Your First...

[ZaraJah]

Re: Your First...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I may be over thinking this thing but I don't want to take any risks and ruin my marriage. </div></div>

So... Why would there be any risk in your marriage being ruined if you have no feelings for him?

[turtledude]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I told the Mr... he has no objection to me seeing my ex provided that it is in a public place which I am definately in agreement with...well he was kinda iffy at first but I had to remind him of the time his ex came back from Italy and the two were parked up in my front yard while I was in JA...that's my trump card right there [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]


But after all that to be honest I really don't want to go stir up no ants nest so I think I am going to leave him alone.
[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>
...every individual handles this stuff differently...but I was thinkin that if your husband was a little bit "iffy" at first...he's still going to be iffy when you come home, no matter what "logic" you throw at him....his first reaction should have told u that...u sure your not jus tryin to even the "spreadsheet"?

[Bandana]

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Skelly [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

Girl if the man still have feelings for you, you a soft spot for him, and pikney on the way which make soft spots softer sometimes...

Me say leff it alone Skells...

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I may be over thinking this thing but I don't want to take any risks and ruin my marriage. </div></div>

yu plan fi rooks him pan di belly? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I may be over thinking this thing but I don't want to take any risks and ruin my marriage. </div></div>

yu plan fi rooks him pan di belly? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] </div></div>

you nah see she have soft spot just for him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[julie*mango]

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Nooooooo Sue [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]..... mi can barely position right ya now anyway. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

Zarah...it's risky because the Mr may start to get uncomfortable then out comes the demons... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]

TD...I don't think it's so much about the spreadsheet but it's nice to have something to pluck his nerves with if need be. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

Bandi..I agree with you 100% [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

Again Sue and Bandi...noooooooooooo mi would a too fraid fi tangle wid dat deh beast right yah now [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Bandi..I agree with you 100%
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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img] so when you goin meet him for lunch?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

Cause sometimes me nah always do what is right [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]


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[Suesumba]

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Skelly, if your approach to this meeting is with the soft spot vibrations, i'm sure your husband will pick up on this and that is what would upset him. why upset him. don't make a big deal over it. don't dramatize what may otherwise be a mundate meeting of two people who once had something in common and now don't. don't mek yu husband feel a way man. turn the tables.

[julie*mango]

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Not sure if I will...I am going to prray on it.

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Skelly, if your approach to this meeting is with the soft spot vibrations, i'm sure your husband will pick up on this and that is what would upset him. why upset him. don't make a big deal over it. don't dramatize what may otherwise be a mundate meeting of two people who once had something in common and now don't. don't mek yu husband feel a way man. turn the tables.

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but she should still go - even wid di soft spot tingles and ting a gwaan?

I don't see the need..

[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but she should still go - even wid di soft spot tingles and ting a gwaan? </div></div>


Don't do it Skelly, a joke me make about when you gonna go...

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] God will lead you in the right direction if you listen [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but she should still go - even wid di soft spot tingles and ting a gwaan?

I don't see the need.. </div></div>

if di tingles ting a gwan shi noffi goh. if shi can untingle and see it as a meeting of old friends den shi should goh. if shi a gwannie gwannie bout ie tu har husband and mek di man feel a way, shi noffi goh. and shi shudden gwannie gwannie ovah next man to har husband period.

some a unnu watch tummuch rahtid soap hopera [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but she should still go - even wid di soft spot tingles and ting a gwaan?

I don't see the need.. </div></div>

if di tingles ting a gwan shi noffi goh. if shi can untingle and see it as a meeting of old friends den shi should goh. if shi a gwannie gwannie bout ie tu har husband and mek di man feel a way, shi noffi goh. and shi shudden gwannie gwannie ovah next man to har husband period.

some a unnu watch tummuch rahtid soap hopera [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] </div></div>

me noh watch soap opera....
the way me see it....she just noh bodda set up noh meeting and noh talk bout wid it no more wid har husband.....end a problem.

[julie*mango]

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Mi still deh yah e nuh.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wavey.gif[/img]

but anyway mi decide fi pray pon it and drop di argiment roun Mr Skells...

but no Sue mi nah gwannie gwannie ova him mi jus glad seh mi have an old friend nearby...

[fraggie]

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Its a very risky situation and could lead to other serious things
if you allow he or she to feed you with old memories thats you
would love to hear about. Then have you imagin things with he or
she in whole new way.