So an ex-boyfriend

[diabolical_Tanya]

who you had a really bad break up with..calls you out of the blue 6 months after....what do you do/say?

The break up had to do with dishonesty/cheating/lying yet you never had the chance to tell him how you felt (cuss him out an bax him dung)

How do you handle it?

[CeaBee]

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hmmm...he just called to say hi?

I would probably take the opportunity to cuss him off and bax him down [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]

[ILP]

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mi naw cuss im but im gwine know how well mi doin widout im baxide.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: So an ex-boyfriend

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">hmmm...he just called to say hi?

I would probably take the opportunity to cuss him off and bax him down [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] </div></div>I agree. You need closure [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[diabolical_Tanya]

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I do need closure Z....I need him to feel some of the pain he caused me....I did think I had moved on till he called today but he called and I feel just as pist off as I did back then. I think I might rope him in and then flip the switch

[Magician]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Aynat_SlvrTush</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think I might rope him in and then flip the switch </div></div>

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Mi cyaan help but feel sorry fi di bredrin!

[jamaica_dreamin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">hmmm...he just called to say hi?

I would probably take the opportunity to cuss him off and bax him down [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] </div></div>

ditto.

[ReggaeGirl2000]

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Agree to an extent, you DO need closure, but not that way.

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi naw cuss im but im gwine know how well mi doin widout im baxide.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] </div></div>

Mi agree wid dis. Success and a life well lived, is the best revenge.

But then again, why would I want to talk to him??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] I'd prolly just put him on permanent ignore...

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Aynat_SlvrTush</div><div class="ubbcode-body">who you had a really bad break up with..calls you out of the blue 6 months after....what do you do/say?

The break up had to do with dishonesty/cheating/lying yet you never had the chance to tell him how you felt (cuss him out an bax him dung)

How do you handle it? </div></div>

talk to him like a civilized human being. it's been six months. a soh yu tenda dat yu still a carry dat dem malice all now? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[Compry]

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Tanya, have you been thinking about cussing and baxing him dung for the past six months or did the call trigger the need to cuss him and bax him dung?

[CeaBee]

Re: So an ex-boyfriend

My contribution to the conversation would be little to none...and if him eva start wid "soh a guess u still mad wid me eeh"...that would open the floodgates

six months not that long a time when smaddy reallly hurt u

[Compry]

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Wamek? You would be giving him power over you. He'll think you've been miserable for the whole six months without him. Do you really want to give a man that much power?

Edited to add cause Cools edit fi har post: Six months is long for some. Some people (me) get over stuff shortly after being angry enough to get it out of my system.

Cools, life is too short and too precious to hold onto pain. I'm out of town visiting with a friend and last night they found a woman dead in one of their buildings. Just like that.

[CeaBee]

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how me a give him power?...me a tell him how him past actions affected me..

a noh me call him..him too brite

[Compry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">how me a give him power?...me a tell him how him past actions affected me..

a noh me call him..him too brite </div></div>


Den don't talk to him. Him nuh muss know sey him did hurt yuh. Why yuh think it took 6 months to call?