What to do

[St_Bess]

.....fix the glove box.

A dat me sey too but seriously there is not much the daughter can do at this stage is only 2 months. Low Papi until Viagra catch up with him there are some serious side effects with taking the "blues" and remember there is no fool like an old fool - 27 years old what happen to the 40 and 50 year old women? I would not like it myself but there is nothing one can do without having your Dad take sides.

[Peasie]

.....fix the glove box.

[missus_vegas]

Have a talk with daddy make sure him spending wisely. Ie him not spending too much more than he would had it been an older woman. See where it goes. He's a big boy. Who knows they could both just be having some fun. Maybe it will be just a fling. And hey who knows maybe the 27 yr old is genuine and would tek careva him in him old days.

My great uncle was in 35 yr gap relationship with his so called " care giver" dwl. She lived comfortably and he was well taken care of and the family coulda only chat but dem had o leave him alone.

[Jazz]

I say live and let live...

This man probably worked hard all his life... looking at retirement now and then it's downhill from there...

If this chick makes him happy and she is happy with his wrinkly ole weiner - more power to them

So what if he gives her all his money - it's his to give - not the daughter's

As long as him nuh expect mi fe call har Mommy - we are good!

[Lacy]

FIX THE GLOVEBOX??? OMG


Seriously? I agree with Jazz. At least you know the man is taking "precautions." Being a baby-daddy at his age could drain whatever "retirement" savings he has. That said--if the woman makes him happy. I'd be happy for him. God only knows the amount of time we have on this earth--and if he wants to spend his "golden years" enjoying that time with a woman young enough to be his daughter/granddaughter, I say "Good for you, Poppa!"

[DearK]

FIX THE GLOVEBOX??? OMG


Seriously? I agree with Jazz. At least you know the man is taking "precautions." Being a baby-daddy at his age could drain whatever "retirement" savings he has. That said--if the woman makes him happy. I'd be happy for him. God only knows the amount of time we have on this earth--and if he wants to spend his "golden years" enjoying that time with a woman young enough to be his daughter/granddaughter, I say "Good for you, Poppa!"

@ glovebox repair. I was hoping to catch up with her and get behind the vent, but that hasnt happened due to our schedules. I am curious about how they all got along at dinner! She had expressed some anger that his involvement with this new love may be causing him to make ill advised business decisions and she is questioning outside influences- she;s blaming new g/friend about him being in process of selling some real estate, without consulting any of the children. She wouldnt consider that maybe dad had been thinking of this for a while and new love probably wouldnt be so heavily involved in such intimate business.

[DearK]

annn a lik fingah tu

This sounds really weird- what does it mean?

[Skelly]

how old is too old? not every woman who deh wid a much older man have daddy issues or looking money from dem. maybe dem genuinely enjoy each other company? es no posible?

[CeaBee]

a 40? year difference?

I think he genuinely enjoy her company yes (i.e. : flattered that a younger woman would be interested in him ) Her motives I wonder about.

[missus_vegas]

a 40? year difference?

I think he genuinely enjoy her company yes (i.e. : flattered that a younger woman would be interested in him ) Her motives I wonder about.

what if he is a 67 yr old who tek good care of himself and look more like 55 ish and wat if she is a 27 yr old who act and thinks more like a 37 yr old

nah? u still no buy it?:shrug:

[CeaBee]

not for my father. anybody else out there me wouldn't business wid.

[Skelly]

I got involved with smaddy much older than mi...cudda be mi fawda..(but he ain't ) ...and although now things are great, we share a lot in common blah blah blah.. mi do realize seh 20 years from now wen him a 75 mi still *young* and hot and probably a look a cub fi rob from di cradle fi mi own sick pleasure...lol

Some ppl look fi smaddy fi spen di ress a dem life wid...others look fi smaddy fi di here and now wid no regard fi tomorrow. It is nobody business fi judge dem if both a dem truly happy.

[CeaBee]

There is always judgement. I would tread carefully as to who, or why I vocalize it.