She made a very big mistake

[Wendy]

Re: She made a very big mistake

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">see that's the thing, she put ALLLLL her money into this dump of a house.

<span style="font-weight: bold">She alone put up the down payment on the house.
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They have completely redone the kitchen with brand new everything purchased on credit.

Neither one can manage the mortgage plus the debt by them self.

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Mi can si why yuh title the thread that way.... **sigh** Aaah sah

That is down right madniss to be buying house wid man an yuh alone a foot di entire funds. Mi believe seh an investment like dis need a partnership in every sense a di word...but dats just me.

But anyway ...are they married? Because if not, why shi cyaan put im backside out!

[twiney]

Re: She made a very big mistake

If him name on the title she cant

[Skelly]

Re: She made a very big mistake

yu fren sound like a murder victim waiting to happen...

[Gen]

Re: She made a very big mistake

Ditto

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yu fren sound like a murder victim waiting to happen... </div></div>

[Gen]

Re: She made a very big mistake

Yuh know what ? Give her one taser fi early Xmas gift first. Then she need fi leff di stalker wukliss bway. Give her after she leave cause if him see it him might lose a screw

[diabolical_Tanya]

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well mi talk to her today.

she is not concerned about him becoming physical against her.

She told him that they were over and he should move out. he refused but agreed to staying in separate rooms.

Then he proceeded with the childish/abusive behavior.

she likes the temp cool at night. he cranked up the heat.
she turns off lights him follw behind her an turn dem back on.
he knows she is asthma/allergic to the scent of bounce him goh wash him clothes an mussie use bout 10 bounce sheets fi dry dem.

Shi is nat leaving di house

[Tulip]

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So, it has a name? Morbid Jealousy

I used to call it mania.

She needs to go regardless of the financial loss. Her money will accumulate again. The sane and insane cannot live together in peace. Somebody is going to get hurt, and if he pushes her hard enough, it might be him.

I'd even suggest relocating since she's starting from scratch anyway.

[Jazz]

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I could write an epistle on this... simply put she just needs to get far away from him. His living in the same house with her is not going to appease him - he will still make her life a living hell - As a matter of fact he is pleased with this arrangement because it makes him feel that he still has control of her and the situation.
Some times you need to cut your losses and move on - you cannot put a price on your life and your peace of mind.
Yes - she did make a very big mistake...

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: She made a very big mistake

Mi done wid har

Last Wednesday shi tell how shi noh want to go home because he is there and it is uncomfortable.

friday shi tell mi how him went out thursday night an neva come home. &quot;first night shi had a good sleep&quot;

Monday shi tell mi him move out and staying wid him cousin.

Tuesday shi tell mi seh &quot;they love each other and he comes home from work every evening so they can have supper together an dem trying to work tings out.

So Tuesday mi invite har fi come shopping after work wid me an a nex girl. she agreed to come and spent the whole time txting him, and pouting bout shi noh in the mood to shop an juss waan goh home.

today mi hear seh shi not coming to the company xmas party because it is on the same night as his an shi going to fi him party wid him \o/

Mi done.

[Gen]

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he moved out and then proceeded to turn on the charm, to win her back.

She fell for it.

Him soon turn vampire again.

[DearK]

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She certainly loves the roller coaster!

[applepie]

Re: She made a very big mistake

Sometimes these ladies see the red flag left, right and center but rationalize it just because they fear being alone.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: applepie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Sometimes these ladies see the red flag left, right and center but rationalize it just because they fear being alone. </div></div>

EXACTLY

[Skelly]

Re: She made a very big mistake

well you know..it is easy to judge when you on the outside looking in..hopefully her awakening won't come at some tragic point ...and sadly that is usually the case in these types of relationships