When An Old Flame Seeks You Out

[Tulip]

Re: When An Old Flame Seeks You Out

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIELPEE</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what oonu do? </div></div>

Hmm, I'm starting to think there must be something in the air.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">I even did something similar this year, but I definitely would not call it a &quot;track down.&quot; Big mistake!</div></div></div>

I read the rest of the posts first this time and it really depends. In your situation, I'd return the call and let him know you have a current MrILP.

I'm with PZ on the old wood. For me, it was crazy, confusing, and quite unexpected how easy it was to catch. I also for the first time believe if it ended, there must have been a good reason.

Now about this calling you thing when he has no reason to have your number. I wouldn't like that. He could have at least started the message with so-and-so gave me your number. Had an ex who had some sort of epiphany last year and got my number from an old friend and started blowing my phone up. I have yet to take a call. It took forever for him to stop too. I might have talked to him if he had given me a chance to return the call.

[Tulip]

Re: When An Old Flame Seeks You Out

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pawt_Two</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
suh tell mi supm yuh move from weh yuh did deh an galng out dehsuh, so is how him get de house numbah if yuh neh geem? </div></div>

This sounds like something the ex-husband would say right before he flipped out. I probably would have had to buss a cap in his [censored] if he had gotten the message,

[ILP]

Re: When An Old Flame Seeks You Out

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pawt_Two</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
suh tell mi supm yuh move from weh yuh did deh an galng out dehsuh, so is how him get de house numbah if yuh neh geem? </div></div>

This sounds like something the ex-husband would say right before he flipped out. I probably would have had to buss a cap in his [censored] if he had gotten the message, </div></div>

lawd flawahs, you mad fi true, enoh? aye sah....
after di current mr ilp ask what was &quot;up with HIM?&quot;...im nyam his sandwich and nu seh nutten else bout it.
mi delete the messige, but mi check the caller id and see is few times im call yessidey and twice today, but no messige though

[CyberPhobic]

Re: When An Old Flame Seeks You Out

Mi wood cawl him bakk, hawks him whe/how him get di numba and den fine hout wat him want, befo mi jump tuh enny conclushan.

Him mite nuh want nutt'n ceptin fi sey hello and how yuh doin. Awwfta rall, unnoo was once a item, suh wha wrang widd him juss sayin hello?

Mi stay in touch widd nuff a my ole flame dem. Annuh nutt'n once dem kno where yuh stand. It nuh hurt eeida wen yuh kno each a dem &quot;strengths and weaknesses&quot; and can get yuh needs addressed ackawrdingly.