ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 02:43 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

So time is still passing. T is still working at the Aquatics Center and Babygirl A is getting older. Now oonu lissen good, cah mi heart beat spead up right hereso. Even doh is years ago dis particular episode happen di taught of it mek mi [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] when mi tink about it. So excuse if mi sound kinna suh....

Anyway. One day after Babygirl A had a soccer game. I decided to take Babygirl A and T out for breakfast. No big deal. You know sometimes at particular restaurants orders are not brought to the table by your server, but by someone else from the kitchen. Anyway, this particular morning, that was the case. A young boy was running orders and brought ours to the table.

Mi seh mi neva inna all my years (ahn das plenty) see such shameful behavior inna my life. T start pon one piece ah flirtin wid di runner bwoy [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] mi seh im couldan more dan 16 or 17. Now T is a grown ooman. She all ah bat har yeye lashes and ah ask di bwoy fi bring tings to di table. When the server come fi ask wi how tings were. Hear har, "Things are great and I can make sure they are greater for you, if you make sure that young man comes back to our table" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] Mi gawd [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Babygirl A is at di table. It was embarrasing.

Of course di young boy ate up all the attention. And poored it on even thicker (he wanted the tip). I told her to calm it down at the table. I asked her if she had no shame, as Babygirl A was sitting right there. Her response: "What? I am only doing a little harmless flirting". Mi remind her that the boy was only a teenager. I even did one better and asked him how old her was and he said he was 17, he'd just had a birthday. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

We finished breakfast. I paid and Babygirl and I headed to the car. On our way out, T went back to the table and gave our server more money and a note with her phone number to give to that young boy. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img]

mi gawn fi get some water ahn go calm miself.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

**Boopie2** · 04-01-2007, 02:45 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Aftahnoon peeps [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] ....mi calm dung now....sarry....where was I...ah yes.

T was asked to leave har job after a year cah she did pregnant again. Smaddy ansa mi dis. Daht nuh illegal fi fire smaddy cah dem is pregnant but unmarried [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] Of course dem said she was a horrible teacher and di pickney dem wasnt learnin a ting, but all di gossips was about har being pregnant.

Anyway, T was pregnant again and decided after much rangling with the new baby daddy (him cuss har and said it wasnt fi im chile), that it wasnt a good idea to keep this baby. She felt she was just getting back on her feet and with her job dismissal, money would again be an issue. So she decided to have an abortion. She asked me to go with her to get rid of the baby and I told her that I couldnt. I dont believe in abortion (personally), it isnt what I would do, but mi not gwine shame one neddah ooman daht tink is right fah dem. She went to some family planning place and had the abortion. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

I am not sure what happened to new baby daddy, but I didnt hear T speak about him after the abortion.

Now di current mr. ilp tink mi should have gone with her to get the abortion, cah daht is what friends do. But mi juss couldan dweet. Suh im seh daht was mi fuss mistake. What onnu tink? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]
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If you don't believe in abortion morally you didn't have any obligation to go with her for any support. If you ask me you've been supporting and backing as soon as she became pregnant. Guilt would have plucked at you for going to the clinic with her. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 02:46 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ILP getting dangerously close to the status of Boundbrook [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] </div></div>

how suh, when is juss las night mi start it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]
mek sure you still pon strike, yuh here [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] mek sure you restin youself

**kia027** · 04-01-2007, 02:46 PM

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((((ILP)))) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] come back soon

**julie*mango** · 04-01-2007, 02:50 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ILP getting dangerously close to the status of Boundbrook [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] </div></div>

how suh, when is juss las night mi start it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]
mek sure you still pon strike, yuh here [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] mek sure you restin youself </div></div>

Ok at least we a get di story in a faster time dan BB but lawks ooman tap tease we an gi we di full hundred nuh!

An yes mi still deh pan strike. Di house is dutty an mi not doing a damn ting. Not even water mi hot fi him dis mawning. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/nahtalktoyuh.gif[/img]

Now back to the regularly scheduled program. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

**Shine_Eye_Girl** · 04-01-2007, 02:50 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So time is still passing. T is still working at the Aquatics Center and Babygirl A is getting older. Now oonu lissen good, cah mi heart beat spead up right hereso. Even doh is years ago dis particular episode happen di taught of it mek mi [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] when mi tink about it. So excuse if mi sound kinna suh....

Anyway. One day after Babygirl A had a soccer game. I decided to take Babygirl A and T out for breakfast. No big deal. You know sometimes at particular restaurants orders are not brought to the table by your server, but by someone else from the kitchen. Anyway, this particular morning, that was the case. A young boy was running orders and brought ours to the table.

Mi seh mi neva inna all my years (ahn das plenty) see such shameful behavior inna my life. T start pon one piece ah flirtin wid di runner bwoy [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] mi seh im couldan more dan 16 or 17. Now T is a grown ooman. She all ah bat har yeye lashes and ah ask di bwoy fi bring tings to di table. When the server come fi ask wi how tings were. Hear har, "Things are great and I can make sure they are greater for you, if you make sure that young man comes back to our table" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] Mi gawd [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Babygirl A is at di table. It was embarrasing.

Of course di young boy ate up all the attention. And poored it on even thicker (he wanted the tip). I told her to calm it down at the table. I asked her if she had no shame, as Babygirl A was sitting right there. Her response: "What? I am only doing a little harmless flirting". Mi remind her that the boy was only a teenager. I even did one better and asked him how old her was and he said he was 17, he'd just had a birthday. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

We finished breakfast. I paid and Babygirl and I headed to the car. On our way out, T went back to the table and gave our server more money and a note with her phone number to give to that young boy. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img]

mi gawn fi get some water ahn go calm miself.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] </div></div>

ILP...You and this woman (took alot to say that) seem like 2 different people...how did you 2 manage to become friends? Or should I call it a friendship?

In all of this I feel sorry for the child......

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 02:52 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If you don't believe in abortion morally you didn't have any obligation to go with her for any support. If you ask me you've been supporting and backing as soon as she became pregnant. Guilt would have plucked at you for going to the clinic with her. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] </div></div>

ah suh mi feel Boops, but di current mr ilp seh mi is friend so mi should go wid har. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 02:55 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ILP...You and this woman (took alot to say that) seem like 2 different people...how did you 2 manage to become friends? Or should I call it a friendship?

In all of this I feel sorry for the child...... </div></div>

daht is di 1,000,000 (US) question TLC. mi ask miself daht all di time, but is Babygirl A why mi dweet. Or at least das what mi tell miself. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

**Shine_Eye_Girl** · 04-01-2007, 03:09 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ILP...You and this woman (took alot to say that) seem like 2 different people...how did you 2 manage to become friends? Or should I call it a friendship?

In all of this I feel sorry for the child...... </div></div>

daht is di 1,000,000 (US) question TLC. mi ask miself daht all di time, but is Babygirl A why mi dweet. Or at least das what mi tell miself. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] </div></div>

ILP...maybe its time for you to seperate yourself from this woman. I know it hurts because you have a tight bond with her child, but this anger isn't healthy at all.

**Hush Darlin** · 04-01-2007, 03:16 PM

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mi dis a read dis yah story
but mi ketch up now and mi need fe get the ress a de tory

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 03:24 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

OK a few weeks has passed and I am at T's house picking up Babygirl A to take her to a soccer game. I am waiting inside di living room fi Babygirl A to gather her things, when T asks if she can ride with me to the game. We go back and forth as Babygirl and I have a hair appointment after her game and I didnt want to have to drive back to drop T off. But T says she will catch a ride with someone else.

At the game, T and I are sitting on the side lines cheering Babygirl A on and T asks me if my mother (who is now a retired nurse) or one of sisters (one is a pharmasist the other is an OBGYN) could "possibly" write her an RX/get her some medicine. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] So I asked her for what is everything OK. T has terrible asthma btw and bad allergies. Her weight has not helped the situation either.

Anyway, I asked her what she needed medicine for, if she couldnt go to the clinic where she was going with the medical assistance and see a doctor. She said she did and that the RX was too expensive, so she was asking around. I asked was it her asthma, she said no. She said, "I have PID" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] Well mi muss spring chicken cah mi neva hear of such, so mi ask har what name PID? She went on to tell me that it was Pelvic Inflamatory Disease [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] Mi ask har how she get daht? (Memba mi neva know dem kinna tings...suh nuh come wid no jokes [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] ) She tell mi seh is STD and daht she got it fram di N (das what mi will call him). So mi ask har who is daht. She seh is di bwoy at di restaurant daht wi did see daht time when wi did eat there [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] faint weh....

Mi coulda cuss har right dereso, but mi ketch miself cah Babygirl A was within ear shot. Mi ask har where di RX's was and she tek dem outta har purse and show dem to me. Mi tek time ahn mi ask har when she did have time fi lay dung wid di young bwoy? If di bwoy nuh belong inna school? Mi ask har if di bwoy parents know bout har? What di hell was wrang wid har [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] If she did know seh is crime fi sleep wid smaddy unda 18. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] All now she nuh ansa.

Anyway, later that night mi call mi sister and tell har di latest wah T do. She tell me daht some people juss need prayer and help, suh mi muss carry di RX dem come. Mi tek di RX to my sister and she fill dem-FOR FREE. But come to fine out T get RX fah PID, goneria (daht spell right?) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] and Herpes [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] Well mi not lettin daht go. Mi call T bout it and she have di nerves fi ketch attitude seh my sister had no right to share that info with me. It was confidential. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] I explained to her that she has these STD's that could kill her and that my concern was for her, but more importantly...Babygirl A [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img]

T goes on to say that she talked to N about the STD's and that he swears he doesnt know how she could have caught it because he knows that he was clean. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Does T stop seeing N? Does 3 STD's teach her anything?

Mi soon come.....

**Hush Darlin** · 04-01-2007, 03:37 PM

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laawd a massy
ilp she need some seriopus fasting and praying for

**Shine_Eye_Girl** · 04-01-2007, 03:40 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body">OK a few weeks has passed and I am at T's house picking up Babygirl A to take her to a soccer game. I am waiting inside di living room fi Babygirl A to gather her things, when T asks if she can ride with me to the game. We go back and forth as Babygirl and I have a hair appointment after her game and I didnt want to have to drive back to drop T off. But T says she will catch a ride with someone else.

At the game, T and I are sitting on the side lines cheering Babygirl A on and T asks me if my mother (who is now a retired nurse) or one of sisters (one is a pharmasist the other is an OBGYN) could "possibly" write her an RX/get her some medicine. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] So I asked her for what is everything OK. T has terrible asthma btw and bad allergies. Her weight has not helped the situation either.

Anyway, I asked her what she needed medicine for, if she couldnt go to the clinic where she was going with the medical assistance and see a doctor. She said she did and that the RX was too expensive, so she was asking around. I asked was it her asthma, she said no. She said, "I have PID" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] Well mi muss spring chicken cah mi neva hear of such, so mi ask har what name PID? She went on to tell me that it was Pelvic Inflamatory Disease [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] Mi ask har how she get daht? (Memba mi neva know dem kinna tings...suh nuh come wid no jokes [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] ) She tell mi seh is STD and daht she got it fram di N (das what mi will call him). So mi ask har who is daht. She seh is di bwoy at di restaurant daht wi did see daht time when wi did eat there [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] faint weh....

Mi coulda cuss har right dereso, but mi ketch miself cah Babygirl A was within ear shot. Mi ask har where di RX's was and she tek dem outta har purse and show dem to me. Mi tek time ahn mi ask har when she did have time fi lay dung wid di young bwoy? If di bwoy nuh belong inna school? Mi ask har if di bwoy parents know bout har? What di hell was wrang wid har [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] If she did know seh is crime fi sleep wid smaddy unda 18. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] All now she nuh ansa.

Anyway, later that night mi call mi sister and tell har di latest wah T do. She tell me daht some people juss need prayer and help, suh mi muss carry di RX dem come. Mi tek di RX to my sister and she fill dem-FOR FREE. But come to fine out T get RX fah PID, goneria (daht spell right?) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] and Herpes [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] Well mi not lettin daht go. Mi call T bout it and she have di nerves fi ketch attitude seh my sister had no right to share that info with me. It was confidential. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] I explained to her that she has these STD's that could kill her and that my concern was for her, but more importantly...Babygirl A [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img]

T goes on to say that she talked to N about the STD's and that he swears he doesnt know how she could have caught it because he knows that he was clean. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Does T stop seeing N? Does 3 STD's teach her anything?

Mi soon come.....

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Mi sarry ILP...di story cyan get nuh wuss dan dis.

Wat ah wutless ting.....maybe she fed up wid life an want it fi end....dat cyan be di ongle ting weh cyan explain di reckless behavior.

An she all guh lye dong wid di yung bwoy.....no sah sumtin nuh rite.....

**Gen** · 04-01-2007, 03:58 PM

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well it's quite possible the bway not telling lie..she couldan get the STDs from odda swingers but dat not the pint nuh choo..

she still behaving recklessly

**julie*mango** · 04-01-2007, 04:00 PM

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But isn't PID when you have chlamydia untreated for years and then it develops into that?

ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

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