Bad Marriage...

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know a few jamaican women that have abusive husbands/boyfriends

[/ QUOTE ] a few... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]
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left my wallet home because I was about 7 months pregnant and he was about to get up and walk away but I beat him to it I also got up and left the restaurant and him behind I got in my car and pulled off

[/ QUOTE ]Uh, uh....this funny, but smart on your part... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[7777]

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just read the other part of your testimony... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] and I have to say that it adds a different twist.
First thing I would suggest, is if both of u are attending the same church, that u tell the church what is happening at home.
Dont be afraid. Lots of men hide behind the fact that what goes on at home should stay at home..
Not so within a church family. Ask for help for your home, and ask the church, starting from the head, and do so in the presence of your hubby.. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]
I hope u are not hiding the fact that he beats u..I hope that he hasnt resorted to that..
If he does, still ask for help, but have a safe place to go back to..
dont go back home that nite..

[Gen]

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cho mi nat even a guh read the whole sinting

your husband is a preacher ? okay fake person of god (due to the theology degree sham) but went to the church to beat up the Deacon...shouldn't that alone have been a tip off ...even if you were willing to overlook some things...

a wah kinda bangarang and mix up mix up

[CeaBee]

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*sigh* me fraid fe even comment at this point, cause me noh know what coming inna di next installment..

[Kimberley24]

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Same here is the gambling part catch my eye and made me get that kinda heart break feeling since i know about that part first hand and how it can destroy a family and continue to upset the children even if they are over 3000 miles away from Jamaica and the father who gambles [img]/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]
I am going to remember to pray for you tonight when going to sleep Hispanic Lady...that you will get away from this man just like my Mom got away from Dad...trust me u better get out before it's too late

[MarieK]

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Oh dear lord in heaven.

Well, I'm not you but seriously he would have to kill me, just mek sure you have an insurance policy. I'd rather welcome death than live in fear of anyone but that's just me and your mistake was that you didn't keep driving.

One more year and you will be so broken mentally and spiritually that you will be of no use to yourself and your child.

[SistahD]

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I don’t want to leave where I live because I like the area. I like waking in the morning to birds and trees and peace and quiet. I live in a really nice neighborhood. I don’t want to leave I want to raise my baby here. It is safe and has a wonderful nursery. Life is like calculus the problems are just as hard as the solutions.


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The better solution is to look for another nice quiet neighbourhood, plenty of birds and trees in other spots... this is not a valid reason to stay, just an excuse not to leave.

[coolmugs]

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what about im did you like in the first place. I am a Jacan and i wouldn't marry im.

[Suesumba]

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You people all belive dis crap

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no.

[Kimberley24]

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The thought crossed my mind but i try not to be judgmental...

[CeaBee]

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You people all belive dis crap

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no.

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trying the friendly, welcoming thing for 2007- so mi [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

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trying the friendly, welcoming thing for 2007- so mi [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

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mi print ie out yessideh. read ie pan di train. shake mi head. shake mi head agen. watch the sawdust cummout a mi aize. shake mi head agen. and sigh.

[Nunya]

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So ok. At the risk of being labelled 'negative' [img]/forums/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img], let's dissect.

Sue, you go first, tell mi whichawt a de rivetting saga, yuh find too over the top... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

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Sue, you go first, tell mi whichawt a de rivetting saga, yuh find too over the top... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img]

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di deacon tek up di baseball bat... since wen dem kip baseball bat inna church? k. i know for those pick up baseball games [img]/forums/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif[/img]

the highly educated bad grammar.... k. i know it's not a thesis but cheh man... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif[/img]

the bated kill yu, put yu inna barrel and sen to yu family. a jamaican wuddan nevva seh dat. betta dem seh "wi wih cut out yu hawt ann show yu it before yu ded". [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

my life is in danger, but the birds in the trees in this part of town.... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif[/img]

on so many levels and i know. i know. i'm heartless. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] happy new year? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70365-flirt.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

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fawt [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

For me, the 'over the top' bit was the online credentials attributed to the Jamaican husband. Can we say, 'drawing from the good Doctor of F&R'??? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]