black oomen divorce

[rufian]

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iss dere sinting wrang widd blakk oomen dat mekk dem divorce rate soo high

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soo yu seyinn dat sintinn rand widd boat blakk oomen ann blakk men. dat sund racism now dat mii tink bout dat [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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to boot yu sexism with a racism twist

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sund like yu ave wan intarestinn toree. soo sukuna mii wanda iff yu divorce cah itt sund like yu wood ave commuikayshan issue widd a strang blakk man. yu knoo blakk mann inn a racist countree cyaan bee sexist

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Sukuna doan lissen to him becaw wen mi did a war wid mi hubby him claim is because hubby is a strong blakk man mek mi caan deal wid him den wen mi tell him seh hubby is not blakk him seh is because hubby is a weak non blakk man [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]...him mix up like a fedda in di whirlwind [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70392-silly.gif[/img]

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dat cah indian man fram yaawd identeefii widd blakk mann. aftta mii see da results aff daa tests dat indian menn too small fii candoms mii affii wanda iff dem blakk.

soo sukuna doo indian oomen tink dem blakk too ar dem fraid as being classified as untouchable

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ana all indian man carry small. me never hear no black ooman wid dem complain either but den again a east indians.

bout da race thing it all depends pan weh dem deh and how them accepted by the host. some say dem black, some say dem white. when dem spot a dark person dem jus look thinking a one a dem.

a suppose if dem down an needy outcast dem will say dem black fe favours.

so yu waan convert them indian woman to black fe na feel guilty fe grab dem, e? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[JM1]

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like itt ar natt sintinn wong widd a latt aff oommen wey gitt battared.

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"A victim of domestic violence may act in ways that seem incomprehensible to people not aware of the dynamics of abuse. Many people believe that the victim of violence must somehow have invited it, encouraged it, or even found some kind of satisfaction from it."

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[tsophra]

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but y have a go at black women?
do you really think believe the woman has to be at fault?
do you send these messages about black women to your daughter?
do you realise that you continually propagate the mzungu stereotypes about black women? yet you continually defend black men who are cold hard killers as being victims of mzungu media?
i'm starting to believe you say some of this stuff juss to get a reaction..if so its defeats your stated agenda :shrug:

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mzungu man sey menn ar fram mars ann ooman fram venus.

mii neva sey onlee blakk oomen ar att fault. ( [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]-Arjen)still da fact da deevoorcee rate aff blakk oomen ar da iighest meen dat dere iss prablems widd blakk oomen divorcinn att such iigh rate

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mii dawta iss veree parceptive ann mii teech ar fii look att tings criticallee. da moas important ting mii teech ar iss judge peeps bye dem actions natt wurds.

so ur actions differ fram ur words? how so?

do yu reallee tink mii proogatinn mzungu sterotypes aff blakk oomen ar iss dat yu way aff avoidinn da fact da blakk oomen high rate aff divorce show sintinn wong widd blakk oomen.

based on the overall trends of ur posts..yes you propogate de stereotypes

yu lie wen yu sey mii defend killers woo ar blakk cah dem blakk. iff yu tekk da thyme fii reed moas aff da ting bout oj yu wood see dat imm wass innacent. moas peeps refuse fii research da eveedence soo dat y dem jump too canclusion dat itt onlee cah dem blakk menn y mii defend dem. still mii knoo dat juss yu way aff triinn fii shift da issues pon blakk menn issues

its not OJ wan...at least yu admit seh BM have issues [img]/forums/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

wat iss mii stated agenda
thought you said you wanted to discuss why black divorce rate is so high..upso..well yu ain't gonna find an ansa by placing blame on one side..an u call urself a strang black man...strang men hold demselves accountable



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[julie*mango]

Seet dere Blu...

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How can you learn to be unhappy? If your husband have a next woman out there are you supposed to smile and put up with it? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

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african menn cum fram a poleegamy histaree dat y dem more likelee fii reemarree afta deevorce. da ting iss dat blakk oomen material lifestyle decrease wen dem unhappee dat bout da addar oomen soo dem gitt deevorce. soo yu triinn fii seyy dat more blakk oomen ann blakk yuths livinn inn pavartee afta divorce leed too appee oomen ann appeee yuths

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Here is a fine example of the kind of strong blakk man us blakk women end up marrying [img]/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]...

Right Yah So

This is not an isolated instance. You wonder why the divorce rate among blakk women is so high? Check wit di blakk man fuss den come tawk wid mi.

[blugiant]

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<font color="blue">So what are you saying, that these women should not be unhappy about the other women and should just live with it? For the sake of their material lifestyle? </font>


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da qwestian iss shood married blakk oomen widd a nice material lifestyle subjekk dem yuths too lowa tandards aff livinn soo dem caan bee happee livinn beelow da tandards aff livinn dem accustam too. mii luv oww yu trii fii mekk diss bout da mann cheatinn fii defend blakk oomen prablems widd divorce. wile itt troo manee ooman sey infadeleetee tings wass respanible fii divorce dem blakk oomen doan address y dem choose blakk menn woo cheat fii marree inna da furst place

[ohliz]

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mii focus pon blakk oomen high rate aff divorce ann da lack aff stigma attached too divorce bye sum blaakk oomen.

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Black women must be divorcing SOMEBODY, they can't marry and divorce all by themselves...I'd say they have/are exactly HALF the problem, if there is a problem.

(oops, posted before i saw justblue's post...)

The lack of stigma...now that could be an interesting discussion. Seems to me there isn't much stigma with divorce for anyone in this country, though I suppose some religious and ethnic groups frown on it more than others.

[ohliz]

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like itt ar natt sintinn wong widd a latt aff oommen wey gitt battared.

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"A victim of domestic violence may act in ways that seem incomprehensible to people not aware of the dynamics of abuse. Many people believe that the victim of violence must somehow have invited it, encouraged it, or even found some kind of satisfaction from it."

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[img]/forums/images/graemlins/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] JM1.

[MrsBlue]

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da battarinn qwestian intarestinn. soo tell mii y dat a latt aff battared oomen end upp inn addar battarinn relationshipps. like itt ar natt sintinn wong widd a latt aff oommen wey gitt battared.
<font color="blue">If by something wrong, you mean physically, after they've been beat then I agree. Broken bones, black eyes are something wrong. If what you're saying is that something is wrong that makes them get into abusive relationships, whatever. I discussed some of the reasons that women stay in abusive relationships in other threads. The point is that the responsibility for beating on a woman lies with the man that is beating her.
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itt natt oww da qwestian phrase dat de prablem itt iss oomen triinn fii gitt blakk men fii agree widd dem dat blakk menn ar doinn wurst ting dat y blakk oomen divorce rate soo iigh. blame da blakk menn
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da qwestian iss y blakk oomen ave da higha rate aff deevorve ann lowa rate aff remarriage dan blakk men.
<font color="blue">I don't know what the rate of remarriage has to do with anything. Why should someone who is divorced remarry if they do not want to?
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[MrsBlue]

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<font color="blue">So what are you saying, that these women should not be unhappy about the other women and should just live with it? For the sake of their material lifestyle? </font>


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da qwestian iss shood married blakk oomen widd a nice material lifestyle subjekk dem yuths too lowa tandards aff livinn soo dem caan bee happee livinn beelow da tandards aff livinn dem accustam too. mii luv oww yu trii fii mekk diss bout da mann cheatinn fii defend blakk oomen prablems widd divorce. wile itt troo manee ooman sey infadeleetee tings wass respanible fii divorce dem blakk oomen doan address y dem choose blakk menn woo cheat fii marree inna da furst place

[/ QUOTE ] <font color="blue">So what you're saying is that a married woman with children must make a decision: choose to remain miserable (whatever the cause for the misery) and continue to enjoy the material lifestyle that she and her children have grown accustomed to OR divorce the miserable bastard and live somewhat happily, if not as richly. Hmm. Tough choice. I see what you mean.
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[niceniss]

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like itt ar natt sintinn wong widd a latt aff oommen wey gitt battared.

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"A victim of domestic violence may act in ways that seem incomprehensible to people not aware of the dynamics of abuse. Many people believe that the victim of violence must somehow have invited it, encouraged it, or even found some kind of satisfaction from it."

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blugiant is really allowed to teach kids? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

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blugiant is really allowed to teach kids? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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[blugiant]

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like itt ar natt sintinn wong widd a latt aff oommen wey gitt battared.

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"A victim of domestic violence may act in ways that seem incomprehensible to people not aware of the dynamics of abuse. Many people believe that the victim of violence must somehow have invited it, encouraged it, or even found some kind of satisfaction from it."

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blugiant is really allowed to teach kids? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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woo yu tink affii deal widd dem battared oomen yuths. doo yu tink dem battared oomen tunn runn ann tekk itt out pon dem yuths

[blugiant]

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blugiant is really allowed to teach kids? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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da ting iss dat dem yuths cansidared mii a kool teecha ann mii iss da onlee blakk male teecha inna da school

[Suesumba]

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da ting iss dat dem yuths cansidared mii a kool teecha ann mii iss da onlee blakk male teecha inna da school


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well thank god there's one [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

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I'm wondering if the powers that be at that institution have maybe a tacit agreement that one of him is more than enough... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img]

Cause, he does tend to give black men a bad name [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]