Your husband's family what would you do?

[Suesumba]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i would be difficult [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]

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passive agressive can work like a charm in cases like this eh? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]

[kia027]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

but Marie
You noh see where the husband not supporting the wife so you have to take baby steps. As fi mi pitch in fi odda people.. Truss me when u set u financial goals it is easy to say 'I dont have the money for that

Mi wouldnt bring things to a head and cause permanent damage but would just tek a paced approach.

[MarieK]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

Kia, honestly, I truly think you are a perfect wife [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img]

Mi too bare and to the bone. Remind me of a family member who asked for 100% human hair fi a weave in Jamaica. Mi response was "suh dem nah cut awf peeple hair a Jamaica, guh a di salon an beg dem fi di hair weh leff ova piecen it an sow ie eeen a yuh head"

One cousin did axe mi fi wan shoes and mi did a guh sen ie until she seh "fi wear guh a di Heineken promotion a treasure beach" hear mi, "yuh betta fine wan rubba chree or tie awn a banana leaf an galang"


I do see where he is not being supportive, but my thoughts are "you are a man, you should have come in trained an I aint yo momma so I am not training you" plus people live by example.

Smaddy mi now use to tell her husband fi call when him coming home wid him family if dem go out while dem staying wid her "she seh "for mi comfortable pon di sofa" (which usually mean seh she inna wan tshirt an panty. Afta bout di tird or 4th time him stawt complain seh him want if walk roun inna him boxers/.

[MarieK]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

double post

[Suesumba]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">after the has the kid, she should just run weh </div></div>
and get alimony and child support </div></div>

nah. she needs to just leave that mess behind. the man noh believe inna birth control soh har body and mind is gonna be STRESSED to the max. di man aggoh mad har to rackstone. me'eda leff. mi know wan man foofa wife run weh leff him wid dem 5 pickney fi raise. i know there's a certain amount a shame inna dem ting dem, but body and sould comes first. besides, with that tightly wrapped family i'm sure there'd be no shortage of hands fi wash nappy and feed pickney [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

Marie dem wudda want a dawta in law like you fe set dem straight
you betta ask Boopie fe de wife numba so u can teach ar a few a you tricks

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">after the has the kid, she should just run weh </div></div>
and get alimony and child support </div></div>

nah. she needs to just leave that mess behind. the man noh believe inna birth control soh har body and mind is gonna be STRESSED to the max. di man aggoh mad har to rackstone. me'eda leff. mi know wan man foofa wife run weh leff him wid dem 5 pickney fi raise. i know there's a certain amount a shame inna dem ting dem, but body and sould comes first. besides, with that tightly wrapped family i'm sure there'd be no shortage of hands fi wash nappy and feed pickney [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] </div></div>
well a chroo dat
dat ooman a eediat too
but maybe she like to breed

[MarieK]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

BOAL aye sweets, mi granny taught mi di art of self-preservation.

[kia027]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] far from a perfect wife but mi know how fi compromise..

plus mi nag in a gentle way until mi get what is needed into the plan (see the bathroom & kitchen posts inna Home & Garden) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

Oh I did read them and it resulted in having the soiled tilled today to start the vegetable garden. We having callalloo, cucumbers, tomatoes and scotch bonnet peppers

[kia027]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

Ohhh nice.. Whe u get the callaloo seeds from? and how do you plant dem? Mr Kia started some from seed and they are doing well so far [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

[Gen]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">after she has the kid, she should just run weh </div></div>

not permanently though...she should take vacations by herself..just charge it to his credit card and go shopping in Milan, Paris etc.

[MrsBlue]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

<span style="color: #3333FF">I'd compromise. We can visit with them AT MOST 1xmonth and annually for a SMALL vacation. As someone else said, I barely have time for myself and my (non-extended) family. What about my side of the family, his in-laws? When do we see them? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

If he doesn't like it, tough. He can go with them every weekend and on vacation. And take the brats with him. </span>

[MarieK]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

the other day when I was in NY no less than 48 hours, mi manage to get some from a friend.

Oh and mi did figet bout fi mi family, what happen to them when I am so wrapped up in his.

If mi want smaddy fi duh meeda guh move back een wid Dawn but since mi deh pon mi own dem lucky.

I would NOT make an excuse about whether or not i can afford it, I'd simply tell them NO.

[damask]

Re: Your husband's family what would you do?

jus ICE hubby, end of drama [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]