or ur daddy

[sistactry]

Re: Love Child

i know a mother of a love child, and trust me it hurts all around~

the child is hurt, him cant go a him daddy house,
the mother feel bad fe de pickney, de daddy barely come round dem

larks, me really feel sorry fe anybody in this situation,

wha fe unu stories, and who unu blame??

[Peasie]

Re: Love Child

if mi was di modda, meeda bex wid mi punanny

[CeaBee]

Re: Love Child

i blame the father

[Tulip]

Re: Love Child

If I were the wife and knew about the child and still stayed with my husband, then I would not treat the child dirty.

One of my uncles had an outside child, and my aunt wouldn't even answer the door when the boy came over. He ended up being close to my mother who treated him like who he was. He's my cousin even if only through marriage. It's not like children breed themselves.

[Tulip]

Re: Love Child

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i know a mother of a love child, and trust me it hurts all around~

the child is hurt, him cant go a him daddy house,
the mother feel bad fe de pickney, de daddy barely come round dem

larks, me really feel sorry fe anybody in this situation,

wha fe unu stories, and who unu blame?? </div></div>

If I were the mother of a love child, then I'd blame myself. I'd just be honest with the child and say mommie made a poor choice in man, and it is daddy's loss to miss out on you. However, I don't regret a thing for having you and give thanks every day that you're here.

I don't think parents should talk bad about the other parent just because they can't get along, but different rules apply if one parent is rejecting the child.

[kia027]

Re: Love Child

I blame the father if he does not own up to the child

[SandiF]

Re: Love Child

OMG! Peasie!

@ love child... I'd like to have a love child


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">if mi was di modda, meeda bex wid mi punanny </div></div>

[SandiF]

Re: Love Child

I could never blame myself for being blessed to have a child. It is ridiculous that any woman would blame herself for her own flesh and blood. And why even blame the father.... it takes two to tango. No blaming... just love the child, give it loves, dreams, aspirations and to be raised in a world where it can make his/her own choices.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i know a mother of a love child, and trust me it hurts all around~

the child is hurt, him cant go a him daddy house,
the mother feel bad fe de pickney, de daddy barely come round dem

larks, me really feel sorry fe anybody in this situation,

wha fe unu stories, and who unu blame?? </div></div>

If I were the mother of a love child, then I'd blame myself. I'd just be honest with the child and say mommie made a poor choice in man, and it is daddy's loss to miss out on you. However, I don't regret a thing for having you and give thanks every day that you're here.

I don't think parents should talk bad about the other parent just because they can't get along, but different rules apply if one parent is rejecting the child. </div></div>

[CeaBee]

Re: Love Child

i blame the father cause him can never be there fully for that child.

the child grow up on the outside looking in.

why me nuh blame the mother as much?

maybe is because is she everything fall on. she is mother and also have to try to step in in areas where the father not giving guidance or support.

i dunno ...mek me guh think bout it some more.

[Wendy]

Re: Love Child

To blame another is to absolve oneself of responsibility. The only person that should be blameless, is the child.

BTW, does dat mean when yuh have child wid yuh hubby dem nat a &quot;love child&quot;

[Tulip]

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I thought she asked who to blame about the child being hurt because he can't go around his daddy's house and the daddy ignores the child. I didn't think she asked who to blame for having the child.

If I pick a sorry man (child or no child), then that's on me. If I can't take responsibility for my actions then I'm as bad as he is.

[Skelly]

Re: Love Child

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

wha unu wudda do if you get draw inna dem circles yaa,

if u are a mother of a love child, wha unu expect of the wife,

if u r a love child, who u bex wid, ur mom, or ur daddy
</div></div>

I was a love child. My parents finally married after his first wife died a few years ago. Mi bex wid all 3 a dem. Mom fi deh wid him. Step mom fi nuh run him. And dad fi being a selfish pig but him cudden be one if both a dem neva enable him.

For this reason I could NEVER be the mother of a &quot;love child&quot;.

[sistactry]

Re: Love Child

raatid, me feget me did post dis~~

[sistactry]

Re: Love Child

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I was a love child. My parents finally married after his first wife died a few years ago. Mi bex wid all 3 a dem. Mom fi deh wid him. Step mom fi nuh run him. And dad fi being a selfish pig but him cudden be one if both a dem neva enable him.

For this reason I could NEVER be the mother of a &quot;love child&quot;. </div></div>

so me say to Skells,

i have a half brother, and trust me, it no pretty fe him, bad blood to say the least~~~