How do I go on??

**BoundBrook** · 03-22-2007, 11:18 AM

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(((((boo))))) I'm sorry you are going through this. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

**MsExced** · 03-22-2007, 11:21 AM

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]for you and your daughter

**Seveen** · 03-22-2007, 11:25 AM

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the best revenge is living well

**jamaicaboo** · 03-22-2007, 11:27 AM

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Boy you know it is hard, I barley have the strength to get out of bed and work, I try not to cry around my princess but I feel like I have no control!
I knew things were hard and we were having a rough time with me being sick but I never once thought he would walk away. I am moving this weekend and am trying to start over but dang it is hard!!!!
I tell myself it you love something let it go if it comes back then you will know but I just am hoping he will see that he belongs with us, it is hard thats all.

**Seveen** · 03-22-2007, 11:49 AM

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okay some tough love here

don't give that bway so much control over you that you're sick

you have to put one foot in front of the other and go on - for YOU

use this time to re-discover yourself - what do you like to do? who are you?

i've been a single mom for 7 years now - sometimes i like it better - the buck stops with me

and you're not starting over - you're continuing

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**Suesumba** · 03-22-2007, 12:01 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jamaicaboo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

1. After 4 years of marriage my husband walked out my daughter and I

2. he changed his number so we have no way of contacting him

3. we do not know where he lives

4. I love this man so much, I cannot imagine being with anyone again</div></div>

jamaicaboo, very sorry to hear you're going through all this. however, brace yourself for the bucket of icewater from me. look at points 1. 2. and 3, as i've listed them from your very own words. now consider point 4.

woman yu mad?!!! you are actually pining for someone who would treat you this badly?!! you lovehim?

xrist woman, you're gonna give yourself a nervous breakdown worrying about a man like this? don't know the other side of the story, but i would advise you to pick yourself up and carry on for the sake of your child. your daughter is young, she'll forget him in time.

**jamaicaboo** · 03-22-2007, 12:01 PM

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Seveen thanks so much for your words!!!
I guess when you picture life one way but it goes another you are not ready for it!!
I feel like I am a bit better and i think after i move this weekend it will help as I will no longer be in the "hoem" we shared, thanks so much your words mean so much to me!

**jamaicaboo** · 03-22-2007, 12:02 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jamaicaboo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

1. After 4 years of marriage my husband walked out my daughter and I

2. he changed his number so we have no way of contacting him

3. we do not know where he lives

4. I love this man so much, I cannot imagine being with anyone again</div></div>

jamaicaboo, very sorry to hear you're going through all this. however, brace yourself for the bucket of icewater from me. look at points 1. 2. and 3, as i've listed them from your very own words. now consider point 4.

woman yu mad?!!! you are actually pining for someone who would treat you this badly?!! you lovehim?

xrist woman, you're gonna give yourself a nervous breakdown worrying about a man like this? don't know the other side of the story, but i would advise you to pick yourself up and carry on for the sake of your child. your daughter is young, she'll forget him in time. </div></div>

So ture but my fear is that she will hate me, but i am sure she will understand it was not me who walked away from her. I know in time it will work out but it is the adjustment I guess that is the hardest.

**Suesumba** · 03-22-2007, 12:04 PM

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your daughter will love you if you love her. that is all. no need to be wringing your hands over what is to be.

**Nanook** · 03-22-2007, 12:10 PM

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(((J-Boo)))..you know we luv you like honey but girl, you MUST stop pining for this eeediot. WHY would you even want him in your life if he can turn is back on is own child and treat you so!

How do you go on? Well nobody ever said life was easy, but you MUST pick your self up, and dust yourself off and put one foot in front of the other and keep on keepin on. I'm so sorry for your pain but the man is not worth it.

I hope moving will help you and I hope this is the worst thing that ever happens to you in your whole life but trust us, it's really not the end! It is a new beginning! Hugs to you and baby Boo!!!

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**jamaicaboo** · 03-22-2007, 12:18 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nanook</div><div class="ubbcode-body">(((J-Boo)))..you know we luv you like honey but girl, you MUST stop pining for this eeediot. WHY would you even want him in your life if he can turn is back on is own child and treat you so!

How do you go on? Well nobody ever said life was easy, but you MUST pick your self up, and dust yourself off and put one foot in front of the other and keep on keepin on. I'm so sorry for your pain but the man is not worth it.

I hope moving will help you and I hope this is the worst thing that ever happens to you in your whole life but trust us, it's really not the end! It is a new beginning! Hugs to you and baby Boo!!!

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Thanks so much, I Know my faith will see me through and one of my favourite quotes is "If God brings you to it he'll see you though it"
Chin up for me and be strong !!! thanks again!

**swedishrasta** · 03-22-2007, 12:34 PM

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((((jaboo & daughter))))

My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Have faith that this too shall pass and that you will be able to carry through. The love for your daughter will help you through the hard times. Stay strong....

**Hush Darlin** · 03-22-2007, 01:15 PM

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Jboo I know it is hard
but remember you have a beautiful daughter
you have to be strong for her
Pick yurself up
Be positive
dont let your daughter lose both parents
she needs you now more than ever
i know it is easy for me on the outsdie to be telling you this
but girlyou gotta be strong

**Bandana** · 03-22-2007, 01:45 PM

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((((jaboo))))

Long time me nah see you [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] no wonder you are depressed!!

You need to come here more often!! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

Seriously, I know it is hard, and what everyone here says is true. What I do to help myself be positive is remember the fights, remember the times when I wished for this... then I love up my son, and make him laugh. Which ALWAYS makes me smile [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] I make sure he knows I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blushing2.gif[/img] and I pray [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img]

I will pray for you too. (((boo))) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

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