flirting

[MarieK]

Re: flirting

mi nah chat tuh yuh Bre 8 an yuh mussi a wait till is 88 fi sen pan picture come gi mi

but seriously though Sweetsop, mi would rather have a man weh stand up to mi dan have wan weh yes Marie mi every single day.

Me rather have one weh get up and go a work and mi an him argue 2 likkle time dan have wan weh lay dung inna bed all day and nuh gi mi no resistance

and mi rather have one weh oppose mi rather than agree w/ me all the time, at least mi know seh him aware, what women don't know is that half the time the man don't answer or seem to agree, they are NOT listening.

Men of ANY race don't like pushovers, nto to say that violence is a way to get a point across but hey yuh mek a mistake, mek a point make up and laff ova it.

No sah mi need fi free up and confident inna mi relationship.

[Hush Darlin]

Re: flirting

hush marie mi wi soon sen u some pictures

[ZaraJah]

Re: flirting


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Mrs. It ain't about *ME* but I am on to something. You put IT out there yet all you want is for people to agree with you...

Again, I call it as I see it and I do not condone VIOLENCE on ANY LEVEL. Why does it matter to you so much what *MY* opinion is on the subject anyway? Don't worry about me Mrs. M and what I think. It is not about *ME*.

You put it out there and I call it as I see it. Others might be afraid because they have history on this board, but your responses don't bother me, neither will it change my position. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cool.gif[/img]

Now, why not address the other posters who did not condone your violence? Or, is it easier to deal with *ME*? I am not that bothered or interested...really, I am not. I am busy watching Dr. Phil and reading my variety of SELF HELP BOOKS. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

Though I'd enjoy going back and forth on this, I am no longer interested because I've already said my piece...so will humbly bow out here. Take care Mrs. M. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

Re: flirting

actually I am making it about you because I choose to.

You don't really bother me, actually I am home sick and bored

Isn't it childish to PM conversations about people. I am sure Dr. PHil mentioned hypocrisy, now does he condone or condemn?

I just have never met someone like you before well yes I have but she was an obsessive compulsive woman who is lonely to this day and man is she miserable

Why should you release and express your feelings:

When a potential stressor is perceived as threatening, the person’s level of arousal is increased and stress is experienced.

There are some similarities between mechanical systems and human systems that are useful in appreciating the powerful effects of stress. Every system, human or mechanical, has limits and requirements for effective functioning. Each system operates within the limits of tolerance for demands, pressures and tensions placed upon it. The electrical circuits in your house are capable of handling a limited amount of power. When more energy is demanded than is safe to handle, the circuit is broken or a fuse is blown. If the water pressure in your plumbing is higher than it is designed to handle, a fitting will eventually leak or burst. If you run your new automobile hard all the time and neglect the proper maintenance, it will start giving you trouble and will deteriorate more quickly. Keep neglecting it and it will breakdown and force you to attend to it. Pushing a system beyond its limits and neglecting proper maintenance invites deterioration and breakdown.

Just like machines, human systems have limits and breaking points and require maintenance. If you are under increased pressure, push yourself hard and neglect the proper maintenance on yourself, you will also deteriorate and eventually have a breakdown. Your body will force you to stop and attend to it. If you neglect the maintenance in your marital relationship, your spouse will start giving you trouble, there will be a deterioration of the relationship and a breakdown in communication and goodwill. Don’t push yourself so hard that you use up all your best and have nothing left for your spouse and family but fatigue, intolerance and irritability. Don’t risk the loss of your personal relationships or the loss of your health. Save some of your best for your loved ones and yourself.

Stress can be Harmful to Your Health

Inappropriately handled stress can be devastating. It lowers our resistance and makes us more vulnerable to illness and disease. The increased inner pressure can cause our health to deteriorate resulting in a variety of serious physical problems. Stress victims can become emotional cripples and physiologically old and run down long before their time. Stress can cause a loss of not only health, but also loss of jobs, loss of families, even loss of life.

People under stress also make more mistakes, and these mistakes can cause others to be secondary victims to someone else’s stress. I would not want to have surgery by a stressed surgeon or be cared for by a stressed nursing staff. Nor would I want to be a passenger on a plane maintained by a stressed maintenance crew or flown by a stressed pilot.


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Be free Zarah, let it go, it's a beautiful feeling


hamnyaaa renge cyoooooo hamnyaaaa renge cyoooooo try it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

Re: flirting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">if sumtin like dat did happen inna my house...mi would haffi lef(or sombody would haffi lef) </div></div>

~lol~

Mi memba years ago David tell mi say im did waa put im foot chroo mi computa screen cawse mi whenna spen to much time pan ie (dat was roun di time mi discova oonuu an oonuu obeah mi)

When im tell mi, im tell mi during a time when wi did jussa chill so im neva say it in anger, but mi coulda tell say im did feel strongly enough bout ie...

So mi tek time awf fram de board fi reassure im say mi an de computa can exist apart ~lol~

Still, if im did eva mad enough fi mash up mi computa (an yeah a was fimi cawse im is not a puta smaddy) mi agree wid yuh, smaddy ooda did affi lef...

Regarding the flirting ting: I have been told that I am a flirt, but mi no really ting so [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] I have spoken to men (and some ooman to [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img] ) and because I listen attentively, and am empathetic and friendly and because mi appreciate a good joke, they perceive this as flirting. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]

An a so dem tings deh wi get outta han eno. Yuh a chat to smaddy an tink say dem undastan yuh, nex ting yuh know dem waa come talk bout yuh a lead dem on...

So das why people nuffi flirt, cause a nuff buttu out deh who cyaa recognise a joke ting...

[kingy]

Re: flirting

lol Marie K a bad ooman yah and a she wear de pants.

[ZaraJah]

Re: flirting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
An a so dem tings deh wi get outta han eno. Yuh a chat to smaddy an tink say dem undastan yuh, nex ting yuh know dem waa come talk bout yuh a lead dem on...

So das why people nuffi flirt, cause a nuff buttu out deh who cyaa recognise a joke ting... </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] That is so true. I have seen similar situations being played out at work. A wink, smile and gesture can lead to monumental issues.

I think the art of flirting effectively is to understand the intention of both or whatever the number of parties involved. But even that is risky. When in doubt, I say...walk away. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]