Do women allow?

[KgnJa69]

Re: Do women allow?

Men cheat = physical act only! We come home and figet bout ie!

Women cheat = emotional act (most a di time). Come home a day dream... he loves me, he loves me not [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[Nylah]

Re: Do women allow?

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[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Scarface</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Men cheat = physical act only! We come home and figet bout ie!

Women cheat = emotional act (most a di time). Come home a day dream... he loves me, he loves me not [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] </div></div>Scarsy!!!! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

Re: Do women allow?

You can"t say that "all" men cheat just because they are men. That's pure bull, a real committed man isn't going to step outside of his union with his mate. That using a condom is absurd too, your relationship isn't that serious at all to me if you have to say this. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] You are indeed endorsing cheating to me.

[Kurlie]

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I say the same thing to Boopie...and if you expect him to cheat and he doesn't, what then?

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unnu tan deh bout condom. wabbout crablouse and scabies. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img] </div></div>


lawd crablouse ah kill dem ...... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[ILP]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skells</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

Mi have a policy..

1. Don't leave anything out there
2. Don't bring anything back here
3. DON'T mek me fine out. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] </div></div>

mi gwine use dis one [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] skelly

[MarieK]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I say the same thing to Boopie...and if you expect him to cheat and he doesn't, what then? </div></div>

Actually, some cheat cuz we expect them to [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

Re: Do women allow?

soh the trick is not letting them know that we expect them to.

see me learn someting from this thread [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[ZaraJah]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skells</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Queen_Aynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dr. bones</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Someone on here in an LDR has talked about cheating and how he should use a condom if he cheats. </div></div>[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] that could have been me [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

Adressing the topic, I would not say that women "allow" their men to cheat. Men are going to cheat! regardless if they have "permission" to or not. That is my personal belief, I'm not asking anyone to share it with me, or to agree with me. I just ask that my cheating man use a condom when he does.

disclaimer coming </div></div>if mi a undastan weh yuh type den mi agree wid dat to.

Mi naw seh it arite fe him cheat or mi a gi him permission..but if him dweet i would hope him use condom an nuh cum bring bak no disease to mi </div></div>

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I think expecting fidelity from a man is naive..and di Mr hate it when I talk like that but it is true...as women we set our selves up for ish that could have been prevented from day 1 had everyone been straightforward. </div></div>

Amen!

There isn't any wo/man that I know, who wants to go to sleep thinking that the man to whom they have committed is out there wrapped up with another, but ish happens. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]

How can a woman prevent a man from cheating anyway. Where do they think they could get that power?

The ones who believe that they are successful at that game are the ones who are getting cheated on the most.

[MarieK]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">soh the trick is not letting them know that we expect them to.

see me learn someting from this thread [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>

heck no. mek a put ie dis way. if di man come home an yuh strip search him, suspcious every time him gwoat wid him fren dem , call him every flippin minute cuss bout di movie tickit inna him cyar an den yuh figet a yuh him did cyarry or if everytime him deh pon di fone yuh tun dung di tv him a guh know seh yuh nuh truss him an yuh expect him fi go a road and he may do just that.

yuh cyaan really listen to me CB, my experiences in life has me thinking like a man in most situations.

Call me naiive [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] but mi nuh have suh much energy fi a check phoen an play private eye, wuss like how mi jine di gym, mercy fawda mi look tuh di leff an it was all kinda variations of chocolate up in there. I'll step in a minute.

I don't expect infidelity, wont accept it but aware that it may happen. No one can stop anyone from cheating, just like he can't stop me from cheating. He's at work, how can he know where I am. All I gotta say is "honey I'm in a conference all day" and just disappear.

See what I mean, there has to be an established base of trust but when it is broken (and in some cases it will and it will not) then you move on or out, whichever you prefer.

Story: Amy cheating on Chad because he cheated on her. He noticed there was a difference in her so he picked her up from work every evening and took her every morning, thing is Chad had to work at lunch and couldn't drive back all teh way to midtown manhattan to check up on Amy. guess when Amy cheated [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img]

[nattydreadgirl]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Do some women allow their men to cheat? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/ideathink.gif[/img] </div></div>

NO! cheating=character flaw, it is up to each individual whether that is a character flaw in a mate they are willing to deal with or not!

[Boopie2]

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True you can not prevent it if that's what he wants but sitting back talking about "as long as he wears a condom it's all good" and " he's a man so he's expected to do such" you are enabling him to do it as well as giving your blessings.

If he loved you he would be man enough to be faithful period. Let him seperate or divorce if he's so miserable no way is he going to have his cake and eat it too. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[julie*mango]

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Hey Boopie...nobody said it's all good. You'd just hope that if he was out there being a nasty ho that he would at least have the sense to be a safe ho. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Do women allow?

How is that enabling him?? Mi cyaan speak fi nuhbaddi else but annuh like seh mi gwaan siddung wid mi man an seh 'babe, yuh can go cheat but just make sure u wear a condom an it'll be fine with me' [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

What *I* am saying is if him a go out deh go cheat (w/o my knowledge) hopefully him a do it safely so dat him nuh cum back an a have sex wid me (thinking he's being faithful) an gimi nutten.

Mi sure mi neva seh mi condone or expeck or waan mi man fi gimi bun. But at the same time mi naw go be a fool an seh it cyaan happen to mi or my man would neva do dat to mi. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]