Is she wrong?

[Fyah]

Re: Is she wrong?

I don't agree. She is right to keep the ring. Only a good for nothing man would ask for a ring back. What would he plan to do with it anyway? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Who the heck would want a used ring?

From what I remembered, some states’ laws dictate that the ring must be given back. Some say that it was an unconditional gift that the potential bride can keep regardless of the circumstances. Other states agree that if the man broke off the engagement, the woman has the right to keep the ring.

It is up the the woman and what she chooses to do with her gift, at the end of the day. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cool.gif[/img]

[MsExced]

Re: Is she wrong?

I would give back the ring, why have unnessary(sp) drama in your life.

[RichD]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Rundung</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

It is up the the woman and what she chooses to do with her gift, at the end of the day. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cool.gif[/img]

</div></div> actually it up to the law in the jurisdiction in which seh lives....

[Bink - the Only]

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no, it is NOT her choice. etiquette and LAW in the states say .. if he breaks the engagement, she can keep the ring. if she breaks the engagement, the ring belongs to him.

only seems fair to me.

[UKBlackLady]

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Why would she want to keep it? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

[Wahalla]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">She received an engagement ring, only to find out that her finance of 3 years had a "spotted" past that she insists need to be resolved before she can sincerely set the wedding date.

She discussed that with him to which he agreed until he decided that if she loved him, she would take him "with his spots".

After she refused to move forward until he takes care of his business, he in turn became angry, called off the engagement and asked for her to return the ring.

She said it was a gift and see no reason why she should return it, and furthermore, he was the one who called it off, as she was willing to wait until he clean up his "spots".

Now she has decided that she does not want to spend her life with him...but out of principle, will not return the ring.

She has moved out of state and is being bombarded with emails from him but ignore them.

Is she wrong?

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Yes plus pay for any vlaue depreciation....

[Tropicana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">She received an engagement ring, only to find out that her finance of 3 years had a "spotted" past that she insists need to be resolved before she can sincerely set the wedding date.

She discussed that with him to which he agreed until he decided that if she loved him, she would take him "with his spots".

After she refused to move forward until he takes care of his business, he in turn became angry, called off the engagement and asked for her to return the ring.

She said it was a gift and see no reason why she should return it, and furthermore, he was the one who called it off, as she was willing to wait until he clean up his "spots".

Now she has decided that she does not want to spend her life with him...but out of principle, will not return the ring.

She has moved out of state and is being bombarded with emails from him but ignore them.

Is she wrong?

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Yes, she is wrong. She should return the ring and move on.

[Blackstar*]

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Twins!

[RichD]

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so thats whats under the hat!

[ZaraJah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlackStar</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Twins!

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This makes me laugh. Wasn't it suesumba who stood on the highest platform of repremand on how lewd and unacceptable on a G-rated board my now defunct avatar (seen here wearing a cap) was?

I can remember clearly when I first came here getting beaten up over that...which pales in comparison.

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[ZaraJah]

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I spoke to the joker yesterday and she still insists on not returning the ring.

New News: Apparently, she had done gone and upgrade the stone, behind his back and does not think he deserves to get the ring as is. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

I am still trying to understand that mess.

[Suesumba]

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actually no. it was your nemesis loops i believe. you currupted me.

[turtledude]

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....I don't know what's wrong with them... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] to me it sounds like they are both made for each other!!! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

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well can't she just downgrade the stone and give it back?

[Gen]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">btw...when yuh keep a ring liek dat what yuh do wid it? wear it fi go out? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] </div></div>

yuh tek ie mek necklace or aizering [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

but seriously though dem seh is a contract and once the contract is void the ring fi gie back