Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

Kingy its just time to move on wid my life. We have been together for for years, and you continue to tell me that you don't know if you ready for this.......what am I supposed to do? Wait for him to figure it out?

We moved in together after a year.....I'm just fed up of him and everything. I just don't want to do this anymore. I don't have the drive to continue fighting for this.

I have put up with so much and forgave so much.....and his time is just up!!!!

[kingy]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

leggo him den and deal wid u ting den sistren.

[7777]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

TLC, why u a struggle soh me dear..
If u heart a tug so, cus the man a give u heartache, why u bodda?
U muss look inside u self, and deal with the issues of what meking u so unhappy with it, and den deal with it with no regrets..
Life too shart ya, fe worry bout what if's..
Seize the day, and go buy u self, new frock, new hair [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] and do you..

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

An dat is weh mi deh rite now......

Mi nuh have it inna mi fi fite anymore......an mi nuh wan wurk nuttin out nuh more.

[7777]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

u haffe look pon the mentality a some men enuh..
dem just want dem cake and eat it too, and noh want to give nutten *lasting* in return.
Why is it dat we oomen, have fe be the ones that will move de earth fe men?
why de men cant do dat and give we what we want too? Nutten wrong with a likkle *fifty fifty too..*
If after all dem long ole years dem u a give, and u nay get what u tink u shoulda get, a time u realize seh u a get shartchanged, and a time fe haul u frock, and tek stock a de situation...
(yes me wayna listen to Dear Pastor from jamaica nite before lass and a soh him woulda seh.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img])


Sometimes, u just haffe be the hard one and tek charge a de situation ya and u life.....

[damask]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You know B, I don't think I am in love with him like that anymore. I think its because I do not want to be alone or feel like i've wasted 4 years of my life for nothing.

Everytime I think we get a step closer to making it work, he reminds me why we are in this trouble to begin with. I have been way too patient and I really don't have anymore to give at this point.......

I still love him, but the love is not like it used to be...for me at least

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((((((TLC)))))))) cannot say I can relate to what you are going through, but if something is making you unhappy leggo it. I will never short change myself for anyone obviously he isn't doing it for you. Please do not take this the wrong way, as I always say there are three sides to every story (situation) yours, his and the real story. I am sure he will say something entirely different, sis if you cannot work it out move on. I personally think if it takes too much effort to work out, it jus aint gonna fit right and life is too short for ifs and maybes.

I experience all that this week when my life flashed before my eyes in a car accident, I really thought I was a goner when my car ended up in a ditch on the side. TLC, you only have one life, live it to the fullest and be happy. I see where you stated you jus doan waan feel like yu wasted four years and doan want to be alone. Remember sis, you can be amongst family and friends and your SO and still feel alone, contentment comes from within. Not saying you not contented, the higher being have plans for you sis. Maybe he jus not the one, you will know when it is the right one, some women rush into marriage jus to be married and then regret it. Living 4 years with him is jus to show you the possible problems in that relationship, so he is doing you a favour when he does not want to committ. Lots more fish in the ocean plus single life is so sweeeeeeeeeeeet [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

I live alone in my house, and the SO live alone in his house and I like it that way. He pushing for us to ive together but am not ready for that, doan even know if he is the one. I think am too young fi hook up wid anyone yet, single life so sweeeeeeet [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]plus him rent mi own and anyone I hook up with have to bring the equivalent to the table.I know one thing, the type of person I am if you stop loving me today I had stopped caring from last week, but that's me am cold that way. Wish you all the best hon, remember you do not need someone else to complete you. TLC maybe a the ty-ty yu gonna miss, likkle joak i'm mekking with yu sis and you know what I mean by ty-ty (((((TLC&son))))) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

I am just tired of the same old don't know if i'm ready for this conversation......juss guh bout yu bizzness den.

I am so disgusted with myself for waiting it out for so long.....don't know what women wouldn't be......

But yu live an learn...den yu move on..... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

Mi tink say yuh did dun wid dis man fram im did lick yuh infronta yuh son... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

[Gen]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi tink say yuh did dun wid dis man fram im did lick yuh infronta yuh son... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] </div></div>


[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] warra [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

[ILP]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi tink say yuh did dun wid dis man fram im did lick yuh infronta yuh son... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] </div></div>

faint weh....wah... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

me noh have dis pon mi spreadsheet [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[Tanesha]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

mi di remember sumting bout dat...but TLC marriage is not a gaurantee of anything...nuff ppl noh married and dem partner is more committed to them than those that are married....nuff married people a live in misery....if it nuh right now what yuh think marrige going to do? It solves nothing it does not make a relationship stronger nor does it change a person

Marrige does not make someone stay home....be faithful....it nuh duh a dyam thing...more than declare seh unnu is together and that seh wah?

Mek mi ask yuh dis TLC...if unnu was married what yuh think would be different?

[Nunya]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">me noh have dis pon mi spreadsheet [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

I could be wrong...

[ILP]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TT</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi di remember sumting bout dat...but TLC marriage is not a gaurantee of anything...nuff ppl noh married and dem partner is more committed to them than those that are married....nuff married people a live in misery....if it nuh right now what yuh think marrige going to do? It solves nothing it does not make a relationship stronger nor does it change a person

Marrige does not make someone stay home....be faithful....it nuh duh a dyam thing...more than declare seh unnu is together and that seh wah?

Mek mi ask yuh dis TLC...if unnu was married what yuh think would be different?
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well said TT [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70458-applaud.gif[/img]

ah suh mi wan know too?

[CeaBee]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

that's why me did ask the question if dem happy other than the marriage ting....


she answer and seh that them have other issues...looks like boyfriend not ready to settle down period.