Do women allow?

[ZaraJah]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">What *I* am saying is if him a go out deh go cheat (w/o my knowledge) hopefully him a do it safely so dat him nuh cum back an a have sex wid me (thinking he's being faithful) an gimi nutten</div></div>

Exactly my thoughts. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

Since I can't control anyone, I have had FRANK discussions and laid down the law in the past and plan to do the same in the further should I decide to become sexually involved with anyone, that if they decide to go to war... PLEASE WEAR THE HELMET.

Wouldn't it be very irresponsible, infantile and short-sighted of me NOT to have that discussion...more importantly to PROTECT myself? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

Re: Do women allow?

Like I said "If" he loved you he wouldn't be slinking out doing anything with a woman or a man. Why be exclusive to one another if he still has the need to be with another person?

Ok a quick question, how many would be in an exclusive relationship if he told you straight up he was going to have sex with this one and that one and come home to you. Would it be Ok if he told you his intentions up front, laid everything on the table?

Wouldnt it just be better off being single and doing whatever you want to do?

[gullygirl]

Re: Do women allow?

which man wid sense a guh tell ooman seh him intend fi sleep roun?..an which ooman wid sense a guh tink dat is ok??
I dont think that is the issue here..

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Do women allow?

ya nuh...boopie, you gone somewhere else wid de argument

[nattydreadgirl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Like I said "If" he loved you he wouldn't be slinking out doing anything with a woman or a man. <span style="color: #FF0000">ISH HAPPENS </span>Why be exclusive to one another if he still has the need to be with another person? <span style="color: #FF0000">sometimes it is not about a need, but, about finding yourself in a situation where you dont make good choices. Being human, making bad decisions, being imperfect and flawed!</span>
Ok a quick question, how many would be in an exclusive relationship if he told you straight up he was going to have sex with this one and that one and come home to you. <span style="color: #CC0000">Speaking for myself if my husband told me that i would thank him for being honest with me, and then I would be honest with myself and step, knowing that I don't want to engage in that type of relationship! </span> Would it be Ok if he told you his intentions up front, laid everything on the table? <span style="color: #FF0000">Of course when someone is honest with you, it gives you choices</span>
Wouldnt it just be better off being single and doing whatever you want to do? </div></div>Yes, however, people don't always do the right thing, they will make life complicated...

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: gullygirl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">which man wid sense a guh tell ooman seh him intend fi sleep roun?..an which ooman wid sense a guh tink dat is ok??
I dont think that is the issue here..
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It's my post and I can turn things around as well. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/desdentado.gif[/img] Why lie about such things? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] If you're Oking him wearing the condoms then what's the difference. if he wants to be free Willy Nilly than he doesn't need to be in a serious relationship.

Could it be that you think the relationship is one thing while he's thinking it's another thing?

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: nattydreadgirl</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Like I said "If" he loved you he wouldn't be slinking out doing anything with a woman or a man. <span style="color: #FF0000">ISH HAPPENS </span>Why be exclusive to one another if he still has the need to be with another person? <span style="color: #FF0000">sometimes it is not about a need, but, about finding yourself in a situation where you dont make good choices. Being human, making bad decisions, being imperfect and flawed!</span>
Ok a quick question, how many would be in an exclusive relationship if he told you straight up he was going to have sex with this one and that one and come home to you. <span style="color: #CC0000">Speaking for myself if my husband told me that i would thank him for being honest with me, and then I would be honest with myself and step, knowing that I don't want to engage in that type of relationship! </span> Would it be Ok if he told you his intentions up front, laid everything on the table? <span style="color: #FF0000">Of course when someone is honest with you, it gives you choices</span>
Wouldnt it just be better off being single and doing whatever you want to do? </div></div>Yes, however, people don't always do the right thing, they will make life complicated... </div></div>


I agree, at least get out of your relationship before diving into something or someone.

[kingy]

Re: Do women allow?

wrong room.

[Boopie2]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: kingy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wrong room. </div></div>

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[bigbooie]

Re: Do women allow?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Do some women allow their men to cheat? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/ideathink.gif[/img] </div></div>

At cards may be.

[puddingtop]

Re: Do women allow?

i was browsing mining my own business when i saw the topic. Well in my opinion the woman that allows her man to cheat has problems satisfying him.some women dont mind sharing.