If you had the chance

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unu have too much rules </div></div>

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[loops]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unu have too much rules </div></div>

not rules....suggested (usually rejected) guidelines.

[Kurlie]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unu have too much rules </div></div>

a dat mi did a go sey unuh Z....rules, rules, rules...just do as you feel and as it comes. if him see the bed no mek him mek it..same wid me...if dishes ina sink, him tek take a it, so wid me...if him home all day and mi work, him cook, fi clothes fi wash him wash...

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] I guess we all are different, I can't imagine my grandmother cleaning all floors and polishing wooden floors on her hands and knees, polishing silverware by hand, washing, toting clothes outside hanging them waiting for them to dry starching plus ironing them cooking from scratch every day of the week plus dessert and keeping 8 kids in line. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unu have too much rules </div></div>

a dat mi did a go sey unuh Z....rules, rules, rules...just do as you feel and as it comes. if him see the bed no mek him mek it..same wid me...if dishes ina sink, him tek take a it, so wid me...if him home all day and mi work, him cook, fi clothes fi wash him wash... </div></div>

fi mi one rule is mi nuh duh outside wuk but dat is cause mi kill every thing name plant. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

but mi have ie dyaam good for wi nuh separate furniture an dem ting deh

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] I guess we all are different, I can't imagine my grandmother cleaning all floors and polishing wooden floors on her hands and knees, polishing silverware by hand, washing, toting clothes outside hanging them waiting for them to dry starching plus ironing them cooking from scratch every day of the week plus dessert and keeping 8 kids in line. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] </div></div>

I can't imagine anyone family or not doing that

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: If you had the chance

dat soun like how tings used to and still run a yaad fi nuff ooman

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">oh ok. well fi mi system is

Inside - Me

Outside - Him

Cyar - him
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but mi outsource some a di wuk. Ironing guh tuh di cleaners or dem come pick it up an cleaning service come eeen whenever a deep cleaning is necessary [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img] suh mi have ie easier </div></div>


[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] You mean you don't iron? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] Now that really sounds like a roommate situation to me. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] </div></div>

BOAL yuh a mad smaddy, no mi nuh iron, not even fi mi clothes, funny enuff mi married smaddy weh hate iron suh all our clothes go to cleaners.

Washing yuh owna clothes and having yuh owna furnicha now dats strange </div></div>



Washing clothes isn't strange to me you hate ironing and I"m not going to spend a whole day cleaning both of our clothes. I didn't say all of the furniture is his or mine when you are single and combine things that's what happens. I would love to get one big sectional sofa but he claims there's nothing wrong with what we have. I call it his couch cause I wouldn't claim it if I had to.


You hear of people being frustrated of having to share a bathroom, I use to be like that too until we decided that he would have his own bathroom and I would have my own bathroom. Plus we have 2 half baths if we choose to use those at any given time.

[loops]

Re: If you had the chance

so getting back to the subject at hand.....

anything of his you'd like to throw out mariek?

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: If you had the chance

PSP

cigar box

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] I guess we all are different, I can't imagine my grandmother cleaning all floors and polishing wooden floors on her hands and knees, polishing silverware by hand, washing, toting clothes outside hanging them waiting for them to dry starching plus ironing them cooking from scratch every day of the week plus dessert and keeping 8 kids in line. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] </div></div>

I can't imagine anyone family or not doing that
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Well my grandmother would think we were both strange for not doing everything inside and outside of the house, I didn't even mention the flower garden and the vegetable garden.Plus she worked outside of the home. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/dizzy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/dizzy.gif[/img] I can't remember seeing my grandfather do anything except go to work.

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so getting back to the subject at hand.....

anything of his you'd like to throw out mariek? </div></div>

one ugly picture in the bedroom (i thought I posted this, oops sorry) but I have a plan [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unu have too much rules </div></div>

a dat mi did a go sey unuh Z....rules, rules, rules...just do as you feel and as it comes. if him see the bed no mek him mek it..same wid me...if dishes ina sink, him tek take a it, so wid me...if him home all day and mi work, him cook, fi clothes fi wash him wash... </div></div>

Other than him cooking it's not like you tell him you have to do that common sense should kick in and have him helping as well. If I go to the grocery store and he's home he comes and helps me with the groceries. If I cook and am too tired to wash dishes he'll do it. If he's the last one in the bed he'll make it. You just do what has to be done nobody is standing over the other demading it has to be done.

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

I just threw out some Lipton's cup a noodle things, and some beef stew that he bought that was collecting dust. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] I just threw out his bathroom mat and bought a new one and a new shower curtain. OHHHHH and he has so many of those plastic cups from 7 Eleven I would like to fling them in the trash. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so getting back to the subject at hand.....

anything of his you'd like to throw out mariek? </div></div>

one ugly picture in the bedroom (i thought I posted this, oops sorry) but I have a plan [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] </div></div>

So do you claim the picture? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] can't you see it's the same as that ugly sofa I'm talking about? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]