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Re: The Roommate
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I see what you are saying Nunya...
Our agreement was not that I pay her, but yes, I did give her money when I could afford it...
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People will agree to all kinda sitn when dem feel say dem no have no adda choice. Is like if you need employment, now, but the only thing that's available is flipping burgers, but you're in an specialized field, you'll, more than likely, flip de damn burgers, so that you can keep your car, or your apartment...
So with your friend. She agreed to the no payment required thing, but damn, it's been how long now??? You're moving up and she's still where she was when she agreed...
She feels like you're taking advantage of her situation, much as you're feeling...
So instead of you guys sitting and talking it out as true friends should, ya'll are banging pots, slamming doors and sending eediat emails...
She feels used. She feels like she's going nowhere. She needs her own money so that she can buy her own damn tampons. With her own money, her self-esteem, which is taking a mighty beating right now, will get recharged.
Put yourself in her place... You may not have made some of the choices that she has, but irregardless, you would want to have your own.
So help her get hers. Pay her.
and oh yeah, you are making arrangements to pay someone else, someone you don't know like that, to care for your only baby. Why couldn't you give this money to your friend instead???
If push comes to shove, she's more likely to jump infront of a bus for Imanni than Janice would... </div></div>
wisdom!
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I see what you are saying Nunya...
Our agreement was not that I pay her, but yes, I did give her money when I could afford it...
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People will agree to all kinda sitn when dem feel say dem no have no adda choice. Is like if you need employment, now, but the only thing that's available is flipping burgers, but you're in an specialized field, you'll, more than likely, flip de damn burgers, so that you can keep your car, or your apartment...
So with your friend. She agreed to the no payment required thing, but damn, it's been how long now??? You're moving up and she's still where she was when she agreed...
She feels like you're taking advantage of her situation, much as you're feeling...
So instead of you guys sitting and talking it out as true friends should, ya'll are banging pots, slamming doors and sending eediat emails...
She feels used. She feels like she's going nowhere. She needs her own money so that she can buy her own damn tampons. With her own money, her self-esteem, which is taking a mighty beating right now, will get recharged.
Put yourself in her place... You may not have made some of the choices that she has, but irregardless, you would want to have your own.
So help her get hers. Pay her.
and oh yeah, you are making arrangements to pay someone else, someone you don't know like that, to care for your only baby. Why couldn't you give this money to your friend instead???
If push comes to shove, she's more likely to jump infront of a bus for Imanni than Janice would... </div></div>
wisdom!
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