How do I go on??

[MarieK]

Re: How do I go on??

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">BOAL [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img] Boopie do you hear the echo?????????????

geeee.

Sniffing, nothing sweetie, mi too ambitious fi duh drugs, I babysat when I was 12 though. </div></div>

Good for you, I make a good living and had my own place, car etc since 23 so you stand there. No problems with taking care of myself no biggie. Don't fool yourself I probably make more than Croc tears. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

You seem to forget I'm a teacher as well this brings more money to the table. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

teacher that's what it is called now a days if aaff pap up

woieeeeee mi belly

[damask]

Re: How do I go on??

this board is the best, peer joak what was the original post again. Jboo hush this 2 shall pass and you will look back and laugh. Next time you will not give anyone that much power over you. Jboo a likkle [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

Lord you mek mi a cold hearted wretch fi a reason, U stop love mi tidey mi did stop from lass week.

[Boopie2]

Re: How do I go on??

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">BOAL [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img] Boopie do you hear the echo?????????????

geeee.

Sniffing, nothing sweetie, mi too ambitious fi duh drugs, I babysat when I was 12 though. </div></div>

Good for you, I make a good living and had my own place, car etc since 23 so you stand there. No problems with taking care of myself no biggie. Don't fool yourself I probably make more than Croc tears. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

You seem to forget I'm a teacher as well this brings more money to the table. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

teacher that's what it is called now a days if aaff pap up

woieeeeee mi belly </div></div>


You're a freaking idiot to add to your spread sheet everybody knows that I taught for 6 years in 2 daycare centers. Teaching in public schools can be a thankless and hard job. The meetings the planning, some of the staff and the politics behind it. I decided more money and individual care one on one can be made working privately, actually I'm making more than my friends that are still teaching. But that's neither here nor there. We all are loving, teaching, and guiding little ones to be productive and responsible citizens in this world. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] Now back to you tell me what big time Corporate office or CEO are you in charge of these days? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

You"re running around making yourself look like a fool, go take your own advice and seek help. Obviously anybody running behind their Mommy and Step Daddy worried and out of sorts, [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img] cause they want to get out of town needs help big time. You probably have abandonment issues that's why your britches were hot yesterday. Stay out of the nail salons cause obviously the glue is affecting your narrow silly little mind. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

Oh yeah, I can forward you information on the college I attended as well as the 2 Daycare Centers I taught. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Compry]

Re: How do I go on??

Ladies, would it be possible to take this private or to a new thread? Alternatively, I guess Jamaicaboo can start a new thread if and when she returns as this one is no longer about her situation.

[Nunya]

Re: How do I go on??

Is Jboo the one who married the man who did nothing to help or protect her after she was raped??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

btw, mi nah cast no stone, jus wanting some clarity... all the best to her daughter...

[jamaicaboo]

Re: How do I go on??

WOW I see alot of things happening here!!
Firstly LDR is a long distance relationship yes, but I did live in Jamaica with him for 2 years then married then had baby so it was not a two week vacation to run and get married.
Secondly I don't care what color you are black, white, yellow, red, we all hurt and feel pain, if you are in a relationship you must respect the other and help out
Thirdly,
The move is over and I feel a sense of releif. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img]
Yes I made mistakes but taking care of my family was my priority. He worked but his money was his money so I guess I should have picked up on this in the beginning. We did lots together but I think the reality was he had freedom here and had choices here, he could choose a car, he could buy the expensive shoes, he could go clubbing (which was 5 times a day every day) and with all the freedom he forgot about us, and me , and how hard I worked daily, I was a mother, a wife, a fiend, a cook, but hey no sweat off my back, what goes around comes around and he is all amazed that he comes by 2 weeks later to see he daughter only to see we no longer live there saying i am now keeping him from her (his frined called me to ask me if he could come over to drop by my movies which was totally not ture he just wanted to know where I live to report back to it)umm okay where was he for the months of january and febraury when she cried for her daddy daily. When she was in the hospital for 2 days last month with a viral infection???who knows! But he knew where we lived so he had the control or so he thought.
His work all of a sudden calls me today saying they need to update his address, bull**it, he sees I am moving on but has no control anymore as he has no idea what I am doing or where I am living, you see as I sat in my new house lastnight I was so happy I cried because now instead of being abused and putting up with it daily, both physically, mentally and verbally, this was MY house these are MY things, I moved MYSELF I cooked MY dinner for me and babyboo, this is now MY game and he no longer likes the rules oh well because this is MY life and no man will ever break me to the point where I feel hopeless.
JABOO feels great, it is monday, I have a new home and a new life, yesterday as I went around my old place making sure I left nothing behind I said aloud, good bye pain, suffering, abuse and lies and I locked the door behind me and smiled the whole way back to my new place............GOD I am on the right path now come with me and take my hand............I feel strength and I CAN DO THIS!!!!

[delawaregrl]

Re: How do I go on??

Here is one big hug for ya!! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

Re: How do I go on??

darn it here's two [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

[Hush Darlin]

Re: How do I go on??

(((((((((((((((JBoo)))))))))))))))
you go girl [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Nanook]

Re: How do I go on??

YAYYYy JaBoo! I KNOW you can do this, and you will be stronger for it! (((JBoo & little JBoo)))

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[Suesumba]

Re: How do I go on??

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jamaicaboo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

1. He worked but his money was his money so I guess I should have picked up on this in the beginning.

2. he could choose a car, he could buy the expensive shoes, he could go clubbing (which was 5 times a day every day) </div></div>

Jamaicaboo, remember that relationships are partnerships. good luck going forward, but don't ever settle yourself to this type of arrangement ever again [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

[mountaingal]

Re: How do I go on??

good for you that you've taken charge of your situation, jboo. your struggle is not over in your relationship with your estranged husband, but you are in a better position, and hopefully you will continue to get stronger emotionally.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jamaicaboo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">he is all amazed that he comes by 2 weeks later to see he daughter only to see we no longer live there saying i am now keeping him from her (his frined called me to ask me if he could come over to drop by my movies which was totally not ture he just wanted to know where I live to report back to it)umm okay where was he for the months of january and febraury when she cried for her daddy daily. When she was in the hospital for 2 days last month with a viral infection???who knows! But he knew where we lived so he had the control or so he thought.</div></div>

pls take the next step and get a legal separation that spells out custody and access rules (and support) - the reality is that as a father he does have certain legal rights, although some men use that to punish their estranged wives rather than build someting with their kids.

also, recognize that you are still emotionally vulnerable, and you may succumb to taking him back - especially now that it seems he may have learnt a thing or two about taking you for granted.

[Bandana]

Re: How do I go on??




(((Jaboo))) most of us are here for you, to help lift you up, to help you remember what needs to be done, to help you cry about what has been done, and to help you look toward a happy future... you took that first step [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] it is the hardest... now we gotta just keep walking, and praying!

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[nattydreadgirl]

Re: How do I go on??

(((JamaicaBoo)))

Each day will be a little easier, you will get a bit stronger, and you will have more clarity in this situation.

Keep your head up high, It is not the end, but, the beginning.

[julie*mango]

Re: How do I go on??

JABoo I am so glad to hear that. See it is not hard but no matter what happens to make yu fall on your face there is no place to go but up. What MG said about getting a separation and custody issues. It's gonna take a while to work stuff out but I am sure you will manage. Glad ot see the change in attitude. Remember people will always have negative things to say. The key is to focus on the positive, learn from your past mistakes and MOVE ON.

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