dating after divorce in a city of sluts

[CeaBee]

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confused ...cause the woman not black....and i'm sure there are many people out there that the she/whoever could be slutty with

[Wendy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yu know wat mi notice too...it hard fi find someone slutty to be a slut wid </div></div>

So Tanya not slutty enough Skells?

[Wendy]

Re: dating after divorce in a city of sluts

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: R_C</div><div class="ubbcode-body">What happened to just having some patience ? I don't get the need for all the name calling by the author just because she hasn't hasn't found a man yet........jeez </div></div>

She's bitter. I can see from the tone of her article that she probably did not want to get divorced.

Also, she's aging and realizes she does have the same exterior bait she had a decade ago when she got married. She should have been able to develop some interior wisdom and other qualities in all that time though. She may not realize her desperation makes her less desirable. I felt like running, and I'm not even a man.

Her best bet would be to become more active in hobbies that interest her and not just to meet a man, even that would be a nice little ancillary benefit, but to give her something to do other than conduct a &quot;woe is me&quot; manhunt. Also, I think she is a good candidate for for an online dating site so she can feel like she's targeting her search. </div></div>

I agree

The last sentence says a lot about the kind of woman she is : <span style="font-style: italic">&quot;I am tired of being alone.</span>&quot;

Don't get me wrong having someone to share love with is an awesome thing, but I could never understand women who scorn being alone. The alone time should be the time when you take to reconnect with yourself. I doubt if after her divorce she took the time to even &quot;chill out&quot; and do her. Seems she went straight into trying to find a <span style="text-decoration: line-through">slut </span> ..eerr I mean a saint

[missus_vegas]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">confused ...cause the woman not black....and i'm sure there are many people out there that the she/whoever could be slutty with

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it supposed to be a joke...<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">go do dictionary.com and type in sarcasm </div></div></div>

[Tulip]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I agree

The last sentence says a lot about the kind of woman she is : <span style="font-style: italic">&quot;I am tired of being alone.</span>&quot;

Don't get me wrong having someone to share love with is an awesome thing, but I could never understand women who scorn being alone. The alone time should be the time when you take to reconnect with yourself. I doubt if after her divorce she took the time to even &quot;chill out&quot; and do her. Seems she went straight into trying to find a <span style="text-decoration: line-through">slut </span> ..eerr I mean a saint </div></div>

I know exactly what you're saying.

Also, if she cannot stand her own company, then how does she expect a man to put up with her?

[Wendy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Also, if she cannot stand her own company, then how does she expect a man to put up with her? </div></div>

<span style="font-size: 11pt">Bingo!!</span> I was reading and was annoyed by her..cannot imagine if I were a man wanting to be around all dat

[Skelly]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yu know wat mi notice too...it hard fi find someone slutty to be a slut wid </div></div>

So Tanya not slutty enough Skells?


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she too far

[Skelly]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">confused ...cause the woman not black....and i'm sure there are many people out there that the she/whoever could be slutty with

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sluts don't want sluts

[Marielle]

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Sad woman.....

Desperate to find a new man to prove to herself she had no input in the breakdown of her marriage.

Speaking in a denigrating way about other people will not endear her to anyone.
&quot;I don't judge but everyone is so slutty&quot; - awful!

Indeed, why doesn't she spend time alone? Then when you do meet a nice man, you're not desperately needy.

When you're happy alone, a good relationship is the icing on the cake.

In her current woe-is-me state, any *normal* man would run a mile, I would think.
She also sets herself up to meet the type of men who are control freaks/&quot;saviours&quot;, etc. Now those are the ones you should be running a mile from.....

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
She's bitter. I can see from the tone of her article that she probably did not want to get divorced.
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apparently her ex was a closeted homosexual who is now openly living a gay lifestyle. </div></div>

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[Suesumba]

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i'm wondering if the tables were turned and it was she leaving with the man after the other woman sat there batting eyes at him all evening being all demure, if she would class the other woman as a &quot;prig/prude&quot; or just get on with her life and have a ball&lt;--tee hee hee.

[quodlibet]

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is this what we end up with after decades of systematically destroying gender role expectations?

[mountaingal]

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pls clarify what role expectations have been destroyed..

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Quodlibet</div><div class="ubbcode-body">is this what we end up with after decades of systematically destroying gender role expectations? </div></div>