Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

[dahjah]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wha mek unno cheat in de fuss place </div></div>

if a ooman naah treat har man right an a tek care a him de way she supposed tuh den wah yuh expekk?
denial is one of de worst tings in a realtionship.

[Compry]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: kingy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">fi mi its de fact dat a next man a RAM OUT mi ooman belly bottom. because no man weh a wuk smaddy else ooman ahgo be romantic and tek time. den when him dun dun out mi ooman mi a tek har up wid dun sinting. nah sah </div></div>

I'm very slow at times so please help me understand this. Are you objecting to another man cheating with your woman?

Going back to the initial question...are you wondering why a woman would get upset if her man cheats on her?

Help me understand. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/helpsmilie.gif[/img]

[Compry]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wha mek unno cheat in de fuss place </div></div>

if a ooman naah treat har man right an a tek care a him de way she supposed tuh den wah yuh expekk?
denial is one of de worst tings in a realtionship. </div></div>

Fair enough...what if a man does not treat his woman right and someone else out there treats her better? Would you be OK with her cheating on you?

[Suesumba]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: kingy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">fi mi its de fact dat a next man a RAM OUT mi ooman belly bottom. because no man weh a wuk smaddy else ooman ahgo be romantic and tek time. den when him dun dun out mi ooman mi a tek har up wid dun sinting. nah sah </div></div>

[dahjah]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compry</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wha mek unno cheat in de fuss place </div></div>

if a ooman naah treat har man right an a tek care a him de way she supposed tuh den wah yuh expekk?
denial is one of de worst tings in a realtionship. </div></div>

Fair enough...what if a man does not treat his woman right and someone else out there treats her better? Would you be OK with her cheating on you? </div></div>

I would never be ok with her cheating on me. But de way mi stay mi naah guh gi har a reason fi cheat needah. Mi treat my ooman good dat shi nuh need fe look else where. If she look else where is she who would have let the devil in the relationship not I.
De reasoning mi give is when a woman fi some reason (sometimes yes it a de fault a de man cahhim naah duh wah him fi duh) just stop doing tings fi mek har man happy and him nuh stop. Could happen fi a shawt while an de man will ovastan seh shi a guhtroo supm, but not on a continuous basis almost like de man nuh di deh. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[missus_vegas]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: kingy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">


but seriously now...which man ago romance a next man ooman? not only dat which ooman weh a teef a piece from a next ooman man ago want him be romantic. more time she jus waa u beat up de ting mek she bawl, pick up u tings and leff promto before har hubby come home. </div></div>

u think so? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] interesting!

[JM1]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">this whole cheating thing... man it aint so black and white...lots of grey areas to consider</div></div>

True true. For example, most of the time, it is the relationship between the playa and the skank that is the focus of attention and blame. But to fully understand how everybody got to that place, you have to go beyond and below that.

[missus_vegas]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JM1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">this whole cheating thing... man it aint so black and white...lots of grey areas to consider</div></div>

True true. For example, most of the time, it is the relationship between the playa and the skank that is the focus of attention and blame. But to fully understand how everybody got to that place, you have to go beyond and below that. </div></div>

yes and some times he's not necessarily a player and she aint a skank....

alot of men who cheat say its not bcus of sex. they'll admit that they love their wife the sex is good she still turn them on etc but...but...but...theres a but

i think cheating happens bcus a need isnt being met in ur realationship. wen we think cheat we automatically think o the sex isnt good enuff...wrong...

alot of women will tell u they cheated bcus they liked the attention and they weren gettin it at home. men the same thing. she didnt feed their ego as much as the "other" woman did

and of course some man just dyam bad!!!![img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[kingy]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

men will cheat simply because its new kitty.

[KgnJa69]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

Men cheat = sexual gratification!
Woman cheat = emotional gratification!

Yu think? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[JM1]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">alot of women will tell u they cheated bcus they liked the attention and they weren gettin it at home. men the same thing. she didnt feed their ego as much as the "other" woman did

and of course some man just dyam bad!!!!</div></div>

Many of Freud's theories have been discredited. But if there is one contribution that he has made to understanding human behavior it is this: situations that we find ourselves in as adults are very often related in some way, to experiences we had when we were growing up. In other words men are not just bad or looking to have their ego's fed and women are not just victims or looking for affection…by accident.

It may be that we choose partners and relationships that represent in some way, an experience we had in our formative years that we are attempting to correct or repair in some way. This is especially so in regards to how we give or receive love….and just as importantly, how we don't give or receive love. This is occurring, for the most part, on a subconscious level so a lot of people do not become aware of this unless they are in therapy or are naturally very introspective and insightful.

Anyway, the whole issue of why we choose the partners we do and why we put up with their behaviors is very complicated and probably off topic. Sorry to highjack the thread !

[fraggie]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

You see when woman found say har man a cheat she nuff fi say nothing. Cause wah, you met chick at a club or on the street
and later decide fi go check har cause you want use sausage and
damage up har salad.

Some tings you would do sexually with some woman you don't really
care about Yu nyaa go do it with a woman you care for.

There difference between hardcore sex and romance weh yu with woman you care about.

Some real hardcore sex yu give some gal cause thats all them good
for.

Don't worry about that as long as he having safe sex. When he finish he will always come back home to see you and romance
when the mode kicked in.

[Suesumba]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DuppyBredda</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You see when woman found say har man a cheat she nuff fi say nothing. Cause wah, you met chick at a club or on the street
and later decide fi go check har cause you want use sausage and
damage up har salad.

Some tings you would do sexually with some woman you don't really
care about Yu nyaa go do it with a woman you care for.

There difference between hardcore sex and romance weh yu with woman you care about.

Some real hardcore sex yu give some gal cause thats all them good
for.

Don't worry about that as long as he having safe sex. When he finish he will always come back home to see you and romance
when the mode kicked in.

</div></div>

so you wouldn't object if your woman a goh out fi a spicier sausage than your own? don't worry, she'll come back to you and give you romance. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/dizzy.gif[/img]

[Compry]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DuppyBredda</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You see when woman found say har man a cheat she nuff fi say nothing. Cause wah, you met chick at a club or on the street
and later decide fi go check har cause you want use sausage and
damage up har salad.

Some tings you would do sexually with some woman you don't really
care about Yu nyaa go do it with a woman you care for.

There difference between hardcore sex and romance weh yu with woman you care about.

Some real hardcore sex yu give some gal cause thats all them good
for.

Don't worry about that as long as he having safe sex. When he finish he will always come back home to see you and romance
when the mode kicked in.

</div></div>

Spoken like a true gentleman. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[gullygirl]

Re: Ldies wah mek unu mad when/if unu man cheat

yuh soun like one helleva catch.. where do I sign up?