Overweight lover in the house...

[franksterr]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: franksterr</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...about size Monique for the gents or Ruben for the Ladies...</div></div>

Franksterr, I don't think Monique and Ruben are equally yoked lol. In the body category, Gabourey Sidibe is more inline with Ruben. </div></div>

Okaaaaaay forgive me, WoW!
Now I notice that fat people in general tend to be very funny and jovial doesn't that help in terms of getting to know and having a lasting relationship

[Wendy]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

Big people need love too.

The irony is that SOME people (male/female) turn to food because of the lack of love and emotional abuse from a partner. A lady I worked with told me that gained 90lbs during her marriage because of low esteem brought on by abuse.

She left the marriage ... gained more weight from depression. Someone saw something in her .. the fact that she was smart and giving... dated, fell in love with her. They got married.. Still keep in touch with her and today she is 155lbs thanks to the support she got from her new husband to get her weight down. He cooked for her and took walks. She said she didn't even need a gym. The love and support was all it took.

As for the question, I haven't dated anyone obese in my life, but given the fact that people CAN lose weight I am open-minded.

[quodlibet]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

so just to be clear, which monique unna talk bout?